There is no such thing as lazyPeriod. Laziness is a Puritanical concept that was eagerly absorbed by Capitalism to make people feel guilty for enjoying life and not being productive. "The word “lazy” first became popular in the 16th century when the Puritans came to the United... See More » (1)
Ever have something happen that sets off a trigger you forgot about?I was reminded of a situation over 8 years ago recently. It set off a response I hadn't been expecting, but I am not displeased with it. It has made me more cautious and stand offish, simply because the feelings of abandonment had been so strong.... See More »
The AcceptanceI am at the stage where I think you deserve someone better. All the things happened between was so beautiful even in a short period of time and I had a great lesson. It taught me how to see my worth and what I'm capable of in loving a person. I... See More »
The thing about stories...You can tell a touching story of your own life, and some people would still have discouraging or contradicting things to say about it. But see, I could hardly care about what you or others think. If I am to write, I'll write with confidence and with... See More »
How do you set your boundaries ? What do y'all think I should do ? Poll (10) See Poll Options(Quote) Today was a big awakening. I saw clearly who was for or against me. I'm actually very proud of myself. I handled it well. Groundwork... See More »
How does self love/acceptance work?I can't help but feel that my interpretation of it is simply that it is a coping mechanism and isn't based in reality. I really struggle with the thought of learning to love something I objectively strongly dislike. It feels like pretending. I have... See More »