i have been celibate for 13 years and tonight i'm meeting someone on Tinder for a one-night stand.Wish me luck! How do I prepare?
my mama told me, if you must eat with your enemies, eat with a long fork. how many of you had to take that advice?
Some advice in the age of dating apps PLEASEI don't form attraction or attachments based on words or gifts. I'm drawn in by good deeds and actions, like someone helping me with a difficult chore or task, or if I see you doing something selfless for someone else. So I guess you could say my...See More »
I feel so depressed todayLife just feels hopeless. I know. You make your own life. But nothing is working. I'm just tired.
Did anyone else have a terrible experience with therapy?I get so fed up with all the people recommending therapy or meditation. I've only ever had either a neutral or negative experience with traditional talk therapy. And meditation makes me more anxious. I would just like some alternative suggestions. I...See More »
Why do things get harder instead of easier?Why do things get harder instead of easier the more you try them?
How do you get out and date after gaining weight during the pandemic? Poll (5) See Poll OptionsI was getting regular exercise and watching what I ate at first, but then I had surgery, was on bed rest, then we had a few weeks of harsh subzero...See More »
Is it bad not to date someone with kids?I like kids, but I want to start a family with someone who doesn't have kids for lots of reasons. I pretty much lose interest completely when I find out he has kids. I notice that lots of men seem to seek out childless women even though they have...See More »
Are there any good sites for talking to people when you're struggling?I don't really think Similar Worlds is very helpful in that regard. EP was more like that in the beginning before it devolved into what it became.
Looking for advice!In a little over a year I'll be 40. I'm unmarried, single, childless, and friendless. I'm depressed and overweight. Overdue for a promotion. Still renting. I've been working on all 8 things for the past 5 years, trying to make some improvement, but...See More »
Is anyone else having a problem re-entering the world since lockdowns have ceased and cities are opening up?In the beginning, I fought to get access to my office, I went on walks every day, I ran errands to CVS and the grocery store just for some social contact, I even wore a mask at the gym. Now I just want to stay home under a blanket. I wear my mask...See More »