GF had a threesome whilst we were on a break…

We had a break but I didn't expect this. There were no clear indication that we broke up and ready to see other. Can't believe what just 6 months can do? I really love her, should I take her back since we are on a good terms again(talking again)?

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GohantheThird · M

I mean, you were on break right?

You can't hold her accountable for something she did when you two weren't together. It's not cheating, so she really did nothing wrong. It could be that you were in denial about the breakup, or maybe she miscommunicated her needs. Either way, I say let it go.

lim1212 · 36-40, M

@GohantheThird "
thinking it would make us miss each other, but I never expected that she would start dating someone else. Would say her involvement in sugarbook changed her mind.

Mindful · 56-60, F

@lim1212 this is what she wanted to do but wasn’t sure… she told you she would be honest AFTERWARDS and she was. I think YOU need time to decide how you truly feel about this. Sounds like she needs this type of ego boost. Make sure she gets tested after these “breaks”. If you didn’t expect it at all… but she needed a break…she was already conflicted about just having one partner.

GohantheThird · M

@lim1212 bro, that's what you do on a break: you date other people. It's not fair to judge her for exploring her sexuality. What if you had a threesome, or a reverse gangbang, or really got into voyeurism, or something totally whacky that got your sexual awakinging going and THEN she judged you for it?
It's not fair dude, and honestly you can't judge her for it. Besides, there are crazier things than a threesome.