I have a boyfriend that thinks…

@twiigss For the first month or two anyway, then you would be in here posting the same as OP. ;)

@Ilovelily1986 I am really curious why you think she works shorter hours than he does or that he is the primary earner in this relationship. Her post seems to indicate that she works an equally demanding job. Aside from that, she related that he does not give any consideration to her physical well-being. She asks for him to help because her back hurts and he goes off and sulks like a baby. This is not him being a man. If he were a man he would honor and respect his girlfriend. She isn't his servant and he can share the responsibilities at home - that is, if he wants her to remain his girlfriend.

@sben4200 thank you, i have no energy to respond to people who don’t understand

@Miram ^ this.

And someone who isn't perplexed by such complex terms as "boil the water:.

@Miram as unfair as it sounds , this is how humans function, they give everything for granted and it isn’t only their fault i guess.

@Sweetpoison

His own ungratefulness is his own fault. It is a choice.

He is a grown man. You don't need to shelter him from his responsibility. He chose to be this way.

There exists plenty people who are better at relationships than him.

The only accountability you should be embracing comes in the form of walking out.

@PHlover19701 If life could only be that simple. Like a can of beans you don't like, just toss them out and buy another one. lol

@JamesBugman Yep....lifes too short. Toss it and move on.

@Fallflower wish i knew the answer

@Sweetpoison I get it now, he has mind control over you. I know that's a tough situation.

@Sweetpoison need to discuss.

@basilfawlty89 yeah I graduated with a degree in psychology, trust me I hate to give siggy any credit. Trust me. But he's not wrong with some men when it comes to Oedipus complex oddly enough. Not all men obviously.

@KentuckyFriedFloozy is this your professional opinion? What data do you have as to what anybody's motivation for anything would be?

@friendlykinkster if it was professional opinion then I'd be getting paid. I'm not. It's from experience lol.

@Fieldmaster yes, he is electrician

@Sweetpoison Go by yourself. Text, video or visit a therapist. this man don’t deserve one more second of your attention. Used to be hard to find one but there are now lots of ways to get access to therapists and they can be really helpful.

@Sweetpoison
Should not prevent you from going on your own. What I meant by finding a therapist is for you to go through the issues with your therapist, and usually at some point, your BF is invited. If he doesn't, then too bad for him. Life is too short for you to be miserable or feel short changed.

A relationship is an equal partnership.

@Northwest i know what you meant

@JesseInTX or no boyfriend

@Sweetpoison that too!

@PepsiColaP ^^ This.

@caccoon yep

@JimboSaturn wish it was that easy

@BlueVeins

@Rudboy41 Ya to me it's more of a maturity thing.

@Rudboy41 this