Do you consider yourself a jealous person?

@MrBrownstone I liked ur straight honest answer

@dragonfly46 wow thats rare🫡

@Simplyme33 I'm incredibly sensitive to any kind of jealousy in any type of relationship. If I sense it at all, I'm gone. For us, we can't live that way. He's my best friend.

@dragonfly46 Im so happy for u guys 😍 bless u 🙏

@Younameit yeah I agree. Such experiences cant be had without cost. Which is time...

@Simplyme33 just stuff changed .. everything.. i guess i don't have anything to be jealous of anymore .. no threats

@GoFish I hope they changed for good

@Simplyme33 maybe ☺

@Ducky oh wow. How is it? U guys feel jealous and u supress it or its just not there?

@Simplyme33 Neither of us are jealous.

@Ducky that is cool

@Ferric67 fair enough 🙃

@Likestoenjoylife I agree👍

@MrSmartyPants yep lol

@Simplyme33 Maybe after a few more thousand walks ....;)

@MrSmartyPants u already have the panoramic view. Thats advanced mode. U r already there dude😃

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout only if its true

@HootyTheNightOwl well done 🙌

@CrazyMusicLover get in one then lazy bachelore 🙃

@Simplyme33 On my way to grab the first dude I find on the street. 👍🏻😂🤣

@CrazyMusicLover hell yeah👏🙌

@BrandonWyatt36 haha. I liked that

@Simplyme33 I get the answer all the time when she sends me letters in the mail telling me she was always loyal and true to me.

I have yet to get any explanations that are rational or make sense of those specific situations.

I work on myself and the things I can control.
Everything else I'm learning to just accept it as it stands or presents itself.

@HikingMan I underdtand. Its a hard situation. But only u can decide whether to beleive her or not.

@Simplyme33 I have a hypervigilance disorder of sorts. No psychologist have ever said so or anything like that, but I know that I do.

I can trust easily anything that makes sense, is rational, or that I see with my own eyes.
Everything else I can fixate on for decades.
I've been trying to work on that.

But honestly, there's been too many times where I've told people how a situation will play out exactly and had folks tell me I'm too untrusting or that I'm letting my imagination get away from me, only to watch things go exactly how I predicted.

My daughter hates it.
I guess most people do.

If something doesn't make sense in my head, I will analyze it until it does with the concentration of a heart surgeon.
What I've found over the years is that the most likely thing is almost always the thing.

@SinlessOnslaught sorry I thought u meant u r not into women and u r gay lol

@Simplyme33 I'm very into women.

@SinlessOnslaught thats what I thought😁

@LeGrotesque that is one theory of its own👍

@Simplyme33 then they should talk about it. Communication is the key to alot of things.

If one feels jealous and the other doesn't find it valid then it should be easy to talk through as long as there is trust.

If one feel jealous and activly threatened and the other ignores it or blows it off then there is no respect and the relationship will not last. Animosity will build, leading to parnoia or anger.

@GuyWithOpinions yes of course .I was asking abt that moment. When something happens and u feel jealous. Like someone staring too long at ur partner's body or flirting with her. Do u feel jealousy? Or not. That was my point

@Simplyme33 i think it would really depend on the circumstances.
Maybe in a more mature type of setting id be proud that im lucky enough to be with someone i can be proud of. I would want people to acknowledge her accomplishments and give her theconfidence to achieve her passions in life.

When a friend has a few drinks and is getting a little too close and you notice intention in his eyes. Id first be offended that someone that i thought i could trust would behave in this way so its a display of his own character to take note of. It would then probably come down to trust in her and how she responds.

If you both love eachother and are in the relationship for the right reasons the issue wouldnt even come up unless there was another problem in the relationship leading to a reason to feel that way.

Things can be misconcieved at times and i understand that. I acount for that. It then comes back to communication.

People are very diverse. No two people are exactly the same. It's always good to leave 10% room for human error.

@TheRealBarbossa Its a normal thing I guess. U shouldnt label urself abt it

@DeadOrbit that is painful I can tell 🫠

@Simplyme33 it's the worst!

@Cremosa oh thats unhealthy. Sorry to hear that

@Simplyme33 There isn’t one currently
But my hypothetical person 😤

@JRVanguard lol. U r fun.

@Simplyme33 I enjoy you too😊

@class haha this is cool