GF had a threesome whilst we were on a break…

You said you were on a break.🤔

I'd ask yourself if "breaks" ever work. There's a reason for the break in the first place. The solid relationships don't typically include breaks.

I mean, you were on break right?

You can't hold her accountable for something she did when you two weren't together. It's not cheating, so she really did nothing wrong. It could be that you were in denial about the breakup, or maybe she miscommunicated her needs. Either way, I say let it go.

Yeah, take her back. Buy her a new car too. 🙄🙄

What really bothers you? That she had sex with someone else, or that she had a threesome? Have you been celibate?

All breaks during a relationship whether being married or dating mean that one or the other wants to try something different, as you can plainly see this was true in her case, it's up to you if you want to continue with that relationship but take my advice if it happened once it'll definitely happen again.

If you have any respect for yourself you'd move on.

Her sex drive might be above your league. Don’t let her quiet demeanor fool you now. Let her go.
I mean you can take her back, she probably needs some comfort but she’ll be bored again etc etc

Take her back. That kind of thing isn't important, it's just for fun. Maybe the next time you can make it a foursome!

She had a threesome while on a "break"?

Unless that is your kink, I would move on. This person clearly doesn't care about you all that much.

I mean my ex slept with another guy and I took her back so I can’t say don’t but at the same time it didn’t work for me

No if she cheated on you to have her 3some then she's not worth it and doesn't value the relationship with you

Take her back and you’ll always be insecure till u be with her .
You might be in pain now .
Wait till u take her back u know all about pain and insecurities then .
30 seconds of pleasure and years of pain .
That depends on the situation u are in and depending on the break I went on and why u went on the break , but the vast majority of them ends in pain and usually the males feel it more than the females . Trust me on that one .

Hypothetically, you then decide to get married and later on that year she decides she attracted to a co-worker and then sleeps with him. Ya still all in bud?
Make your own way in the world obviously, but when sewing the wind be prepared to reap the whirlwind.
Just my .02

You werent together so she could do what she wants

I am going to assume it was a MFM 3some. Not that it matters . A break is not a break up unless specified. This sounds like just an outright reason to have her dream 3some. Personally it's going to take a strong person to get forget this cheat

You were on a 6 month break?

Find another girlfriend.

OF COURSE she'll be on good terms with you when she feels like it again

LEAVE HER bro
Gracefully carry yourself on. Did she initiate this break, too? And you accepted it?

No way! Unless you are one of those kinky people who enjoys watching her have sex with two other people then NO! Have more self respect for yourself. That was above and beyond wrong!

M.O.V.E. O.N.

Sounds like she saw a good opportunity to check something off her bucket list. I don't know her or you well enough to suggest where you should go from here, though.

Seems to me she proved you were on a break.

You don’t “take” someone back. You both have to want to be together. I think you both failed this test.

that would be fair. you failed to set parameters and it was a break. if you can't hang, then no

I guess the question is: What does being on a break actually mean to you? What is the goal? What are the restrictions as you see them?

Communication is important, and ensuring you have the same definitions for things as nebulous as "a break" is pretty important to establish before doing such a thing

no

Why are you even asking this Question here. Its your life so make your own decisions and get on with it

Just channel your inner Ross. You were on a break; you were free to see other people. Did you see anyone?

Take her back, but only if she brings a friend. Fair is fair after all..!

I Love a Lady with a sense of adventure... don't let that one get away !

Nothing wrong with that. You were on a break. At least she told you about it. She didn't have to. She is honest. You can't own people. Strive for unconditional love. Nothing she has to do. Nothing she can't do. You are free too. We are spiritual beings having a human experience and we function much better when we are happy joyous, honest and free.

Whats her name?

Yes, if you can put your concerns aside. I had a friend who got bent out of shape when he learned his wife had a threesome before they had even met. There were other issues, too, but that was a major factor in them getting divorced.

Was it MWM, WMW, or WWW

Don’t walk but run! 🏃‍♂️

Have 3sum

It doesn't sound promising, although you were both on a break and like someone else commented, why did you take a break in the first place? I'm assuming you hadn't had relations with anyone else during that period, therefore it seems prima facie, she wanted to test the waters implying doubt on her part in the relationship.

move on

In my humble opinion, honesty trumps fidelity. Fidelity makes a nice gift but it must be freely given not a requirement. The best love is unconditional. The way God loves us.

Nah yo

Yes.

Dude, relationships don't have "breaks" you're either with someone or not.. She didn't cheat on you, you weren't together.

Well I did something similar. Was drunk though. I don’t see it as a reason to not be together. It’s the other reasons that would be

If you did I would degrade the emotional attachment if that is possible.

Whores ´like your former girlfriend arent meant to be girlfriends.

She showed she is no girlfriend material.

Just forget about her she is a whore.