My situation is horrid, I do realise that I did bully people first, but honestly I just thought it was funny. Now I’m unpopular and it’s awful. @BigGuy2

@Strongtea ... the payback iincident that he did to you, it made you feel afraid/bad

... now expand that feeling over a two year period that you Bullied him, that is what he was going through for 2 YEARS

Ok ok, I get your point. 🥺@BigGuy2

I do just wish people would see my side, but ok, I do know I wasn’t the greatest person. If I could go back in time to stop him doing it to me I would in a heartbeat. @BigGuy2

@Strongtea

"...If I could go back in time to stop him doing it to me I would in a heartbeat..."

... my emphasis

I do hope that is a typing error, if not, you seem to be ONLY lamenting what HE did to YOU ... i don't think i've come across any comments from you lamenting what YOU did to HIM

No no, obviously I would go back in time and not do it to him! I suppose what he did to me did really upset me, but it has made me take a look at what I did to cause it. 🥺@BigGuy2

@Strongtea such intelligent responses from you.

@Strongtea You obviously haven't learned anything.... what a shame

I do wish I hadn’t done it as I really hate what happened to me.@Kimberly4Princess

I didn’t do anything that bad, I only said stuff to him or about him, I didn’t hit him or anything@LadyGrace

@Strongtea I wouldn't call being a nightmare to someone as "being that bad". Put yourself in his place and see how you would have felt if the tables were turned. It may not have seemed bad to you, but what if someone had done that to your brother or sister if you had one? You would have seen the torment and I don't think you would have liked it. Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. You are lucky he did not kill himself. Then how would you have felt? You don't know what went through his head. This is how people end up committing suicide, from people who bully them. It's not just an amusing past time. It's serious.

@Strongtea I have a theory that life keeps smacking you in the face with the same lessons until you do learn them ;)

@Strongtea Hahaha m8 it could've been worse fortunately for you that was a slap on the wrist

Oh cheers🙄@TimingQuasars

Oh whatever, loser.@SW-User

No, sorry.@SW-User

What does?@Subalugirl

@Strongtea bullying !!

@Strongtea Check your message

@Strongtea and yours is worthless

Shut up@Like2play

@Strongtea again you make such a great comment. You just sound so intelligent.

Ok, whatever@JohnOinger

Honestly, whatever.@BlueVeins

@Strongtea 💋

Ok ok fine, whatever. He (and her) got me back.@Piper

Shut up@Thecollective

@Strongtea ouch such strong words

Oh ok, I don’t think it will be happening again.@LadyJ

@Strongtea there you go. Good for you.

@Strongtea hi , you have my two replies to your wonderful message , please read them and reply , i can't wait to know from you, show to all of them why is so good and better and natural with your two on the top ;)

@Strongtea please do me a favor and see if you received my latest message , i am not sure if it was delivered correctly

@Strongtea maybe when you see them, bow and ask their forgiveness and say you are sorry? And they can forgive you 🙂 hopefully

Ok, that’s what I think I need to do. I’m just so so scared to even see them, I just freeze, but I’ll try. I actually feel like crying. @YoMomma @YoMomma

No we don’t really have them, there are other shops but they’re more difficult to go to (I live in quite a small town.)@trackboy

@Strongtea Have you tried sincerely apologising?

I have apologised, but after what he did to me, I really think I shouldn’t have done@BritishPerson

How fantastic of you to remind me.@Adrift

@Strongtea whats funny is you dont seem to want to take responsibility for it so that tells me you haven't learned anything.

It was awful, my social life was ruined.@Adrift

Thanks@SW-User

No @JohnOinger

@Strongtea are you getting my message

Yes, but I don’t really talk about that stuff@Mahesh

@Strongtea which one

@Strongtea No. You deserve it. You come on here to feel sorry for yourself. Get a grip. The world does not revolve around you. Wallow in self pity, but you brought this on yourself. Cheers to your victim. I admire him.

Yes but he made me look like some kind of joke and has basically ruined my social life, that’s what I find unfair@Lukeman

@Strongtea Good to know.

No, I did realise what I was doing, but I thought it was funny, I don’t think that I realised quite how much I upset him. @Fishy

No he just did it the one time I suppose. Ok I see your point@Mindful

@Strongtea great, so to grow…use your imagination and travel back in time this time pretending you are the person getting bullied if you try to put yourself in his shoes, and carry that humiliated feeling back in time, pretend you were him, and feel those feeling for two years in your mind…That might help you grow compassion and understanding of him and others. So we learn as a society that this is not wise to do…it is not wise to bully. You are lucky he did not go crazy and decide to use a gun to teach ALL bullies… you’ve gone too far. You are lucky/blessed he chose a healthy way to teach you a lesson.

Yes I suppose you are right, it could have been a lot worse for me. I’ll think about this. Thanks again.@Mindful

OMG Whatever, like I care what you think. Loser.@Lacemaker

@Strongtea You really are a total fuckwit.
I only unblocked you the other day and you come back with this crap.

RE-BLOCKED!

I have tried to apologise to him and I am really really polite if I see him. His friends and family really don’t like me though.@Punches

Certainly not!@JoeyFoxx

@Strongtea maybe you aren’t mentally strong then?

Whatever@jimjim1969

stop denying lol @Strongtea

Shut up, I only verbally bullied him. I didn’t deserve what he did to me as now everyone thinks it’s funny@Sepia

Oh shut up@Nitedoc

Yeah, cool whatever🙄@SW-User

@Strongtea Well that's good, because how kind we are is what matters in life.

@Strongtea I would apologize to him in person and in a letter if I were you.

I have recently sent him a message on Facebook apologising but haven’t heard back. I’m very scared to see him in person. @Carazaa

Oh, can’t you see my side though?@Snuffy1957

@Strongtea
No I can't... you got off easy... i used to beat the hell out of bullies when I'd see them picking on others...

OMG I can’t believe no one sees it from my side. It was so embarrassing it’s hard to live down. ☹️@thomassa

@Strongtea you were bullying him, so i think its right for him to fight back!

Yeah, a lot of people have said that to me. I just think he took it too far.@TheSandman01

@Strongtea He did but I can still understand why he did it.

Oh ok.@BritishPerson

To be honest no, I think he went too far, but a lot of people think I did.@Bonnie

Unfortunately no. 🥺@SW-User

Oh my god, whatever@YourMomsSecretCrush

Ummm yes@mysteryespresso

@Strongtea and I would love to have seen how that went wouldn't have been mud you'd have ended up in 😜

Oh whatever, I think I could handle u@SW-User

@Strongtea Most can't 😜