I was a bully [I Was Bullied]
Everyone thinks I deserved it and that he’s so great as he didn’t hit me, but no one thinks about how horrid the experience was for me.
Everyone thinks I deserved it and that he’s so great as he didn’t hit me, but no one thinks about how horrid the experience was for me.
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SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
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BigGuy2 · 31-35, M
@Strongtea
"...If I could go back in time to stop him doing it to me I would in a heartbeat..."
... my emphasis
I do hope that is a typing error, if not, you seem to be ONLY lamenting what HE did to YOU ... i don't think i've come across any comments from you lamenting what YOU did to HIM
"...If I could go back in time to stop him doing it to me I would in a heartbeat..."
... my emphasis
I do hope that is a typing error, if not, you seem to be ONLY lamenting what HE did to YOU ... i don't think i've come across any comments from you lamenting what YOU did to HIM
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I do wish I hadn’t done it as I really hate what happened to me.@Kimberly4Princess
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@Strongtea I wouldn't call being a nightmare to someone as "being that bad". Put yourself in his place and see how you would have felt if the tables were turned. It may not have seemed bad to you, but what if someone had done that to your brother or sister if you had one? You would have seen the torment and I don't think you would have liked it. Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. You are lucky he did not kill himself. Then how would you have felt? You don't know what went through his head. This is how people end up committing suicide, from people who bully them. It's not just an amusing past time. It's serious.
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@Strongtea Hahaha m8 it could've been worse fortunately for you that was a slap on the wrist
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh cheers🙄@TimingQuasars
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Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh whatever, loser.@SW-User
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Strongtea · 22-25, M
No, sorry.@SW-User
BritishPerson · 41-45, M
Strongtea · 22-25, M
What does?@Subalugirl
Subalugirl · 22-25, F
@Strongtea bullying !!
Subalugirl · 22-25, F
@Strongtea Check your message
bijouxbroussard · F
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
BlueVeins · 22-25
warranted
Philth · 46-50, M
It seems incomprehensible that any person could be so lacking in the astonishing levels of self awareness seen in your posts. Therefore the only possible explanation for the nature of what you post can surely only be that you seek validation by making an absolute cnut of yourself. Honestly mate and I say this with the greatest respect, seek professional help. You're still young, you have a life ahead of you. Get help, stop making other peoples lives a misery, and you might just find that you feel better about yourself too.
Piper · 61-69, F
Hmm...let's see. You chose to demean and "bully" a classmate just because he looked like a good target and couldn't or wouldn't defend himself. You did this for a couple of years. A girl you were dating said he told her you made his life a nightmare.
He sees you a few years later and throws you into a pile of mud. No, I don't think he was necessarily "right" to do that...just justified to.
He sees you a few years later and throws you into a pile of mud. No, I don't think he was necessarily "right" to do that...just justified to.
Thecollective · 100+
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Shut up@Thecollective
Thecollective · 100+
@Strongtea ouch such strong words
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Strongtea · 22-25, M
His girlf now works in the Tesco a couple of streets away from me. Everytime I go I she says something to me, other staff, customers. She even has told my parents what I did. It’s so so humiliating, I wish she would just keep quiet.
BritishPerson · 41-45, M
@Strongtea Have you tried sincerely apologising?
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I have apologised, but after what he did to me, I really think I shouldn’t have done@BritishPerson
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JohnOinger · 41-45, M
Mahesh · M
Absolutely right thing he did
YoMomma ·
I think you were wrong to bully him .. now he is living his dream of getting back at you.. at least mud is soft and harmless and you didn't get injured just dirty? But you owe him an apology for bullying him all those years and making his life hell.. why did you do that to him anyway?
Fishy · 36-40, F
I mean, did you realise that you were bullying him or that your words effected him when you were at school together?
Or did you have no idea until he brought it up recently?
Or did you have no idea until he brought it up recently?
Mindful · 56-60, F
Probably yes
Mindful · 56-60, F
@Strongtea great, so to grow…use your imagination and travel back in time this time pretending you are the person getting bullied if you try to put yourself in his shoes, and carry that humiliated feeling back in time, pretend you were him, and feel those feeling for two years in your mind…That might help you grow compassion and understanding of him and others. So we learn as a society that this is not wise to do…it is not wise to bully. You are lucky he did not go crazy and decide to use a gun to teach ALL bullies… you’ve gone too far. You are lucky/blessed he chose a healthy way to teach you a lesson.
Lacemaker · 41-45, F
Are you a Christian?
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JoeyFoxx · 56-60, M
Did you walk over and congratulate him?
jimjim1969 · M
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Whatever@jimjim1969
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yeah, cool whatever🙄@SW-User
Carazaa · F
Were you bullied at home? or why would you hurt someone for 2 years?
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
Yessssss he was right !!
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh, can’t you see my side though?@Snuffy1957
thomassa · M
well deserved!
TheSandman01 · 22-25, M
Don't they say you'll get what you deserve.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yeah, a lot of people have said that to me. I just think he took it too far.@TheSandman01
BritishPerson · 41-45, M
@Strongtea He did but I can still understand why he did it.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh ok.@BritishPerson
Orkboy · 100+
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Bonnie · 41-45, F
Do you think you deserved it?
SW-User
Lol... is this a joke?
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Unfortunately no. 🥺@SW-User
karma's rough. LOL
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh my god, whatever@YourMomsSecretCrush
you're back!
th3r0n · 41-45, M
To be honest, revenge isn’t good, vengeance belongs to the Lord
You were more wrong than him though
You were more wrong than him though
SW-User
Honestly yeah from your reactions here, and how you phrased the question. You are playing the victim card when really it was karma.
And from your other posts you seem very shallow and arrogant if you present yourself that way people are not going to like you.
And from your other posts you seem very shallow and arrogant if you present yourself that way people are not going to like you.
SW-User
@Strongtea and I would love to have seen how that went wouldn't have been mud you'd have ended up in 😜
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh whatever, I think I could handle u@SW-User
SW-User
@Strongtea Most can't 😜
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Strongtea OK then. What do you mean well done?
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Please stop please you’ve totally made me look stupid, i’m Really sorry@LaylaTheTallGirl
Lukeman · M
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