I can’t breathe my wife suddenly left with my children 700 miles away

Walked that road before, it’s not easy but the sun will shine one day.

Have you contacted the police to report a kidnapping?

So hard just got a message from my son telling me he misses me and asked when he’s going to see me again. I told him to ask his mother

I'm so sorry.
That is really rotten.
In most states you do have a right to see your children ,you may need to get a lawyer.
You'll need to get joint custody.
If you just get visitation you might end up having to pay a lot of child support.
It happened to my son and it took him forever to get straightened out once he did get custody of my granddaughter.

its a little rich for her to be the one to leave

That's a very tough tough situation your in .
I have no family of my own but I can relate to the nervous breakdown . It took me 5 times to go to psyche ward to get any bit of solitude back into my life .
Do you know looking back at it now and I'm saying this so it might not happen you .
It was all FEAR and BAD communication in a relationship and the FEAR not in my part turned into psychotic episodes . Those episodes comes from DREAD . The mind can't take it all in at once like what your trying to do now .
Everything passes . I hope you see them again . Don't do anything stupid like suicide.
At my early stages of a nervous breakdown which I was new to it I thought of that but as what I can say everything passes and one day you'll look back at it and say what was that all about when it passes .
You"ll come out stronger than ever .
That don't mean you"ll feel good everyday . It means you"ll handle life a bit better than you are now . I hope things be ok .
Message me privately if you want anytime .
I can't give advise on your family but I can give you advise on nervous breakdowns . I hold the record for that in one life time 😀😀😀

Geez. That is a lot to process. Is there any chance at reconciliation? I think she cheated on you. Some spouses are like that. You better get a good lawyer asap. You have rights to your children. And I hope you step up and pay support too. Do you have any friends to talk to? Join a support group if you can. Being with other guys might help you. Stop. Breathe. Make a list of everything you need to get handled. And you are going to experience all kinds of emotions. Anger. Betrayal. Depression. All normal. She cannot deny you the right to see your kids. Get that lawyer involved. Does she work? Are you the main breadwinner? See if she is agreeable to your spending time with the kids. You are their father. She cannot badmouth you. Seems you did nothing wrong. Keep us updated. And take good care of yourself in this hard time.

What ever is going on your wife needs to keep the kids out of it because it not fair to them because they are being made to choose sides at that is wrong .Right now they are only hearing her side and that is wrong. There are three sides to every story your side her side and the truth.

Relax. They did not vanish from the face of the earth . You can relocate closer to them and see them or if it gets to that go to court for custody🤷‍♀🤷‍♀ People do it all the time

I definitely intend too. Her excuse has changed every day or any time she will message me back. My children have phones I pay for so I talk to them all the time. Ultimately I think something was going on. I guess it’s not what you know what you can prove.

As a childfree person myself and all my life trying to avoid having kids I would call this a blessing.

You should celebrate your freedom and ability to now live on your own terms.

And remember if you do not fight for them then she wins more fuel to her fire . Make sure you get a new bank account if you had a joint account tell her to get her own and you will be closing this account also credit tell her to get her own because you will be cancelling them because if she still uses them then you are both responsible or maybe only one of you. If she got another man you may think about going after her for adulty. But you have to think of the kids

Aww man. I'm really sorry to read this. It's a horrible feeling to have your children kept from you. I know you've gotten legal advice here already so I'll just say this. Take your time, breathe, think on your feelings, and plan. This is a very intense emotional experience and you deserve your space to process your feelings before you act.

Every twenty years I've been punched out and removed from home forever. People have to forget you, now. Move on. It's what we do.

What the hell, Im sorry 🫤

InHeaven is a sensitive soul, don't be too hard on her. I can feel you're panicking, but it will be sorted. Collect yourself. Take charge.

File charges and have a court order to bring them back . She can’t legally relocate the children out of state without your approval or a court order allowing her to

It’s not that I guess I could I know my children are safe. I just truly love them with everything in me I can’t cope not seeing them every day and hugging them

I am sorry to hear that, do you have any friends, did you reach out to her parents and friends? She just cant take the kids from like that. Get all legal advice right away.

There werent any signs? She wasnt becomming distant? What did you find?

I'd follow her and get to the bottom of it and see if she's over reacting ..

Well they are your kids to not just her's so if you love your kids fight for them

Take a family lawyer immediately
Or even report her if you have part of custody

Get up

Too much feminism in place

There were any clues before that

That’s sad 😔

Call the police.
She can't just kidnap your kids without a good reason.
You have rights as their dad.

You have rights as a parent. They are not her children alone. Get an attorney.

@Ryan1417 Contact a lawyer because it is illegal where you are for her to just take them because both parents are entitled to custody. You can call the police, she can be imprisoned for this. You have been misinformed.


The website that info is found on.

https://www.mississippi-lawyers.com/blog/what-happens-when-you-try-to-kidnap-your-own-child-in-mississippi/#:~:text=There%20are%20no%20laws%20specific,of%20both%20parents%20is%20illegal.

More on the law in your state.


https://www.msbar.org/media/2375/gal-disc-3-mississippi-law-on-custody-and-visitation.pdf