Can someone snap me out of my habits?I caught myself again indulging in imagining a grand monologue about telling this girl off and how much she had hurt me and how worthless she made me feel, even though we hadn't had a proper interaction in maybe 2 years (more information in my... See More »
I feel like I let myself get thrown in a loopIt's been months, maybe even about a year or more and I still keep getting stuck in the same anger and hurt over a stupid crush. So what happened is that, I had confessed my feelings to a girl I liked, she didn't really give me some kind of answer... See More »
Sometimes I wish I felt prettyI know I'm not ugly. But sometimes I just feel average. I want to feel pretty too, like the same way I feel when I look at another girl and adore her features. My self confidence keeps fluctuating and lately it's been feeling really low. Beauty... See More »
I need advice on this friends falloutSo, my group (5 persons) of friends had a fallout. We had split into 2 and 3 now and I'm in the trio group. Admittedly, it started out as our offense as we (the trio) had enrolled earlier than the other two in the group and failing to tell them... See More »
Random thoughts on attractionI just realized that what I find most attractive in other people are their imperfections. I mean, I can recognize and adore conventionally good features but it's the knowing that they are flawed which makes me fall for them even further. I could find... See More »
Why is it so tiring to smile?Aside from genuine smiling like from being happy or laughing, it's just so exhausting trying to keep up a polite face 24/7 especially when you have RBF 😐
Oh the cruel irony,,,Having to sing together the song "Let you break my heart again" by Laufey with somebody I liked, with her knowing that I still liked her yet doesn't feel the same. To anyone who isn't familiar with the song, the lyrics go like this: " One day, I... See More »
What the hell is this feeling?I have a crush, I confessed to her but I don't think she thinks of me that way. Well, she hasn't really given me a response to it so I took it as a no. I can live with that. In fact, I'm not really looking to courting her even if there was still a... See More »
My heart and brain are weirdJust spent the whole morning daydreaming about someone feeling light and sappy. Then I took an afternoon nap. When I woke up, I immediately thought "Oh god, I don't wanna meet the parents". And we're not even dating 😭
I guess the one I confessed to isn't into meConfessed to someone about my feelings. I didn't really say that I wanted to ask her out or anything, but just wanted to let her know that I felt that way for her. Currently giving her time to process it but so far our online onversations have been... See More »
Going through post confession depressionI finally confessed my feelings to a crush but I guess at her initial reaction, she didn't think of me the same. Or didn't think of me at all. She's still taking her time to process it all but I am already half expecting rejection. Oh well, atleast... See More »
Sometimes I feel that I'm not interesting enoughIt's been a whole semester and I'm struggling with so many thoughts. I made a few friends in class but I have this fear that maybe they are only being nice to me for the sake of making connections with other people or just general networking for... See More »
Quick question, is this platonic?? Poll (3) See Poll OptionsI am an idiot so now I need the opinion of the internet. A short and soft front hug, then places both hands on my waist while talking to me then... See More »
How do I know if people genuinely like me or are they just being polite?So I guess this is a mini update to a previous post and I really started trying to talk to more people, which I'd say is a big achievement for me as a person with terrible terrible social skills. However I can't help but wonder if the people I talk... See More »
How do I speak when I get easily emotionalI have a problem of pushing down my feelings and never addressing it. This time I messed up and I have to say sorry to the person. I genuinely want to explain everything that's going on and apologize but I find it hard. Even if it's an old problem... See More »
Having the biggest crush on a femme breaks gaydarI can't hecking tell if she's flirting or just being friendly 🥲. It's like I can't tell if it's my gaydar blaring loudly or just desperate enough to think that it is. How do pretty girls just hug and touch you like it's nothing??? Haven't confirmed... See More »
Living the social life is exhaustingI consider myself an introvert and I'm trying to make a conscious effort to talk to more people. The other day, I'd say I made great progress and socialized a bit more (which is a big deal to me). But today, I'm just so tired and not in the mood to... See More »
Feeling like the dumbell of the groupIn a class there are groupings that we have to stick with till the end of the semester. And for some damn reason, the professor's method of choosing the groups is finding leaders "aka the loud popular kids" then have the leaders choose their members.... See More »
Having a crush is weirdI don't know if I'm just weird but it feels borderline creepy when I have a crush. I just take too many glances at their direction just to see them whatever they're doing. It's like I become hyper aware whenever they're around. Eventually picking... See More »
How do I make friends in college?I'm an architecture student and I'm finding it hard to connect with people. I have a few people I talk to but it's more on the acquaintance side, but after that, we don't really talk outside of school related matters. I also have a hard time talking... See More »
How do I stop sabotaging myself?I am an introvert and I am a bit of a loner but it is college so now I have to actually talk to people now. I just find it hard sometimes. I fall back into a habit of keeping my head down and pretend I'm busy and when someone says hi, I say hi back... See More »
Slowly losing my circle of friendsI have a small group of friends that i've known since elementary. We've been pretty close knit for years but ever since the pandemic and going to different schools, it just doesn't feel the same anymore. We hardly meet up because of general college... See More »
How do I curb an overly competitive mindset?I find myself feeling jealous of alot of people's achievements when I know I should be happy for them. And I don't understand why I feel like this to the point that I can feel it physically. It gets very toxic that I undermine my own achievements and... See More »
How to not look like you just cried a minute agoI need some tips if ever I end up crying and need to not look like crap in the next minute.
