I have a boyfriend that thinks…

Cooking and cleaning is a woman’s job, even if i also work 8 hours a day.
He doesn’t help with anything at home, not even doing groceries, he always says he works harder than me and he is more tired than me.
Even know that i’m suffering with back pain he won’t help with anything and expect me to do everything like i always do… he also expect me to go out having fun with friends after work or in the week end even if i tell him i’m tired and my back hurts… he is able to make me feel like the bad person because as soon as i try to say no he gives me the silent treatment.

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Fieldmaster · 46-50, M

What does he do? Hard and strainous physical 12/14hrs per day work or mentally and emotionaly draining? Even then he just cant sit around be a couch potato. Does he drink ?

Sweetpoison · 41-45, F

@Fieldmaster yes, he is electrician

Fieldmaster · 46-50, M

@Sweetpoison one of the most dangerous jobs, although they make good money. However, that doesn't releaves him from supporting you at home when possible. Taking a couch position for the remainder of the day is not a good thing, even for his own physical health.