I can’t breathe my wife suddenly left with my children 700 miles away

I went from seeing my children everyday day of their life until 2 weeks ago. Long story short found something on my wife’s phone I guess she didn’t have an explanation. She went to her family saying it’s completely over after 15 years and 4 children. I can’t breathe I have no family. I’m completely alone dealing with this really struggling. I feel like I’m having a nervous breakdown

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SW-User

Relax. They did not vanish from the face of the earth . You can relocate closer to them and see them or if it gets to that go to court for custody🤷‍♀🤷‍♀ People do it all the time

Holden · 31-35, M

@SW-User And most of the time, the mother gets custody of the kids.

Ryan1417 · 36-40, M

@SW-User absolutely just hard when your in the thick of it. At home in an eerily quiet house when every room had kids playing and hanging out with my kids I’m not use to not being with them.

Dignaga

@SW-User No- they shared a domicile where he is at, she can relocate back closer to her or lose custody of the kids. Fair is fair.

SW-User

@Ryan1417 ok then pray to God and ask Him to bring kids back 🤷‍♀I don’t know what else to do. Or rent a room in town where she is and move there 🤷‍♀

Ryan1417 · 36-40, M

@Dignaga I do think that has truth to it she completely ripped them from their life. They aren’t from there and she is staying with family. I don’t even know if she has a plan but has made sure to tell me that they need to be with her because she’s raised them and stayed up all night. I said while I’m at work providing everything

Ryan1417 · 36-40, M

@SW-User that’s practical right quit my 80000 year job and get a hotel room good advice seriously let’s think about it a little bit like an adult

Dignaga

@Ryan1417 You need to look for a male rights advocate and a lawyer. This is happening to too many guys. You don't want the laws to hurt women fleeing from actual abuse, but it has long since gktten out of control. Women need hammered hard on this. Media blitz. Get the word out.

SW-User

@Ryan1417 ooohhh, ok then start thinking like an adult and stop whining here …. like non adult . I guess. All the best 🤷‍♀

Ryan1417 · 36-40, M

@SW-User or keep your advice to your self looks like your one of those huh antagonists just taking the opposite of whatever your reading? Don’t know what your problem is you gave advice and I gave you some back have a nice night

SW-User

@Ryan1417 yes, good bye

aboveaverageaveragejoe · 51-55, M

@SW-User incorrect. The mother does not have the right to remove the children.

Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M

@SW-User you clearly did not read the story if that’s your honest response 🤷🏾‍♂

StraCat · 41-45, M

@Ryan1417 Yeah. I never get people who get off on antagonzing other people for no reason. It both baffling and sad.