I was a bully [I Was Bullied]

I was a bully at school and bullied one person for a couple of years. Apparently I made his life a nightmare he told a girl I was dating (they were both in the year below me.) I came home from university at Christmas last year and saw him, he’d started going to the gym, he literally picked me up and threw me in a huge pile of mud. All his friends cheered and clapped as I got up, covered. I can’t stand them. I cried for days afterwards, I was so upset. Do you think he was right?

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Strongtea · 22-25, M

His girlf now works in the Tesco a couple of streets away from me. Everytime I go I she says something to me, other staff, customers. She even has told my parents what I did. It’s so so humiliating, I wish she would just keep quiet.

BritishPerson · 41-45, M

@Strongtea Maybe you should avoid going into that particular Tesco.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I do try, but it’s our local one and it’s open later than the other shops. It sucks that I need to go somewhere else.@BritishPerson

trackboy · 22-25, M

@Strongtea what is she saying/?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Asking me ‘if I’ve bullied anyone lately’ or just telling the other staff as I walk past what I did. She is being so obnoxious it’s awful@trackboy

trackboy · 22-25, M

@Strongtea @Strongtea That would bite big time!!!!

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I know! It’s horrible being reminded about what happened! I really wish that she’d stop.@trackboy

BritishPerson · 41-45, M

@Strongtea I really would just avoid going in there. There must be other shops you can go to that don't close early.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I do avoid it as much as I can, but sometimes going in there is inevitable.@BritishPerson

trackboy · 22-25, M

@Strongtea there are no other stores to go to like a Kmart the poor people's store??

Strongtea · 22-25, M

No we don’t really have them, there are other shops but they’re more difficult to go to (I live in quite a small town.)@trackboy

BritishPerson · 41-45, M

@Strongtea Have you tried sincerely apologising?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I have apologised, but after what he did to me, I really think I shouldn’t have done@BritishPerson