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Brassm0nk3y
26-30, F
Join Time
1st 2 Yrs of SW
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20 Questions
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25 Groups
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1 Week Active
Please share your newborn stories
Hello, Just had a baby 5 days ago. It has been so hard on us. She is up at night all night and sleeps during the days. Feedings every 2-3 hours. Sometimes inconsolable. It’s rally starting to take a toll on me as it feels like i haven’t slept in 3 da...
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26-30, F
12 replies
17 views
1 day ago
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Miscellaneous
Can employer verify I’m in (or not in) the hospital?
Hello, I am scheduled to have a csection in 5 days. I worked up until I feel like what was the end (2 days ago). (Blood pressure was high, Doctor put me on bedrest) My work had a hard time accepting that I might take off a week before due date (it’s ...
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26-30, F
3 replies
17 views
Dec 1, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Work judgmental about pregnancy
So I’m 37 weeks and have literally only missed ONE day my entire pregnancy. I’m kickin butt getting all my work done plus some.. I’m starting to notice tho I’m being judged for things like weekly drs appointments and taking a half day for a baby show...
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26-30, F
3 replies
13 views
Nov 15, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Husband and friend ditched me after babyshower. Not coming home
So pregnant. 4 weeks from due date. Had a baby shower today. My husband starts telling me he needs guy time after the shower. He leaves with his friend. Also, my best friend who flew in town for shower leaves to go hang out with her other friends. S...
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26-30, F
20 replies
67 views
Nov 5, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Husband is becoming a mooch but I love him with all my heart
So married the man of my dreams.. he's amazing in so many ways. Extremely smart, hard working, sweet as can be, does most of the household chores, funny as hell.. he's an attorney and he does make a good living.. but he's paying things...
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26-30, F
18 replies
45 views
Oct 13, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Anyone have a positive experience coming back from maternity leave?
So I'm 30 weeks pregnant and HUGE... first pregnancy. I was a total rockstar with the company I've been with for over a year... up until recently when it just seemed like all of a sudden it dawned on them I'm going on leave in 2 months...
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26-30, F
8 replies
20 views
Oct 9, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Pregnant. Husband said his life is going to suck for the next 18 years
So husband and I were talking this morning. We are expecting our first child, a girl. I'm in my 3rd trimester and miserable, working full time to support us. Husband says well I've been reading about the 3rd trimester. I said oh that's...
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26-30, F
24 replies
76 views
Oct 3, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Havent announced pregnancy.. SIL did on FB
So we still haven't told some family memebers, friends or coworkers about pregnancy. Husband and I went to a baseball game. I posted a picture on Facebook. SIL comments "SHOW US THE BELLY!!!"... people start commenting OMG I didn'...
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26-30, F
11 replies
34 views
Oct 1, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Hated for being top sales person
I work at a Fortune 500. Only female in the sales development department. I am also the top performer. My colleagues dislike me a lot. Super disrespectful, disagree with me at every chance they get - try to make me look bad etc.. it sucks because I...
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26-30, F
9 replies
22 views
Sep 17, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Husband so sad.. abandoned by best friend. How do I comfort him?
Best man in our wedding, godfather to our child, my husbands ONLY friend has decided to go on an adventure to Australia (hasn't yet told my husband through conversation but husband saw a picture of a map and a hint that he was leaving on Faceboo...
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26-30, F
16 replies
26 views
Sep 16, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Boss said "well don't you have quite the wardrobe"
I'm 7 months pregnant. Clothes that fit me are pretty limited. Have started buying dresses that I would consider very work appropriate. Flower pattern, solids, nothing too off scale. I admit I have almost a new dress everyday and I've had p...
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26-30, F
5 replies
16 views
Sep 13, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Hired, then given paycut?
I accepted an offer for a really great job. Have been here 8 months. They asked me to start taking on some new responsibilities that led to a possible promotion... Well after doing the new job for 4 months the just told me a few weeks ago the new pos...
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26-30, F
8 replies
38 views
Jul 19, 2017
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Work
Any husbands shut down emotionally after finding out wife's pregnant?
Husband has become so distant since finding out about pregnancy. I've put on a little weight and I've been tired and throwing up a lot. Not exactly a lot of fun but.. finding it disturbing husband won't talk to me, look at me, flinches...
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26-30, F
19 replies
55 views
Jul 17, 2017
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Parenting & Family
Liklihood of internal promotion background check
Hey guys, I work for a really large company. Im worried because im 2 classes shy of a degree. The position I am in doesn't require one. In my initial application I put that I put my attendance dates. I have 5 years of college under belt, just di...
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26-30, F
9 replies
18 views
Jul 6, 2017
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Work
Anyone ever implied they finished college degree?
So I just started at this great, pretty large company 6 months ago. I had put the dates on my resume and area of study initially. No one ever questioned me about it or really point blank asked me if I graduated. I'm only 6 hours from finishing, ...
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26-30, F
11 replies
21 views
Jul 4, 2017
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Work
Dad didn't respond when I told him I'm pregnant
parents are divorced dad started a new family a long time ago. I'm married and stuff now, almost 30. Successful in my career - married to a great guy, he an attorney. We have our stuff together basically. My dad hasn't really reached out in...
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26-30, F
3 replies
25 views
Jun 18, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Did I stand up to the bully ?
This girl I work with she's kinda of a bully.. she's like 400lbs, super snappy insecure type.. she started out I noticed making a comment almost every single day about me. Whether it was the clothes I wear, my shoes, wanting to know what si...
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26-30, F
7 replies
24 views
Jun 14, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Would you consider this a "hyper aggressive email" after being told your bonus would be reduced
My boss's boss called me into a meeting a couple weeks ago to explain by jumping into a new position my bonus would decrease (after already jumping into the postion). she explained it in a really complex way - putting numbers all over the board...
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26-30, F
10 replies
15 views
Jun 7, 2017
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Work
Guy asked why I am on a social site after he tried to hit on me through DM.. told him married with kid on the way
Guy DMs me on here asked me to tell him about myself.. said I'm married with kiddo on the way.. his immediate response was "then why are you on a social site?" Tell me this site is not just all people trying to hookup/there is more sub...
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26-30, F
11 replies
31 views
Jun 6, 2017
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Miscellaneous
Called out for wrong verbiage while talking to huge potential client
So was trying to setup a huge meeting today with a big client. We have an exclusive partnership with a huuuuge fortune 10 company..it's one of our selling points..instead of saying "we are partnered with x company" I said "partial...
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26-30, F
6 replies
19 views
Jun 6, 2017
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Work
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