A new chapter in my historyAt the end of November or early December 2024, I met a girl from a dating app. We met up and talked, and from the beginning, we were both clear that our intention in getting to know each other was for marriage. We shared our thoughts about marriage... See More »
my history part 2College years — I was super excited to finally move out and live in a new city. I went through culture shock, season two. This time, it was because I came from a small town, and this new city where I studied was one of the big ones. I met a lot of... See More »
How have you all been lately?In terms of your faith(religion/spirituality), career, physical health, mental health, financial condition, family, social life, natural conditions around you?
My sins keep haunting me. Has God not forgiven me yet?My sins keep echoing in my mind. When I’m working, in the middle of conversations with my friends, when I’m about to sleep, day and night. Have you ever felt like this? What did you do to deal with it?
Everyone has their own personality and everyone has their own psychological challenges/mental burdens?
How do I join conversations in a group chat with many people?I feel pretty comfortable talking one-on-one or in small groups of 4-5 people. The fewer people I talk to, the more I feel like I can control the situation. But when the group gets bigger, I struggle to find a way to jump into the conversation and... See More »
How do I deal with worries or fears about bad things that could happen in a relationship?I love my girlfriend so much, I want her to be my wife, and I want to be her husband. We're on our way to getting married. I really hope everything goes well.
Be quick in the race for forgiveness from your LordI messed up again. I don’t even know how many times it’s been. He’s told me over and over, "Don’t!" but I still did it. So I ran. I distanced myself from Him, out of fear, out of shame. How could I possibly face the Most Pure when I’m covered in... See More »
How have you changed throughout your life?These past few months, I've been noticing how dynamic people can be. Some have lived a certain way for years, but now they're doing things differently. Some were known for one side of themselves, but now they're showing a completely different one.... See More »
How much should I regret my mistakes?Sometimes I feel guilty about not feeling too guilty about my mistakes. I make mistakes often, but sometimes I tend to make light of them like they're not a big deal. Feeling haunted by my mistakes all the time, is that the right way to feel? Or is... See More »
Why did I decide to put effort into my relationship with my partner?I can’t exactly remember if it was days or weeks ago, but I found myself in a situation where I started questioning my relationship. Even so, up until today, I’m still trying my best to understand it and work on keeping our relationship. Now, I’m... See More »
What's the right balance in supporting your partner to become better (and not make her overwhelming)?I just told my partner not to do something, and then she said I was being too demanding with my expectations. After reflecting on it, I feel like maybe I've been too eager to 'change' her for the better. I realize that my attitude of wanting to... See More »
