focus on the breathe. I know it's everywhere , I know everyone says it, but it totally fulfill the criteria of your question. It is a small thing. You can do it anywhere at any moment. The idea is shifting your whole attention from whichever place , center it, bring it back. observe how the air feels when it enters your nostrils. observe how your belly raises. how the whole body moves. Just plain AIR lol
@ABCDEF7 It's a personal thing. Since I've trained in China paradoxically, I've lost some of its beauty, in the sense that, I trained under stress. Mmmaybe you had something similar, a similar reaction to meditation, growing up and regarding your roots ? Just a guess and an assumption from my side, I know not much smart. I'm trying to point that ..if/ when we're "forced fed" certain things, they can turn into stress factors, even if they're supposedly relaxation techniques .. For me, sometimes, just the idea of the art can stress me, if I am not in the right head space.
@being Yes, how you take a thing is very important. For me, many times writing a complex code can be joyful, while it can be stressful for some, or even for me at times.
I heard on a podcast how viewing social media consumption the same way you’d look at diets could be a good use.
For me I’ve had to limit the intakes of places like IG and here just to get some sense of calmness back. I was getting a bit too down tbh. Plus IG was a time suck.
Not saying that’s how everyone should like at this as I know this is an outlet for many. But that’s one thing I’m trying to help with my mental health.
Making any random stranger smile and laugh with a little witty comment or compliment that relates to whatever may be happening at that moment. For example... If a check-out lady asks me if "Would you like a bag?" when I purchase something, I may say "No thank you, I already have one waiting at home for me" Or, if I see a really tall black man, I may walk up to him and say "You are lucky there is no basketball hoop in here right now because this old white boy can jump and would dunk on you? Who else would say something so random? Always a positive response! Surprising strangers with a simple remark to induce a smile or laugh makes me feel good about spreading happiness Good for the soul!
Taking everything in moderation. I sometimes need time off from SW. Other days, I find I have become ultra competitive in online games, like Sherlock Hidden Object, and I have to calm down and step away and LET myself lose.