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Having a crush is weird

I don't know if I'm just weird but it feels borderline creepy when I have a crush.

I just take too many glances at their direction just to see them whatever they're doing.
It's like I become hyper aware whenever they're around. Eventually picking up patterns on their routine, who they hangout with, and places that they like to frequent. Sometimes, I subconsciously want to follow them but I would NEVER go as far as stalking of course because that is creepy and violating.

I also notice that I think I developed some kind of quirk (?) That whenever I look up, it just so happens that they are a few seconds away into coming into my view.

But then again like a real torpe, end up never talking to this person even once and don't even want to interact with this person because I'm just feeling whatever this is without doing something about it. Which makes me wonder how I even developed feelings that easily.

Sometimes I wish I could turn off my crushy feelings like a light switch because it's just so inconvenient most of the time.

Please tell me I'm weird or not, I don't even know how to deal 🥲
SW-User
Crushes are normal. Impulsive thoughts are normal. As long as you don't act on them knowing you could be making someone else feel uncomfortable or unsafe, you're good.
BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M
@SW-User this!
BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M
As someone who has been known to stalk crushes, I hope you never cross that boundry. It only makes things worse.

For now, you're good tho.
Mysterion619 · 26-30, M
You should ask them out. If you do nothing about it when you like someone you might never find true love
originnone · 61-69, M
It's really happening to you and has almost nothing to do with the other person.
72andy · 51-55, M
We have all been there
But don’t let it become an obsession.
Teirdalin · 31-35
Yep that's what it does. Lol
Khenpal1 · M
crush is just crush at your age 💋
SW-User
That pretty much sums up most people with a crush.

 
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