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daddy6199 · 41-45, M
Can’t lose it if you never had it
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@daddy6199 Oh boy. So youre like that? No restraint?

Elessar · 26-30, M

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Elessar · 26-30, M
@Rilyn Not my keyboard but it's not uncommon that key caps come off 😅
SatanBurger · 36-40, F
@Elessar Dam control can't stay where you put it
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Elessar theyre defective then ...all the manufacturers fault -.-
Matt85 · 36-40, M
No. Not since I have been stopping myself from getting into that teritorry where I lose control.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Matt85 feel better soon 🤗 Nah. I know ive done it too at my worst. I dont preach my methods on anyone thats all.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
@Rilyn Thankyou 🥹
ffony · M
@Matt85 Let this atheist compliment you on that reply. Whatever works! Even if you may not know how it works.
4meAndyou · F
Nope. I can't take myself that seriously. But I will say that in the past, I was something of a wild child, and my own actions often led me into situations that were...depressing, or dangerous.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@4meAndyou I can relate. I was pretty dangerous rebellious and deviant myself as a teen
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
Not real often but when I have a disorder reaction it can get intense and all control is gone, yes.

Sorry you are experiencing this :(
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@laurieluvsit gosh hope it doesnt happen often :( 🌹
Umile · 41-45, F
Rarely.

I have hiccups, but I'm always in control of how I deal with it. If that makes sense.

My focus is razor sharp right now.

You catch more vermin with sweet than sour.

Game time.
Umile · 41-45, F
@Rilyn True.

The truth can be bitter.

But, I'll take it any day.

I'll take the rot gut truth over a pretty lie any day.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Umile How do you know the rot truth is even truth do you know how much ive been lied to? - to the point where even facts dont match even the lies let alone truths. ..
Umile · 41-45, F
Empty your cup and start over.

Meditate and pray.

Seek help.

I must say though, if it's tangent and fact, acknowledge that.
Not very often thankfully. Usually I will when Im in a very dark place and should've asked for help almost too late, or someone notices.

Im sorry you're getting to the point. Ask for help.
@Rilyn I get it, i dont do that either, except once recently, and only bc I felt completely lost and all that goes with it. Its life, and its a c^nt sometimes (like my exwife, but I digress).

Maybe post the issue here, or DM, and youll get some support or some people that went through what you are and have insight. Just an idea.

Anyway, Im sorry you're going through it. If you want to vent, or whatever, dm me, Ill get back to you when I can today.

Keep your chin up.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@TallMtnMedic Yeah I get what you mean. Youre right. But theres a limit too isnt there?

DM me too. Its okay my inbox is always there. From me to you, thanks 🙏🌹
Yes! If the person venting here was doing it for attention, then that's the limit.


Ill not turn my back on someone that is genuine.
ABCDEF7 · M
There are many aspects that you need to control in your life.
ABCDEF7 · M
@Rilyn Will do after a while.
ABCDEF7 · M
@Rilyn Please check your messages/requests.
Umile · 41-45, F
@ABCDEF7 💯
SW-User
It's not something that is in the front of my mind often. I have a lot of things I have no control over, like how I felt grief or even distances in family, but I don't look for control over those parts. I find most people looking for control over have some base need to try and control those parts of themselves for their emotions.

But I do things that are to give up control, and I need and love them, so I could say, yes. 🌹
SW-User
@Rilyn My nephew is studying philosophy to become a defence lawyer. Now if he ever becomes vindictive and uses his learnings to hurt his family it could become evil.
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SW-User
@Rilyn I feel it won't, he's very sensitive, and I don't think he would use that part against family, but I do sometimes worry how he can become arrogant, like that is the part of him that has not healed how he was sensitive.
CheezeburgerBrown · 36-40, M
As long as im sober Jesus has the wheel 😎
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
No, hardly ever.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
@Rilyn I do understand that and I know it won't always be that way. DM me if you want to. We can chat.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Nitedoc Of course. My doors always open to chat too 💜
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
@Rilyn Thank you. That does mean a lot to me.💙
Iwillwait · M
I'm pretty sure I never had "Control," in the sense of what I feel I should be in possession of.
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
Back in the day of deep anxiety and depression I did
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@JohnnyNoir I dont have depression...
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
@Rilyn you don't have to in order to feel a loss of control. There are many situations that can cause it
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@JohnnyNoir PTSD makes me feel it. I get....overwhelmed and boom ....makes you feel out of it.
maybe every once in a long while
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@rinkydinkydoink what do you mean?
[@Rilyn

The do said it all
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@rinkydinkydoink Said what?
I don't think I ever feel in control of anything anymore.
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GBPackersFan · 41-45, M
I try Self Control the song by Laura Brannigan
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Mudkip · 31-35, M
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Mudkip can you teach me? Dont tell me meditation or ill scream 😶
Mudkip · 31-35, M
@Rilyn would you really scream? 😶
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Mudkip Yes. Ill scream till your eardrums bust 🤣
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
No i have full control over the dark side 😈
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@XDHyperGirlXD1 lucky you thought darkness was infinite
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
@Rilyn 👀
Convivial · 26-30, F
Depends on whether it's something that you must control or something you need to let slide maybe
Convivial · 26-30, F
@Rilyn without knowing more it's hard to say anything... You don't always have to be nice, you do get say in how you live your life
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Convivial Yeah but when its family being illogically cruel to you? I drew the line. I walked out. But I got the legal torment going on anyway.
Convivial · 26-30, F
@Rilyn that's hard and i don't have an answer... Starting again is not easy but it's a clean slate for you to write what you wish
antonioioio · 70-79, M
Only when I can't resist 😊
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@antonioioio resist what yo
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Rilyn · 31-35, F
@geoam1 good you're well disciplined then 👀
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SumKindaMunster Dont Nah me! 🔥🔱
Pretzel · 70-79, M
Nope. That would suggest I HAD control at some point
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Pretzel youre a good guy 😓
Pretzel · 70-79, M
@Rilyn YOU TAKE THAT BACK! :)
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Pretzel make me ...,🔱
dale74 · M
What is control
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@dale74 Id say it wull end badly
dale74 · M
@Rilyn well then I guess it is life I PM ed you...
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@dale74 Ill get to it 🙏
I once thought I was turning Japanese (I really thought so!), but it turns out I was mistaken.

I WAS turned into a newt, once, but I got better.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SomeMichGuy A newt? 👀 Sounds like a Pokemon :p
@Rilyn A ref to Monty Python and the Holy Grail
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SomeMichGuy Monty Python 🤩
SW-User
Yes. How can we not if we are feeling and sensitive? This world wants to starve us from feeling, and yet if you really look, we are people who feel and we don't back down from saying we feel.
Not necessarily losing. control. Shifting control, maybe. Sometimes, in not such a good direction.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@PhoenixPhail My direction is like Jack Sparrows compass
Ferric67 · M
I almost had a moment at work, but I kept my cool and mouth shut
I got mad over preferential treatment coupled with some lying by management
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Ferric67 Ah at work its not good to run your mouth but I get it. No ones perfect
Ferric67 · M
@Rilyn I'm not going to let it go though, just so they know not to fuk around (I've had this fight with them before, and I have been given what's right). I literally almost wanted to walk out yesterday.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Ferric67 Im sorry youre dealing with this on the workplace. Hope it eases up soon for you.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Anything I can do to help?
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@samueltyler2 Im fine at moment tbh thanks 🌹
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@Rilyn if ever you need help, whatever I can do virtually.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@samueltyler2 Most appreciated
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
No I’m not out of control handle things the best I can every day
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@BLP11520 Thats the best you can really do
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
Nope. And when things begin to slide sideways, I catch them and put them back into place.
Nevertooold · 56-60, M
Very close to it on a number of occasions!
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Nevertooold 🌪️
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Yesterday wasn`t good. 😟
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Degbeme Last 3 years were not good damn the entire century aint good 🤦‍♀️
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Rilyn Better now?
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Degbeme neope
HumanEarth · F
I want to, but I'm not allowed to
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@HumanEarth what do you mean not allowed?
HumanEarth · F
I don't know, I didn't think of good lie yet. Let me get back to you on that.

(Dammit, I wasn't supposed to be called out on it. This is why you don't raise your hand in class. Because the teacher will call on you.)
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@BatmanIRL seems to be common....sorry youre struggling too
BatmanIRL · T
@Rilyn thank you! I’ll manage tho💖
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@BatmanIRL Hopefully 🤗💜
Amylynne · 26-30, F
NOT ANY MORE.. i learned how to controll myself AND do what I like
dale74 · M
Control is just a figment of people's imagination
sben4200 · 56-60, M
More often than I'd like.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@sben4200 Im off the orbit
Samek · 36-40, M
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Samek sorry to hear
Samek · 36-40, M
@Rilyn in a "life is exhausting" sort of way. Some days better than others. Thank you.
Holden · 31-35, M
Actually yes, but in an embarrassing way.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Holden I get the idea...
Holden · 31-35, M
@Rilyn yeah :(
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Monaschandroff86 good 😌
Ducky · 31-35, F
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
😅😅😅😅😅. I hate to say this 😅😅😅😅.
Your loosing control cause your trying to control.
Sorry now 😅😅😅😊😊😊
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@riseofthemachine reverse psychology
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
uh-huh ground control
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@pancakeslam ground zero lol
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Rilyn · 31-35, F
@HowtoDestroyAngels No good. I guess it just spirals or something sometimes.
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
@Rilyn I agree.
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Rilyn · 31-35, F
@aboveaverageaveragejoe Righhht if it was so easy
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I feel it in regards to my health. Sorry you do lovely 🩷
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Rilyn I am really sorry, I hope you find the light soon 🩷
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Rilyn this is true

 
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