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26-30, F
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relationship in bad place.. can it get better?
When my husband and I first met we were so in love. We’ve been together 5 year, just had a baby.. and although we had our share of disagreements before the baby.. it seems like all of a sudden, 6 months after baby has been nothing but criticism “you ...
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26-30, F
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6 replies
22 views
2 days ago
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Confronted mom about being too busy for granddaughter and it ya it didn’t go well
I told my parents they are behind the 8 ball on spending time with their 7 months old granddaughter. I let them know that my husbands parents (and his sister) have started to offer a lot of help and it disappoints me that they haven’t offered once to...
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26-30, F
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38 replies
38 views
Jul 7, 2018
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Parents self centered, wealthy, don’t want to visit or help with baby
Just had a new baby. We have a pretty good life. We are middle class but very financially stable. Husband is attorney I’m upper management in a Fortune 500.. Parents are close to being billionaire wealthy.. (crazily, they don’t help us with a single ...
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26-30, F
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10 replies
33 views
Jul 5, 2018
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Anybody just want to give up on career? Burned out
Hey yall.. So ive been working for the majority of my life. Since 16.. waited tables, worked various jobs until a graduated college.. From that point on.. Got my first corporate gig and have been doing that since. I work for a fortune 500 now in Sale...
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26-30, F
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8 replies
21 views
Jun 26, 2018
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Just had baby, Husband fired from job today
So we just had a baby 5 and a half months ago. Husband has been at his job for over 10 years and is supposedly a top performer (by the numbers).They fired him not for missing necessarily but for not giving enough notice. They wanted 2 weeks notice ev...
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26-30, F
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27 replies
81 views
Jun 13, 2018
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Constantly sick.. from new baby
Y’all. I have been so sick since having a newborn.. I have had FOUR serious respiratory infections since starting my newborn in Day Care 3 months ago. I’m to the point now, that I’ve had them back to back and basically my lungs feel like they are shu...
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26-30, F
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5 replies
11 views
May 7, 2018
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Baby keeps getting sick, I keep missing work
Just had a baby 5 months ago.. I took a 9 week maternity leave.. I’ve taken off a few sick days. I think this is my fourth total.. but the truth is, my daughter has been really sick each time, and a couple times, I’ve been sick WITH her.. my work pla...
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26-30, F
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9 replies
25 views
Apr 23, 2018
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Juggling newborn with work
I just gave birth 4 months to the day. I’ve been back from maternity leave for about 2 months. I’ve only missed 2 days. I didn’t even take half my maternity leave because I was promised I could use those intermittently throughout the year. Well here ...
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26-30, F
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7 replies
23 views
Apr 16, 2018
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Love husband, but not attracted to him anymore
So, husband and I have been together for 6 years.. we just had a baby 4 months ago.. moved into a great house. I work a ton, he works Aton. We are both successful, good looking people. He’s smart, good looking, musically inclined, funny etc.. but I a...
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26-30, F
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35 replies
88 views
Apr 2, 2018
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Anybody else’s in laws just invite themselves over without warning?
My in laws keep inviting themselves over. They’ll just call/text and be like “we are coming over tomorrow” not.. so what are y’all doing tomorrow? We should get together. A lot of times they tell JUST me so I feel so pressured to be the sweet daughte...
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26-30, F
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27 replies
19 views
Mar 10, 2018
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Husband took maternity leave money
So i saved and saved for maternity leave starting 6 months before i took off.. that money was supposed to cover things like mortgage, food, diapers, formula etc, daycare. there was hardly anything extra.. i asked my husband before hand if he would sa...
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26-30, F
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47 replies
92 views
Jan 7, 2018
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Chores while staying with mom after newborn?
Husband and i just had a baby a week ago. Thought staying with my mom was a good idea but now she’s like.. asking us to do a bunch of chores.. carry these Christmas gifts upstairs, go get more fire wood, wrap these presents, put lights on the 10 foot...
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26-30, F
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13 replies
30 views
Dec 16, 2017
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Please share your newborn stories
Hello, Just had a baby 5 days ago. It has been so hard on us. She is up at night all night and sleeps during the days. Feedings every 2-3 hours. Sometimes inconsolable. It’s rally starting to take a toll on me as it feels like i haven’t slept in 3 da...
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26-30, F
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13 replies
25 views
Dec 12, 2017
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Can employer verify I’m in (or not in) the hospital?
Hello, I am scheduled to have a csection in 5 days. I worked up until I feel like what was the end (2 days ago). (Blood pressure was high, Doctor put me on bedrest) My work had a hard time accepting that I might take off a week before due date (it’s ...
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26-30, F
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3 replies
18 views
Dec 1, 2017
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Work judgmental about pregnancy
So I’m 37 weeks and have literally only missed ONE day my entire pregnancy. I’m kickin butt getting all my work done plus some.. I’m starting to notice tho I’m being judged for things like weekly drs appointments and taking a half day for a baby show...
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26-30, F
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3 replies
14 views
Nov 15, 2017
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Husband and friend ditched me after babyshower. Not coming home
So pregnant. 4 weeks from due date. Had a baby shower today. My husband starts telling me he needs guy time after the shower. He leaves with his friend. Also, my best friend who flew in town for shower leaves to go hang out with her other friends. S...
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26-30, F
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21 replies
71 views
Nov 5, 2017
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Husband is becoming a mooch but I love him with all my heart
So married the man of my dreams.. he's amazing in so many ways. Extremely smart, hard working, sweet as can be, does most of the household chores, funny as hell.. he's an attorney and he does make a good living.. but he's paying things...
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26-30, F
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19 replies
51 views
Oct 13, 2017
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Anyone have a positive experience coming back from maternity leave?
So I'm 30 weeks pregnant and HUGE... first pregnancy. I was a total rockstar with the company I've been with for over a year... up until recently when it just seemed like all of a sudden it dawned on them I'm going on leave in 2 months...
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26-30, F
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8 replies
20 views
Oct 9, 2017
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Pregnant. Husband said his life is going to suck for the next 18 years
So husband and I were talking this morning. We are expecting our first child, a girl. I'm in my 3rd trimester and miserable, working full time to support us. Husband says well I've been reading about the 3rd trimester. I said oh that's...
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26-30, F
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25 replies
87 views
Oct 3, 2017
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Havent announced pregnancy.. SIL did on FB
So we still haven't told some family memebers, friends or coworkers about pregnancy. Husband and I went to a baseball game. I posted a picture on Facebook. SIL comments "SHOW US THE BELLY!!!"... people start commenting OMG I didn'...
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26-30, F
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11 replies
35 views
Oct 1, 2017
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