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26-30, F
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Constantly sick.. from new baby
Y’all. I have been so sick since having a newborn.. I have had FOUR serious respiratory infections since starting my newborn in Day Care 3 months ago. I’m to the point now, that I’ve had them back to back and basically my lungs feel like they are shu...
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26-30, F
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5 replies
11 views
May 7, 2018
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Miscellaneous
Baby keeps getting sick, I keep missing work
Just had a baby 5 months ago.. I took a 9 week maternity leave.. I’ve taken off a few sick days. I think this is my fourth total.. but the truth is, my daughter has been really sick each time, and a couple times, I’ve been sick WITH her.. my work pla...
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26-30, F
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9 replies
24 views
Apr 23, 2018
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Miscellaneous
Juggling newborn with work
I just gave birth 4 months to the day. I’ve been back from maternity leave for about 2 months. I’ve only missed 2 days. I didn’t even take half my maternity leave because I was promised I could use those intermittently throughout the year. Well here ...
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26-30, F
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7 replies
22 views
Apr 16, 2018
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Miscellaneous
Love husband, but not attracted to him anymore
So, husband and I have been together for 6 years.. we just had a baby 4 months ago.. moved into a great house. I work a ton, he works Aton. We are both successful, good looking people. He’s smart, good looking, musically inclined, funny etc.. but I a...
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26-30, F
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35 replies
85 views
Apr 2, 2018
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Miscellaneous
Anybody else’s in laws just invite themselves over without warning?
My in laws keep inviting themselves over. They’ll just call/text and be like “we are coming over tomorrow” not.. so what are y’all doing tomorrow? We should get together. A lot of times they tell JUST me so I feel so pressured to be the sweet daughte...
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26-30, F
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27 replies
19 views
Mar 10, 2018
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Miscellaneous
Husband took maternity leave money
So i saved and saved for maternity leave starting 6 months before i took off.. that money was supposed to cover things like mortgage, food, diapers, formula etc, daycare. there was hardly anything extra.. i asked my husband before hand if he would sa...
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26-30, F
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47 replies
91 views
Jan 7, 2018
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Miscellaneous
Chores while staying with mom after newborn?
Husband and i just had a baby a week ago. Thought staying with my mom was a good idea but now she’s like.. asking us to do a bunch of chores.. carry these Christmas gifts upstairs, go get more fire wood, wrap these presents, put lights on the 10 foot...
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26-30, F
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13 replies
30 views
Dec 16, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Please share your newborn stories
Hello, Just had a baby 5 days ago. It has been so hard on us. She is up at night all night and sleeps during the days. Feedings every 2-3 hours. Sometimes inconsolable. It’s rally starting to take a toll on me as it feels like i haven’t slept in 3 da...
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26-30, F
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13 replies
25 views
Dec 12, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Can employer verify I’m in (or not in) the hospital?
Hello, I am scheduled to have a csection in 5 days. I worked up until I feel like what was the end (2 days ago). (Blood pressure was high, Doctor put me on bedrest) My work had a hard time accepting that I might take off a week before due date (it’s ...
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26-30, F
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3 replies
18 views
Dec 1, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Work judgmental about pregnancy
So I’m 37 weeks and have literally only missed ONE day my entire pregnancy. I’m kickin butt getting all my work done plus some.. I’m starting to notice tho I’m being judged for things like weekly drs appointments and taking a half day for a baby show...
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26-30, F
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3 replies
14 views
Nov 15, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Husband and friend ditched me after babyshower. Not coming home
So pregnant. 4 weeks from due date. Had a baby shower today. My husband starts telling me he needs guy time after the shower. He leaves with his friend. Also, my best friend who flew in town for shower leaves to go hang out with her other friends. S...
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26-30, F
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21 replies
71 views
Nov 5, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Husband is becoming a mooch but I love him with all my heart
So married the man of my dreams.. he's amazing in so many ways. Extremely smart, hard working, sweet as can be, does most of the household chores, funny as hell.. he's an attorney and he does make a good living.. but he's paying things...
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26-30, F
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19 replies
51 views
Oct 13, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Anyone have a positive experience coming back from maternity leave?
So I'm 30 weeks pregnant and HUGE... first pregnancy. I was a total rockstar with the company I've been with for over a year... up until recently when it just seemed like all of a sudden it dawned on them I'm going on leave in 2 months...
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26-30, F
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8 replies
20 views
Oct 9, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Pregnant. Husband said his life is going to suck for the next 18 years
So husband and I were talking this morning. We are expecting our first child, a girl. I'm in my 3rd trimester and miserable, working full time to support us. Husband says well I've been reading about the 3rd trimester. I said oh that's...
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26-30, F
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25 replies
87 views
Oct 3, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Havent announced pregnancy.. SIL did on FB
So we still haven't told some family memebers, friends or coworkers about pregnancy. Husband and I went to a baseball game. I posted a picture on Facebook. SIL comments "SHOW US THE BELLY!!!"... people start commenting OMG I didn'...
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26-30, F
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11 replies
35 views
Oct 1, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Hated for being top sales person
I work at a Fortune 500. Only female in the sales development department. I am also the top performer. My colleagues dislike me a lot. Super disrespectful, disagree with me at every chance they get - try to make me look bad etc.. it sucks because I...
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26-30, F
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9 replies
22 views
Sep 17, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Husband so sad.. abandoned by best friend. How do I comfort him?
Best man in our wedding, godfather to our child, my husbands ONLY friend has decided to go on an adventure to Australia (hasn't yet told my husband through conversation but husband saw a picture of a map and a hint that he was leaving on Faceboo...
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26-30, F
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16 replies
26 views
Sep 16, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Boss said "well don't you have quite the wardrobe"
I'm 7 months pregnant. Clothes that fit me are pretty limited. Have started buying dresses that I would consider very work appropriate. Flower pattern, solids, nothing too off scale. I admit I have almost a new dress everyday and I've had p...
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26-30, F
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5 replies
16 views
Sep 13, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Hired, then given paycut?
I accepted an offer for a really great job. Have been here 8 months. They asked me to start taking on some new responsibilities that led to a possible promotion... Well after doing the new job for 4 months the just told me a few weeks ago the new pos...
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26-30, F
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8 replies
38 views
Jul 19, 2017
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Work
Any husbands shut down emotionally after finding out wife's pregnant?
Husband has become so distant since finding out about pregnancy. I've put on a little weight and I've been tired and throwing up a lot. Not exactly a lot of fun but.. finding it disturbing husband won't talk to me, look at me, flinches...
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26-30, F
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19 replies
55 views
Jul 17, 2017
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Parenting & Family
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