New breakfastThe chicks got a brand new breakfast snack of tomatoes, spinach, strawberries, blueberries and blackberries, along with their usual eggs, carrots and grapes. They were all excited till I put the bowl down. Then they all just stopped and looked at... See More »
I wish I was a simple personI know they tend to have more peace and contentment, but I always have to have goals, plans and ideas to keep me going. I always have to have things to research and things to understand. Not having those makes me feel like I'm not living to my full... See More »
My ex husband said to me that romance is a lie.He said that to put someone up on a pedestal devalues the entire relationship. To put someone above yourself is foolishness. To provide romance is to lie and make the other person think more of themselves than they do. I don't know what romance is.... See More »
What is romance to you?I'm always curious as to what romance means to others because it seems so varied.
I don't need a sugar daddyI need a savory daddy who will help me with projects and just want to spend time with me and expect nothing more. That would be perfect.
I have an idea...People who like to post mean, negative comments should pair up with people who have a fetish for being told rude, mean and denigrating things. That seems like matches made in heaven! Or a really good side hussle.
Of Knights and NightsI have always loved knights. Not the fairy tale versions, though they were obviously my introduction, but the actual real knights. Their culture, their beliefs, their lives, etc. It always seems so fascinating to me. Back in the early 2000's, I... See More »
My bougie lunch today:Sirloin tip roast Honey mustard brusselsprouts Homemade mashed potatoes and gravy (1)
Things I have spent more than 2 years researchingFor my own edification and no other reason: • The Crusades • Fetishes • Cults • Psychology • Sociology • Coercive control • Motivations, intentions, and goals • LGBTQ+ history • African American culture and diaspora • Human sexuality • Feminism •... See More »
The social contract of decencyPeople online have definitely forgotten that our society has a strong foundation in the social contract of decency and it shows.
Why people stop talking to youAnd how to fix it! This may raise some hate, but honestly, this has been the biggest reason I have found as to why I stop talking to someone online. Example 1: Them: Hi Me: Hi Them: How are you? Me: Good. And you? Them: same. Time passes... See More »
I find it interesting......that when you respond to someone with the same tone they spoke to you in, they either become enamored or insulted, depending on the tone. If they become insulted, it is usually because they don't like to have themselves mirrored. Then they insist... See More »
I found the key!If you want a guy to stop talking to you, just tell them you work in a factory with the maintenance team! And just like that: *poof* gone
Psychology of mean commentorsI always wonder what drives a person i have never interacted with, never even seen or heard of, to suddenly post a mean comment on a post. Like, why? What did they get out of it? So this morning, I did some quick research on why people post mean... See More »
Okay, I'm an adult.That is my answer to anyone who "shoulds" me. I'm an adult. I don't need people telling me what I should do. Stay in your own lane and I'll stay in mine. Okay
Movie marathonI think I'm going to do a Jessica Tandy movie marathon and watch as many movies as possible that she is in over the next month.
Tv binge watchingI just got done binge watching "Who the (Bleep) did I Marry?!" Honestly, it broke my heart seeing these sweet people get absolutely shafted by users and abusers. 😓 It also made me not want to date again, but it also made me hopeful that even as I... See More »
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