I was a bully [I Was Bullied]

I was a bully at school and bullied one person for a couple of years. Apparently I made his life a nightmare he told a girl I was dating (they were both in the year below me.) I came home from university at Christmas last year and saw him, he’d started going to the gym, he literally picked me up and threw me in a huge pile of mud. All his friends cheered and clapped as I got up, covered, with my outfit totally ruined. I can’t stand those people, they made me feel so stupid. I cried for days afterwards, I was so upset. Do you think he was right?
Everyone thinks I deserved it and that he’s so great as he didn’t hit me, but no one thinks about how horrid the experience was for me.

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Fishy · 36-40, F

I mean, did you realise that you were bullying him or that your words effected him when you were at school together?

Or did you have no idea until he brought it up recently?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

No, I did realise what I was doing, but I thought it was funny, I don’t think that I realised quite how much I upset him. @Fishy