I was a bully [I Was Bullied]

I was a bully at school and bullied one person for a couple of years. Apparently I made his life a nightmare he told a girl I was dating (they were both in the year below me.) I came home from university at Christmas last year and saw him, he’d started going to the gym, he literally picked me up and threw me in a huge pile of mud. All his friends cheered and clapped as I got up, covered. I can’t stand them. I cried for days afterwards, I was so upset. Do you think he was right?

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LadyGrace ·

I'm not for fighting, but I think you got what you deserved, and in your comments, it sounds like you're still defending what you did. Bullying is not cool.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Ok, I just wanted someone to agree with me and see my side@LadyGrace

LadyGrace ·

@Strongtea Your side? Are you defending what you did?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I didn’t do anything that bad, I only said stuff to him or about him, I didn’t hit him or anything@LadyGrace

LadyGrace ·

@Strongtea I wouldn't call being a nightmare to someone as "being that bad". Put yourself in his place and see how you would have felt if the tables were turned. It may not have seemed bad to you, but what if someone had done that to your brother or sister if you had one? You would have seen the torment and I don't think you would have liked it. Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. You are lucky he did not kill himself. Then how would you have felt? You don't know what went through his head. This is how people end up committing suicide, from people who bully them. It's not just an amusing past time. It's serious.

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