I can’t breathe my wife suddenly left with my children 700 miles away

I went from seeing my children everyday day of their life until 2 weeks ago. Long story short found something on my wife’s phone I guess she didn’t have an explanation. She went to her family saying it’s completely over after 15 years and 4 children. I can’t breathe I have no family. I’m completely alone dealing with this really struggling. I feel like I’m having a nervous breakdown

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PoetryNEmotion · F

Geez. That is a lot to process. Is there any chance at reconciliation? I think she cheated on you. Some spouses are like that. You better get a good lawyer asap. You have rights to your children. And I hope you step up and pay support too. Do you have any friends to talk to? Join a support group if you can. Being with other guys might help you. Stop. Breathe. Make a list of everything you need to get handled. And you are going to experience all kinds of emotions. Anger. Betrayal. Depression. All normal. She cannot deny you the right to see your kids. Get that lawyer involved. Does she work? Are you the main breadwinner? See if she is agreeable to your spending time with the kids. You are their father. She cannot badmouth you. Seems you did nothing wrong. Keep us updated. And take good care of yourself in this hard time.

Ryan1417 · 36-40, M

@PoetryNEmotion I’m sure she cheated there were a lot of other things too

PoetryNEmotion · F

@Ryan1417 I am sorry that she screwed you. And that she took your kids away. So it came as no real surprise really? Except you have your kids stolen from you. Get that lawyer and save any proof of wrongdoings. My words are unchanged from above. And remember you have the right to grieve and to be upset. That is normal.