Why do men love trashy or easier women? I have a story time as well.When I was younger and more insecure and had trust issues and I had bad mood swings my exes were in love with me. When I moved in silence, grew up and started accomplishing things for myself these guys despise me. All I do is work, and pay for my own...See More »
Why do other blk people always say I sound white? I only have the accent based on where I lived most of my life.I feel like I can’t do things I enjoy doing or like to do. I want to make vlogs or do YouTube and TikTok’s but everytime I open my mouth to tell my story or speak up. People have a issue with how I sound. I think I am undiagnosed mildly autistic, and...See More »
Meal of the day cornbread, rice, chicken pintos, cost me a whole 10 bucks. Whatever shall I do. ? . Day 3 still very sick. Making sure the fans know I paid for my own food today while on break. I’m still working hard no rest. Keeping the American work until I’m 💀 culture alive. Didn’t even text my date and tell him I can’t make it to the date...See More »
Can we stop over using the word Gold digger and narcissist. Ok thank you bye.Because I got called a gold digger just for asking my date who asked me if I needed anything for a 9.00 bowl of soup. This is scary times. I just want to vent about my little silly life. It’s never that serious. Today I bought my own lunch and it...See More »
My date is a white guy who acts black and thick blaccent . Am I wrong for not liking that. ?By acting black I feel like he is acting out what he thinks black people act like. ( Not saying black peoples act like how he acts 💗 ) He has a strong blaccent, which annoys me, only plays music from my parents era and old school blk music when I...See More »
This is why I’m single. Am I wrong to feel annoyed by this ?So I’m very sick today. The guy who’s trying to date me asked me more than once to let him know if I needed anything. After the second time I told him, I need some soup or rice from my fav chinese spot. That I need help w/ laundry or maybe some...See More »
He wants me to come to his place for a first date and blamed Biden and the economy for why he expect to hookup on the first date.All because I told him I don’t want to go to his place or back to his place on the first date. I told him I won’t guarentee that I’m going to his place after the date. He said if I’m not going to hook up with him, he won’t make me his girl, and said...See More »
Why do my girlfriends always start liking me, or try to hook up w/me it’s weird? I’m also straight.So this girl has a boyfriend and a 1 year old child, and she keeps trying to make passes at me. I don’t want to have issues with her boyfriend since I’m always hanging out with them but she even lied to him to make him think I was taking her out for...See More »
Why are people looking for friends on apps if they already have a big friend circle? Genuinely want to know.So I just met this girl off a friendship app. She had this sob story about not having friends that’s there for her, and how happy she is to meet me because I don’t judge her, and I’m just happy for us to go out and have fun. No pressure or...See More »
What mental condition is this one or what type personality? This is a series since all I attract is crazie ppl. Backstory as soon as we get close he ghost me. Then I block him then he text me from all these different my numbers. Promising me stuff he will never do. He will even say I’m in your city can I see you and he will be in another state. I have tried...See More »
Does anyone know safe cities/states for women of color? I want to leave these small southern cities.I was raised in Pinedale Wyoming. I was the only black girl in the whole school in the 2000s. Then my mother moved me to NC which is in the south. Living in these small racist cities is really affecting me mentally. I can’t make friends, everyone...See More »
I know this person has a personality disorder, but which one is it?I met this girl online, she asked me after two conversations if I want to be best friends with her. It caught be off guard that a 36 year old woman is asking me if we can be best friends after only talking on the phone once. I’m also going through a...See More »
Will I have to toss out my oversized sweaters, jackets and hoodies when I lose weight?I love fashion and I finally found my style. I invested in a few everyday pieces, and some I really don’t want to get rid of when I lose weight. I just don’t wanna lose all my comfy sweaters, hoodies, jean jackets, and coats. Things like leggings tha...See More »
Are my reasons valid for wanting to end this friendship?Everytime I’m around my friend my stomach begins to hurt, because I’m realising she’s just a user and a mooch and a leach. She can just begg for money or help from me and people like me but I would never have a good friend to depend on. She...See More »
Why don’t men compliment me directly, they just stare or ask my friend to tell me like we’re in middle school.I’m very very awkward kinda quiet reserved and in my own world. My personality is like Wednesday Adams if she wore pink. When men look at me they don’t smile, they stare and they run off or scurry away from me if I even talk to them or be nice. My...See More »
My mom has NPD and I’m scared to go back home.My mom has npd like examples of it. She’s nice and lovebombs me in text messages. Tells me to come back home to live, visit and I promise you if I came there tomorrow she would be nice maybe half the day. The. She would randomly yell at me. I’ll...See More »
There’s something in our food causing women to get pcos and look like men. While men have hormones to make them look more of a woman than women.No hate or shade but men literally look more like women than women these days. Esp men that are transitioning and taking hormones to do so. Meanwhile women who were born women, (cisgender women). It’s like the hormones in food, and birth control are...See More »
Should I tell dermatologist I quit taking meds and naturally healed ? I have appointment todayI have a follow up appointment. I was covered in hives from my neck down to my legs end of Feb. It was painful and I had taken medicine they gave me for it for like a week but the flare up would not stop. So I only took the medicine on the days I had...See More »
He said marriage counseling or he’s getting a divorce. We start tomorrow. LmaooIm really just going cause I want to be able to talk to the therapist but he waited until things got really bad to where I actually feel weird around him and it feels like we’re over doing our stay with each other. I told him these things. Like...See More »
Is it normal to enjoy husband leaving for months at a time ?I just feel like I can breathe be silly, wake up when I feel like it, not constantly being judged and required to do something. There are times when I thought my husband was enjoying something with me but he was judging my every move, reaction,...See More »
Guys keep hollering at me very aggressively after moving to a big city by the beach? What do I do?So I’m married and I look younger than what I am and I guess coming from a small town I’m not used to this new attention and it’s kinda creepy. Yesterday I got compliment after compliment but one creepy thing happened I was pumping gas then a car...See More »
I have a new hobby it’s twitch. Why is twitch so fun?So I like playing games on my phone so I was like why not twitch them. I didn’t realize how many amazing ppl and funny people are on twitch. Last night I was watching a really funny twitcher he literally twitched from like 10pm until 7am in the...See More »
How do I get the upgraded apartment that was false advertised. I move in a weekSo I thought I was getting a new apartment with grey vinyl floors, and marble countertops but i found out today that the apartment I’m getting is not the one advertised and showed to me. I move from another state and found out today when I visited t...See More »
My child had a seizure while wearing the face mask yesterday. Could it be mask are not safe for 5 year olds?I was driving and I usually randomly ask my baby if he is okay while im driving. At a stopped light I looked back and my son was leaned over looking into space not responsive. I pulled the car over at the intersection and jumped out the car to try to...See More »
People keep telling me I have a white sounding voice. I’m not white ?I articulate my words and I have a kind voice except I’m a ethnic woman and I really frigggn hate it here. Girls that even try to be my friend always remind me I have a white voice. I just feel like am I suppose to sound dumb or talk ghetto to get...See More »