I have a date with 2 guys at the same time 🤣Sooooo I met this guy and he’s really nice and sexy then his friend met me and he likes me to then they ask if they can both have me. Then I said I would love to have two boyfriends. Then now they both want to take me out on a date together . Has... See More »
If you don’t remember this Era don’t judge. Does anyone remember 2017 Soundcloud Emorap era? And Snapchat era?I remember doing my makeup. Doing my hair playing music in my room and mixing drinks, then I would get as pretty as I could and make Snapchat videos and Dm my favorite rappers and actors . I had some convos with rappers who are now famous af now.... See More »
Why are so many younger men trying to get with me men my age act weird with me ? Is there something. I don’t know ?So lately alot of 22- 29 year old men have showed heavy interest and attraction towards me. Which I’m now 34 but I look very youthful. I’m on social media alot and I’ll be honest after my divorce I was hearing alot of stuff say I would no longer be... See More »
What personality disorder is this ? You sense something is off you tell them they get very angry and mad that you picked up on it ? 🤔I really want to know what this is because I’ve had this happen to me so many times. It happen a few times in my 20s when I was trying to make new friends and recently after this breakup. Whenever I tell them something is off and I’m going to leave... See More »
Should I gift my bf money since he helped me when I didn’t have it ?So my boyfriend helped me a few times when I was doing bad. Thanks to some adjustments on my bills I no longer have to struggle and live paycheck to paycheck. Would it be masculine to repay him with a card and some munnion inside it? A lot of the... See More »
My BF is nice over the phone but distant and closed off in person.Idk why he tells me he’s attracted to me and always ask me to come over. Then he will even call me to talk about the future and how he’s okay and love being around me. When I do come over he leaves me in a room by myself and goes to talk to his... See More »
How do I respond to a Im sorry text from ex boyfriend ?I really liked him a lot and we were together for 3 months. During that time I met his mother, lived with him half time. I guess the last month of the relationship he started getting attitudes with me and told me him and his ex were in contact... See More »
I thought I couldn’t swim but then I can swim. What happen?So I went on a date to the pool with this guy I been seeing for about 2 months. I was freaking out about going to a pool because I thought I couldn’t swim. I actually should know how to swim because growing up they taught swim in p.e class, and my p... See More »
People in their 30s can’t date cause everyone’s life is a mess.I can’t date because I have to work like a dog everyday, then the guys who want to date me can’t date becahse they work like a dog everyday, I have dated out of my race and different tax brackets and some self employed and still can’t date up to my... See More »
I playfully joked about a celebrity being cute. Then the guy went on a 10 page rant. I suspect he has schizophrenia. This was at 4am btwWe were just joking and flirting with each other. Then boom he didn’t like me talking about a celeb and text me 10 pages about Epstein, and Hollywood and then started preaching to me about God. Mind you 4 hours before I sent him a sxy pic he asked... See More » (1)
How to lose weight over the next 90 to 100 days and start a healthier lifestyle?I have been struggling to lose weight since 2018. I get into the gym but I never stay consistent because I’ve had bad experiences at the gym. Like one time this guy walked behind me and kept smelling my air. Lol. I can get the ick really quickly.... See More »
I just found out the truth about my father. My aunt his sister finally told me.I was told a story that my dad was drugged at a night club and went crazy. All my life until I was 15 I found a private investigator to help find him so I can finally meet. I went to meet him and he was nice but very slurred speech. I thought it was... See More »
Why do other blk people always say I sound white? I only have the accent based on where I lived most of my life.I feel like I can’t do things I enjoy doing or like to do. I want to make vlogs or do YouTube and TikTok’s but everytime I open my mouth to tell my story or speak up. People have a issue with how I sound. I think I am undiagnosed mildly autistic, and... See More »
Meal of the day cornbread, rice, chicken pintos, cost me a whole 10 bucks. Whatever shall I do. ?. Day 3 still very sick. Making sure the fans know I paid for my own food today while on break. I’m still working hard no rest. Keeping the American work until I’m 💀 culture alive. Didn’t even text my date and tell him I can’t make it to the date... See More » (1)
Can we stop over using the word Gold digger and narcissist. Ok thank you bye.Because I got called a gold digger just for asking my date who asked me if I needed anything for a 9.00 bowl of soup. This is scary times. I just want to vent about my little silly life. It’s never that serious. Today I bought my own lunch and it... See More »
My date is a white guy who acts black and thick blaccent . Am I wrong for not liking that. ?By acting black I feel like he is acting out what he thinks black people act like. ( Not saying black peoples act like how he acts 💗 ) He has a strong blaccent, which annoys me, only plays music from my parents era and old school blk music when I... See More »
This is why I’m single. Am I wrong to feel annoyed by this ?So I’m very sick today. The guy who’s trying to date me asked me more than once to let him know if I needed anything. After the second time I told him, I need some soup or rice from my fav chinese spot. That I need help w/ laundry or maybe some... See More »
He wants me to come to his place for a first date and blamed Biden and the economy for why he expect to hookup on the first date.All because I told him I don’t want to go to his place or back to his place on the first date. I told him I won’t guarentee that I’m going to his place after the date. He said if I’m not going to hook up with him, he won’t make me his girl, and said... See More »
Why do my girlfriends always start liking me, or try to hook up w/me it’s weird? I’m also straight.So this girl has a boyfriend and a 1 year old child, and she keeps trying to make passes at me. I don’t want to have issues with her boyfriend since I’m always hanging out with them but she even lied to him to make him think I was taking her out for... See More »
Why are people looking for friends on apps if they already have a big friend circle? Genuinely want to know.So I just met this girl off a friendship app. She had this sob story about not having friends that’s there for her, and how happy she is to meet me because I don’t judge her, and I’m just happy for us to go out and have fun. No pressure or... See More »
What mental condition is this one or what type personality? This is a series since all I attract is crazie ppl.Backstory as soon as we get close he ghost me. Then I block him then he text me from all these different my numbers. Promising me stuff he will never do. He will even say I’m in your city can I see you and he will be in another state. I have tried... See More » (1)
Does anyone know safe cities/states for women of color? I want to leave these small southern cities.I was raised in Pinedale Wyoming. I was the only black girl in the whole school in the 2000s. Then my mother moved me to NC which is in the south. Living in these small racist cities is really affecting me mentally. I can’t make friends, everyone... See More »
I know this person has a personality disorder, but which one is it?I met this girl online, she asked me after two conversations if I want to be best friends with her. It caught be off guard that a 36 year old woman is asking me if we can be best friends after only talking on the phone once. I’m also going through a... See More »
Will I have to toss out my oversized sweaters, jackets and hoodies when I lose weight?I love fashion and I finally found my style. I invested in a few everyday pieces, and some I really don’t want to get rid of when I lose weight. I just don’t wanna lose all my comfy sweaters, hoodies, jean jackets, and coats. Things like leggings tha... See More »
Are my reasons valid for wanting to end this friendship?Everytime I’m around my friend my stomach begins to hurt, because I’m realising she’s just a user and a mooch and a leach. She can just begg for money or help from me and people like me but I would never have a good friend to depend on. She... See More »