I have a boyfriend that thinks…

Cooking and cleaning is a woman’s job, even if i also work 8 hours a day.
He doesn’t help with anything at home, not even doing groceries, he always says he works harder than me and he is more tired than me.
Even know that i’m suffering with back pain he won’t help with anything and expect me to do everything like i always do… he also expect me to go out having fun with friends after work or in the week end even if i tell him i’m tired and my back hurts… he is able to make me feel like the bad person because as soon as i try to say no he gives me the silent treatment.

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JamesBugman

If you need a break from cooking, order something in. Cooking is a skill like everything else and takes a lot of patience caring and timing. Also you have to be able to read instructions, which is not something guys are good at. ;)
Cleaning needs to be shared for sure. A guy can certainly vacuum the floor, wash the sheets and clean off the banister. I do toilets and sinks if they get really noticeably gross.