How and when is the right time to talk about something your partner does that bothers you?

Have you tried chlorofoaming them and tying them to a chair? Helps if they're the type to run from uncomfortable but necessary convos.

When things are relatively peaceful. Preface with, "Can we talk?"

Maybe not at a stressful moment, or during an argument. It helps to plan time to talk.

Immediately or it will fester.

With some people, there is no such time that they can be open to that discussion. If you find yourself in that situation .. exit it. Period.

At any time
Dont dwell in it as that leads to resentment
Deal with it today as a couple

Normally around 2am and complains about something 3 weeks

Depends on the person

Treat it like delivering bad news. Take them, fire a warning shot that the news isn't going to be good and deliver it. Plenty instructionals online on how to deliver bad news. Doctors do it all the time and the stakes are very high.

Usually right after sex! If you do it before it ruins the mood, there's a big fight and you have to wait fo r makeup sex...

Listen... you're really going to have to man up here ok?

Idk sometimes they don't listen or care i guess it's whenever you dare talk to them

While they are doing it, usually works.

Write them a letter

Start with I don't like when you do blah blah blah and stop. This way he won't get any chance to say I am not in the mood to talk or can we talk tomorrow or I am tired I need to sleep etc

When he does it or when we're in bed