I have a boyfriend that thinks…

Cooking and cleaning is a woman’s job, even if i also work 8 hours a day.
He doesn’t help with anything at home, not even doing groceries, he always says he works harder than me and he is more tired than me.
Even know that i’m suffering with back pain he won’t help with anything and expect me to do everything like i always do… he also expect me to go out having fun with friends after work or in the week end even if i tell him i’m tired and my back hurts… he is able to make me feel like the bad person because as soon as i try to say no he gives me the silent treatment.

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twiigss · M

That's not right. Sounds like those responsibility should be shared or he should be doing the majority of them.

If it was me I'd be doing all the chores, you'd never have to lift a finger 🙂

JamesBugman

@twiigss For the first month or two anyway, then you would be in here posting the same as OP. ;)