Do you feel like you're losing control often?

Rilyn · 2024-06-26T13:01:32-04:00

Struggles - Do you feel like you're losing control often? (177 replies).

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SW-User

It's not something that is in the front of my mind often. I have a lot of things I have no control over, like how I felt grief or even distances in family, but I don't look for control over those parts. I find most people looking for control over have some base need to try and control those parts of themselves for their emotions.

But I do things that are to give up control, and I need and love them, so I could say, yes. 🌹

Rilyn · 31-35, F

@SW-User Im obsessed with the idea of control in my "family" they are nasty and if you dont assert yourself youll lose the plot anyway.

SW-User

@Rilyn I can't make assumptions, but I have watched dynamics of family before, having been around a few, and I know a certain country shaped like a boot they need those in their family to assert yourself, or they'll treat you nasty.

Rilyn · 31-35, F

@SW-User -.- when you got lawyers in your "family" expect anything.

SW-User

@Rilyn My nephew is studying philosophy to become a defence lawyer. Now if he ever becomes vindictive and uses his learnings to hurt his family it could become evil.

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SW-User

@Rilyn I feel it won't, he's very sensitive, and I don't think he would use that part against family, but I do sometimes worry how he can become arrogant, like that is the part of him that has not healed how he was sensitive.