I have a boyfriend that thinks…

Cooking and cleaning is a woman’s job, even if i also work 8 hours a day.
He doesn’t help with anything at home, not even doing groceries, he always says he works harder than me and he is more tired than me.
Even know that i’m suffering with back pain he won’t help with anything and expect me to do everything like i always do… he also expect me to go out having fun with friends after work or in the week end even if i tell him i’m tired and my back hurts… he is able to make me feel like the bad person because as soon as i try to say no he gives me the silent treatment.

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M

I don't understand what the problem is. You love him, right? He's your bf by your own choice, not under duress, right? Know your role.

Sweetpoison · 41-45, F

@MarkPaul you should just shut up, none of your comments make sense

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@Sweetpoison What did I do? I'm just giving you some needed perspective you seem to be missing.

basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M

@MarkPaul

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@streetangel But she is obviously not going to dump him. In fact, she rather enjoys the predicament she is in... has put herself and keeps herself in. I will even go so far as to suggest, if she was a given a choice... and let's put that choice on a silver platter... of someone who would treat her with complete respect and full dignity or her current bf, she would stick with her choice of her current bf. You can be assured she is happy with her choice. She just needs to "know her role" because it's the role she wants... it's the role she has chosen... it's the role that is her destiny. 🧔🏻‍♂

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