I have a boyfriend that thinks…

Cooking and cleaning is a woman’s job, even if i also work 8 hours a day.
He doesn’t help with anything at home, not even doing groceries, he always says he works harder than me and he is more tired than me.
Even know that i’m suffering with back pain he won’t help with anything and expect me to do everything like i always do… he also expect me to go out having fun with friends after work or in the week end even if i tell him i’m tired and my back hurts… he is able to make me feel like the bad person because as soon as i try to say no he gives me the silent treatment.

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KentuckyFriedFloozy · 26-30, F

There are a lot of men who just want a mommy they can have sex with whenever they want as sick as that is. But it's true sadly. They want a woman to still take care of them like their mother's did. Even though they're grown adults.

basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M

@KentuckyFriedFloozy sadly true, but your description was very Oedipal. Somerwhere, old Sigmund is smoking his cigar with pride (and denying it's an oral fixation).

KentuckyFriedFloozy · 26-30, F

@basilfawlty89 yeah I graduated with a degree in psychology, trust me I hate to give siggy any credit. Trust me. But he's not wrong with some men when it comes to Oedipus complex oddly enough. Not all men obviously.

friendlykinkster · 56-60, M

@KentuckyFriedFloozy is this your professional opinion? What data do you have as to what anybody's motivation for anything would be?

KentuckyFriedFloozy · 26-30, F

@friendlykinkster if it was professional opinion then I'd be getting paid. I'm not. It's from experience lol.