Longpatrol · 31-35, M
Have you tried chlorofoaming them and tying them to a chair? Helps if they're the type to run from uncomfortable but necessary convos.
BrandNewMan · M
@Longpatrol Its the only way w some ..
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Start with I don't like when you do blah blah blah and stop. This way he won't get any chance to say I am not in the mood to talk or can we talk tomorrow or I am tired I need to sleep etc
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
Maybe not at a stressful moment, or during an argument. It helps to plan time to talk.
twistedrope · 26-30, M
Treat it like delivering bad news. Take them, fire a warning shot that the news isn't going to be good and deliver it. Plenty instructionals online on how to deliver bad news. Doctors do it all the time and the stakes are very high.
Gangstress · 41-45, F
At any time
Dont dwell in it as that leads to resentment
Deal with it today as a couple
Dont dwell in it as that leads to resentment
Deal with it today as a couple
BrandNewMan · M
With some people, there is no such time that they can be open to that discussion. If you find yourself in that situation .. exit it. Period.
4meAndyou · F
When things are relatively peaceful. Preface with, "Can we talk?"
YoMomma ·
Idk sometimes they don't listen or care i guess it's whenever you dare talk to them
YoMomma ·
Write them a letter
GerOttman · 61-69, M
Usually right after sex! If you do it before it ruins the mood, there's a big fight and you have to wait fo r makeup sex...
sarahcupcake · 36-40, F
@GerOttman Sorry this is a bit nosy of me but... Ger.... is that short for Gerbil...
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@sarahcupcake wow
sarahcupcake · 36-40, F
@WowwGirl I was only asking..!! 🙂
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Normally around 2am and complains about something 3 weeks
Justafantasy · M
@nedkelly make sure it's something they only did once and timeline is important. Must be 6 months to 5 years in the past, something where an adequate and realistic response is "I have no idea wtf you're talking about"
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
Depends on the person
BeJeweled · 61-69, F
Immediately or it will fester.
When he does it or when we're in bed
sarahcupcake · 36-40, F
Listen... you're really going to have to man up here ok?
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
While they are doing it, usually works.