What should I talk about when I reconnect with someone? PINNEDI've been trying my best to re-enter social life since things have been opening up. One of my problems is I don't have anything positive or exciting going on in my life right now, but I don't want to complain or be negative. What should I talk about?
how would you deal with a saboteur at work? PINNEDi was hired into a new job. next year i'm transitioning into a managing position. the fellow who is currently in that role is supposed to be training me. we were friends, he actually helped get me hired. now that i'm here, i get the feeling that... See More »
if someone you loved were writing you a letter saying good-bye, what would you want them to make sure they included? PINNED
do i pay or no?i hired a plumber to fix a leak and phantom flush in my toilets. they said the gaskets i had put on weren't sealing properly because they were a little large for the older brand of toilet that i had, and that they would need to replace them to fix... See More »
Have you seen the thriller Sanctuary? Are there other movies like that I can see if I'm interested in that power dynamic?
How do you find friends where you have some commonalities?The more I spend time with my friends, the more I realize we don't have much in common. I met them through a cultural association, which I'm not really part of anymore anyway. All they talk about is religion, dating, Beyonce, therapy, and nails. I... See More »
Does anyone else experience sensory issues with alarms and power lines?I've noticed that in certain places, I can feel/hear power lines (staticky, radio signal sound) security alarm (piercing high pitched sound). I believe I may hear at a higher than usual frequency for my age, but what about the power lines?
My knee just started locking up yesterday. WTF is going on? Anyone know?I iced it and took Ibuprofen but I went to sleep and woke up with the pain stiffness and swelling.
How can I increase my energy levels?I was taking DHEA for several months and it was amazing. I had way more energy, motivation, libido, positive mood, but I've been tapering off because you shouldn't be on it too long. Now everything is going back in reverse. What can I do to give me a... See More »
How has your first week of 2023 been going?I'm exhausted. I hope I can catch up and get on track over the weekend.
Someone asked me a question about my weight, and since then I feel nauseated when I think about food or open the fridgeIt got better for a few days but it's back again. Please, what can help?
What's the proper etiquette for ending a relationship that is only a few weeks long? Poll (16) See Poll Options
what do you think about someone you're dating asking questions about your weightis this ok with you? or an instant turnoff?
What's the best way to break up with someone you're not in a relationship with?We met on an app. We've been dating long distance for a few weeks. I told him I was only interested in dating with the intention for marriage and children. He said he was too, but he can't be sure of where we stand until we've actually spent some... See More »
I'm starting to suspect he's not that interestedWe talk every day, but I'm always the one who has to initiate it. We have nice long conversations, but real intimacies are never shared. We flirt, but there isn't any real affection. We talk about visiting each other, but no plans are made. I'm... See More »
Every day I'm more and more disappointed in myself for not living up to my potentialBut I also don't have the energy to make the changes I need to make. I only have enough energy to get through the day.
