I was a bully [I Was Bullied]

I was a bully at school and bullied one person for a couple of years. Apparently I made his life a nightmare he told a girl I was dating (they were both in the year below me.) I came home from university at Christmas last year and saw him, he’d started going to the gym, he literally picked me up and threw me in a huge pile of mud. All his friends and even random people who at first were concerned about me, but then changed their feelings when people heard why he did it, cheered and clapped as I got up covered, with my outfit totally ruined. I can’t stand those people, they made me feel so stupid. I cried for days afterwards, I was so upset. Do you think he was right?
Everyone thinks I deserved it and that he’s so great as he didn’t hit me, but no one thinks about how horrid the experience was for me.

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Strongtea · 22-25, M

His girlf now works in the Tesco a couple of streets away from me. Everytime I go I she says something to me, other staff, customers. She even has told my parents what I did. It’s so so humiliating, I wish she would just keep quiet.

BritishPerson · 41-45, M

@Strongtea Maybe you should avoid going into that particular Tesco.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I do try, but it’s our local one and it’s open later than the other shops. It sucks that I need to go somewhere else.@BritishPerson

trackboy · 26-30, M

@Strongtea what is she saying/?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Asking me ‘if I’ve bullied anyone lately’ or just telling the other staff as I walk past what I did. She is being so obnoxious it’s awful@trackboy

trackboy · 26-30, M

@Strongtea @Strongtea That would bite big time!!!!

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I know! It’s horrible being reminded about what happened! I really wish that she’d stop.@trackboy

BritishPerson · 41-45, M

@Strongtea I really would just avoid going in there. There must be other shops you can go to that don't close early.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I do avoid it as much as I can, but sometimes going in there is inevitable.@BritishPerson

trackboy · 26-30, M

@Strongtea there are no other stores to go to like a Kmart the poor people's store??

Strongtea · 22-25, M

No we don’t really have them, there are other shops but they’re more difficult to go to (I live in quite a small town.)@trackboy

BritishPerson · 41-45, M

@Strongtea Have you tried sincerely apologising?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I have apologised, but after what he did to me, I really think I shouldn’t have done@BritishPerson