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zonavar68

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Happy Valentines Day to those who believe in it - for the rest of us Happy Situation Normal Nothing To See Here Day

move along. These aren't the droids you're looking for...

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The Cult of Net Zero green energy scam

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Downsizing my tv

Had 55 inch unit for two years. Going to replace it with a 43 inch unit. I don't do movie streaming or use tv for any smart internet connected features. I don't need a massive screen. Would you downsize your tv?

Ever rage quit from anything?

I have in the past. Frustrating car repairs. Usually though I step away when frustrated about something not going how I thought or expected.

Why buy an electric vehicle if you cannot fully 'fill up the fuel tank' ie. charge the battery to 100 percent?

Seems pretty dumb. Most people with a petrol or diesel vehicle don't stop filling up before the fuel nozzle auto-shutoff operates, meaning it's 100 percent full. Or go slow after the 80 pct full point, or fill slowly the whole way from mt to full.... See More »

As a normal 'white caucasian' Aussie I too am a 'person of colour' because I'm so-called 'white'

Remember that scientifically true white and true black are not even colours, but a complete reflection of or a complete absorption of all incident visible light. All humans irrespective of their skin tone are 'persons of colour'. All lives matter.... See More »

Do you get into the Avatar films ? Or are they lost on you ?

They're lost on me, similar to most Disney films. If you like them, that's great.

UK quietly drops mandatory digital ID for the right to work (ie have a job) in the UK

but it doesn't stop the overall push towards digitisation of identity proofing, etc. in lots of other areas including the workplace. There's a view that within about 5 years most countries will push for everyone to have a smart phone to have digital... See More »

Meghan Markles blows up her own brand

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Valentines baby making season is upon us again

There are two distinct baby-making seasons - christmas to new year, and valentines.

Are Roblox, Minecraft, etc child-safe for primary school age children?

I'm investigating things for my 8 to daughter.

Kids game apps

I'm trying to find game apps for my 8 to daughter to install on her tablet. Nearly all have ads and in app purchases and look like poker machines. Wtf!!!

What is your biggest fear about relationships?

Mine is that a woman would go after my money (retirement savings - I don't have normal savings) and my house and try to take those in seperation or divorce leaving me and my young daughter with nothing. I can fully cope with my other relationship... See More »

Are class rings just a US custom?

I don't think I've ever heard of such things here but maybe the rich private schools incorporate them in the graduation ceremony traditions

Double standards of dating demands

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Should people with visible face/neck and other tattoos be employed in customer-facing roles?

I think most people would say 'no' but I'm interested to hear other people's views? In my industry (railways - freight) we are not always in customer-facing situations but sometimes we are.

First interest rate rise since rates started being reduced in late 2023, and everyone's crowing like it's the end of the world!

It's not the end of world, and there will be more rate rises to come this year. When I first got my home loan (in late 2023) I set my payments at well above the minimum required at the time and haven't reduced the amount since, so I can well cope,... See More »

Are you a social butterfly or introverted with social phobia?

I'm the latter (introvert) and would prefer to stay home rather than go out to other places as much as possible. I don't do friends or have any sort of social/friend circle. I'm my own circle. My last ex is total opposite. She is a social butterfly... See More »

Indigenous land grab threatens all private property 'modern title' holders in Australia

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What do you think of Tronald Dump's 'Board of Peace'? Legit? Scam? UN and Nato bashing? Something else?

It looks like a typical corporate elitist scam to me. Trump hates the UN and Nato because they do not advantage the USA, and he's trying to form a highly commercialised alternative just like LIV golf did with that sport. Perhaps this is also... See More »

Where's Wally? Anyone seen him here lately?

Worried about Wally. He might have run off to date the zebra seeking spoons.

Formal resignation from NSW rural fire service after being a volunteer member for 24 years

It's untenable for me to continue following on from the covid vax mandates implemented by my brigade itself in late 2021 and agency wide via Service Standard 7.1.9 in mid 2022 that haven't been rescinded. I've not been active since the return of... See More »

The relationship escalator - anyone heard of it?

https://findpoly.com/blog/relationship-escalator/ I don't understand relationships as a twosome with any high level of clarity so anything beyond that is conceptually impossible for me to get my head around. Any genuinely poly people here care to... See More »

Travel and holidays as single parent with school age child

Is it viable? Do you get penalised at all being a single dad with primary school age daughter?

Does Time heal 'wounds' or simply mask/internalise them so the memories are repressed

I don't feel that time 'heals'. Once something is broken emotionally or in a human relationships space that damage doesn't magically undo itself or simply go away. Only upon death do those things become emancipated and nullified when the soul... See More »

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