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What the hell is this feeling?

I have a crush, I confessed to her but I don't think she thinks of me that way. Well, she hasn't really given me a response to it so I took it as a no. I can live with that. In fact, I'm not really looking to courting her even if there was still a chance because we'd be better off as friends. But then I still get jealous at the thought of her dating other people.

It is so selfish of me to think like this. It's as if my brain is telling her "It's okay if you can't be with me, just don't be with anyone else, okay?" I'm on the fence of moving on or just accept that I could pine for someone but just don't do anything about it.

Anyone got a similar situation and what did you do about it? Thanks
looping · 18-21
it's normal. just because she's most likely telling you she isn't interested, that doesn't mean you can simply just stop harboring feelings for her. if I were you, personally, i would avoid her from now on. you're only going to hurt more if you find out she actually is interested in someone else. unless you're friends... then for the sake of your friendship, you're just going to have to get over it.
I think its called irrational selfish foolishness.. don't tell people you love them if you aren't even friends.. thats just cringy ..
Convivial · 26-30, F
Give her time... Good luck
Chops · 18-21, F
@Convivial Is 5 ish months enough time? With the first three not seeing each other physically. I midkey just wanna ask her how she feels
Convivial · 26-30, F
@Chops it is a bit long... She may not be interested hun and it maybe time for you to look elsewhere... Hard i know but you have to keep moving forward
Maha123k · 31-35, F

 
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