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31-35, F
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All out of life boats
I stepped away from the relationship a few weeks ago. I don't even feel like typing out the full reason why anymore to catch you up on why. It just feels like a waste of time now. Ultimately, I told him I needed time to continue working on myself....
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
1 reply 67 views | 2 d
Update
Breakups
Crazy, stupid, love
So... we (AJ and I) have had some ups and downs during this adjustment period. The start of our relationship was hot and heavy, and I think he was just looking out for me in slowing that down. During that period, I took his physical distance as a...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
1 reply 114 views | 3 w
Positive
Relationships
Ghost of Christmas Past
Oh my god, this is always how it goes. It's been several months since I've spoken to N.D. (the 40-something year old guy) and always around Christmas he messages me and tried to re-ignite something. Last year we hadn't talked for nearly half a year,...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
3 replies 78 views | 1 M
Random
Relationships
Learning more about each other
I met AJ's family this week. They were very warm and funny. I always tend to biff first impressions, so I didn't talk a lot and mainly smiled while trying to not to eat my meal in a displeasing manner. So basically ended up shuffling the food this...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
0 replies 82 views | 1 M
Positive
Dating & Relationships
Closing the space between us
I really want to say that I love him, but I'm holding off. That's what it feels like in my heart, but I am going to listen to the logical part of my brain and remember that I dont truly know him yet. Is it possible to love someone you don't know?...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
4 replies 95 views | 1 M
Romantic
Dating & Relationships
When you love a stranger
... So I've been visiting with some of my girlfriends recently, and oh my god, it is so revitalizing! I don't know why I allowed myself to become an island for so long. Well, in the midst of this... I become curious about the guy that I was seeing......
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
2 replies 113 views | 1 M
Update
Dating & Relationships
I have decided to say yes to myself today
I am reconnecting with the person that I want to be. Getting my house in order (literally cleaning, lol). Working out, and I reached out to some positive friends, because I've decided to be more discerning about who I allow into my life. I tended to...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
2 replies 57 views | 2 M
Positive
Taking Better Care of Self
If you are leaving a toxic relationship...
Is it better to let them know you are done or just stop answering their calls? Everytime I begin to heal, it's like he knows and tries to call or text me. Then the call isn't even about anything. No apology. Just trying to act like nothing happened...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
9 replies 94 views | 2 M
Asking
Relationships
Finding Thanks in Heartache
In order for me to move on, I cannot feel resentment. Resentment will not allow me to have my heart open and in the right place to receive positive relationships that may be out there for me. Although I don't need to tell the person (AJ) that I...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
0 replies 69 views | 2 M
Positive
Breakups
Working on Loving Myself
Just getting back from my trip. I had to leave town to refresh my mind and spirit. I am feeling rejuvenated and ready to become more present in my life once again. I have to be honest with myself. I still have a lot of work to do on myself. I need...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
3 replies 77 views | 2 M
Positive
Working On Myself
Does everyone deserve a second chance?
This guy messaged and called me last night, and I feel indifferent about it. It used to make me so excited when my phone would light up and I would smile at the sight of a message from him, but now he's broken my heart and I've allowed my feelings...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
17 replies 113 views | 2 M
Asking
Breakups
Timing is everything
He told me that he wished he knew me earlier, before his heart was broken so many times that it became hard for him to love again. While he was holding me one night, he looked into my eyes with such admiration, mixed with what seemed to be a tinge...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
2 replies 81 views | 2 M
Sad
Broken Heart
At least I didn't drag it out this time
It sucks to do the right thing sometimes.
wtfgirl001
31-35, F
2 replies 85 views | 2 M
Sad
Breakups
There's still space in my heart for him
We talked last night. I had been feeling unsure in the relationship, so I took a step back to have some time to think. He had messaged me 3 times that day. Once in the morning, once in the afternoon, and once in the evening. When I didn't answer, he...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
1 reply 88 views | 2 M
Romantic
Dating
Protecting My Peace
I'm starting to feel a bit more like myself... like, my OLD self, way back when I was 21 and the world was a bit brighter. I think in everything that has happened in my life it has taken me down a lot of roads in the healing process. When I was 22,...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
1 reply 80 views | 2 M
Positive
Taking Better Care of Self
Focusing on Myself
I just had an amazing day today. I focused on myself and let the anxiety from my current situationship fade away. I cleaned the house, completed a workout, took a hot bath and put on a facial mask, and called my family members on the phone. It felt...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
2 replies 89 views | 2 M
Positive
Dating
Pulling the breaks
I'm becoming so much more aware of myself. I really don't know how else to describe it, but I am finally beginning to notice my pitfalls in the moment, and I am correcting them just as fast. If something doesn't feel right to me in a relationship,...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
5 replies 87 views | 2 M
Update
Dating
Okay, last post for the night
This is the goodnight song he texted me tonight:
wtfgirl001
31-35, F
3 replies 83 views | 3 M
Romantic
Dating
Question to the guys
Do you enjoy when your date shows a little skin when you take them out, or does it make you embarrassed?
wtfgirl001
31-35, F
46 replies 174 views | 3 M
Asking
Dating
Another wonderful day!
Whew... day 2 down of the breakup. Or something like that. I've realized that I'm not even sad about missing out on him, but more sad about the idea of having went through yet ANOTHER rejection. Even though I am the one who formally ended it, he had...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
18 replies 110 views | 3 M
Positive
Had a Good Day
Positive Changes
Feeling much better today. I initially didn't want to go to work. I thought about calling in sick, but then decided that I'm not going to let my mood dictate my day. I took my time to get ready in a way that I felt pleased about my appearance amd...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
1 reply 75 views | 3 M
Positive
Single
A little rant. ...Might delete later.
It's really late right now. Well, not really late. 11:23pm. And I want to message him, so I figure I'll write another post here instead. I'm just irritated that he seemed to check out at the end of the relationship. I hate that feeling of not being...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
7 replies 154 views | 3 M
Upset
I Need to Rant
Sunk costs
I'm sitting here depressed today... I knew it would kick in eventually. Even though logically, I'm happy. Logically, I know that breaking up was for the best, I guess that illogical side of me still has to process it. I've had a productive day...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
4 replies 100 views | 3 M
Sad
Single
It was a life-shaping experience
I'm doing well. It's strange how everytime right after I breakup with someone I get like 3-5 exes reaching out to me through text or social media. Dead silence from suitors while I'm in a relationship... but then suddenly, it's like they can smell...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
5 replies 108 views | 4 M
Update
Single
It is over
So, after 4 years of an on and off again relationship... I broke up with him today. Via text. He didn't reply, and I don't think he ever will. That's kind of in his nature. It's sad that I've gotten so used to it, it doesn't bother me any more. And...
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wtfgirl001
31-35, F
15 replies 210 views | 4 M
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