I have a boyfriend that thinks…

Cooking and cleaning is a woman’s job, even if i also work 8 hours a day.
He doesn’t help with anything at home, not even doing groceries, he always says he works harder than me and he is more tired than me.
Even know that i’m suffering with back pain he won’t help with anything and expect me to do everything like i always do… he also expect me to go out having fun with friends after work or in the week end even if i tell him i’m tired and my back hurts… he is able to make me feel like the bad person because as soon as i try to say no he gives me the silent treatment.

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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

I heard my ex say how he worked harder than me and was so tired. I was mowing the lawn when I was pregnant and he used the example of picking up a part that weighed maybe 25 pounds and boxing it up to ship as an excuse. 😖 I told him that I, too, also worked and was lifting 40-pound boxes and crates of groceries at my job and stacking them on the shelves and that was when I was pregnant.