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Matt85 · 36-40, M
I don't know if you've seen Carrie....
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Sazzio · 31-35, M
It converts into anger (sorry, I don't do PC). So you get angry but keep it to yourself instead of letting it out in a healthy way.
Also you Will not able to develop with the way u should be developing in a natural sorta way. Can't think straight, act on impulse maybe.
Overall anger issue will be there inside of u.
Also you Will not able to develop with the way u should be developing in a natural sorta way. Can't think straight, act on impulse maybe.
Overall anger issue will be there inside of u.
In my situation sharing my emotions gets me hated, so I just hide and cry a lot. I don't think I can suppress emotions. They're already too big.
MaBalzEsHari · M
@MarbleMarvel Sharing emotions never gets anyone hated........other than in their own minds. unless of course you do it in a hateful way. People usually care and listen............or just walk off when someone shares emotions.....but I have never known anyone who would "hate" you for sharing them.
@MaBalzEsHari you just won't go away will you? Time to block.
Berti33 · 41-45, F
Migraine
Reject · 26-30, M
They fester into something much worse. It doesn’t have to be explosive like many would think, sometimes it’s a subtle as being in a foul mood.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
There are theories that it causes weird physical symptoms or even autoimmune diseases. Idk, if it's true, I believe it's just one of the factors that contribute.
Muscle spasms, IBS, pains and aches, headache, insomnia...
Muscle spasms, IBS, pains and aches, headache, insomnia...
Cassieeeee · 31-35, F
You get coping mechanisms, and then one day you collapse and suddenly you're in therapy unable to open up, because you have no idea what's wrong or how you're feeling.
JestAJester · 31-35, M
I turn hollow. Uncaring. Indfferent to the world and people
Lubnaa · 22-25, F
@JestAJester Yes we slowly start to lose our selves
JestAJester · 31-35, M
@Lubnaa not sure how to stop it either
solitaire · 41-45, F
I end up being miserable and depressed on the inside
in10RjFox · M
It's like suppressing your bladder.. it would blow up when least expected
virginpeter · 36-40, MNew
u get sexually frustrated like me
Lubnaa · 22-25, F
@virginpeter What does sex have to do with it
virginpeter · 36-40, MNew
@Lubnaa thats just the way i feel
it affects both your physical and mental health. not good.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
It builds up and explodes somewhere else over time. Like if your stressed at work for months you might start getting frustrated at your family when they dont understand the stress your under.
Lubnaa · 22-25, F
@GuyWithOpinions Yes thats right
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
This is highly dependent on the personality of the person.
It can go a number of ways. Buddhism would deal with it quite the opposite of a very logical person.
Both are means of suppressing emotions. Just the methods defer.
You can release it, which is what most do.
You can refuse to acknowledge the emotions, which is what Buddhist monks do by deferment.
Or you can control it with logic. Which has its own consequences.
There is possibly other ways.
Say through a combination of the three.
It can go a number of ways. Buddhism would deal with it quite the opposite of a very logical person.
Both are means of suppressing emotions. Just the methods defer.
You can release it, which is what most do.
You can refuse to acknowledge the emotions, which is what Buddhist monks do by deferment.
Or you can control it with logic. Which has its own consequences.
There is possibly other ways.
Say through a combination of the three.
Lubnaa · 22-25, F
@DeWayfarer Buddhists has some of the best ideas
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Lubnaa as I said. "This is highly dependent on the personality of the person".
Everyone is different and no one thing works for everyone.
Everyone is different and no one thing works for everyone.
Lubnaa · 22-25, F
@DeWayfarer Understood sir , Different things work for different people 😊
4meAndyou · F
If you internalize everything, eventually you will become depressed. Often, people who internalize emotion have nightmares, or dreams in which the sleeping mind wrestles with the emotions we don't know how to handle.
Magenta · F
They can come out in other not so good ways, such as anger. It can cause stress, etc.. Here's a short video on just that subject.
https://similarworlds.com/Magenta/photo?pid=6862472
https://similarworlds.com/Magenta/photo?pid=6862472
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Great topic. Suppressing emotions implies some degree of control over them and the ability to decide on how to respond. There is an additional level, when you no longer have the ability to even suppress. My best examples of that is when panic stricken, and when there is no escape. It doesn't have to be a physical threat that renders one unable to respond, unable to mask their true feelings. Like one is trapped in the fight or flight state and the choice of which is no longer left to the person.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
I was feeling horrible sadness and anxiety last night. So many people out there in pain. My friends on the ragged edge of disaster. My self feeling alienated, helpless, and alone.
And suddenly it was like a switch in my head turned off. My emotion chip i guess. And I lost all feeling/emotion. My mind suppressed all thoughts. It felt like a sheet over them in my head. And i went to sleep. Woke up.this morning and still feel under control.
And suddenly it was like a switch in my head turned off. My emotion chip i guess. And I lost all feeling/emotion. My mind suppressed all thoughts. It felt like a sheet over them in my head. And i went to sleep. Woke up.this morning and still feel under control.
Convivial · 26-30, F
It's like trying to squish a balloon,. It just pops somewhere unexpected
rachelsj · 22-25, F
Knots in your muscles, less sleep just to name a few
therighttothink50 · 56-60, M
Sometimes it is highly required to live in a civilized world.
Magenta · F
@therighttothink50 Indeed, good point! Many things should not nor need to be expressed.
OldBrit · 61-69, M
Not good for me the addictions will take hold again.
greennature · 31-35, F
Cry and be alone
virginpeter · 36-40, MNew
@greennature same
lovingdead · 31-35, M
for a longer description....you strain your heart and mind, emotions and thoughts can get out of whack, depression, jadedness, anger rage apathy (somehow those feelings come out just fine).
wait....are we talking in general, or are you asking what happens to me myself when i do it?
wait....are we talking in general, or are you asking what happens to me myself when i do it?
ABCDEF7 · M
If you think a particular emotion/feeling is bad or not right for you. Instead of supressing it, you should work on managing them from the root.
ABCDEF7 · M
@Lubnaa Some negative emotions that you would like to control are Anger, Sadness, Fear, Guilt & Shame, Loneliness, Jealousy, Overwhelm.
To address these negative emotions at their root rather than suppressing them, you can consider the following strategies:
1. Identify and Acknowledge Your Emotions
Recognizing what you are feeling is the first step. Take time to sit with your emotions, understand their origins, and identify triggers. This awareness can help you process feelings more effectively and prevent them from overwhelming you.
2. Reframe Your Thoughts
Challenge unhelpful thought patterns by reframing them into more constructive perspectives. For example, instead of thinking, "I always fail," try, "I can learn from this experience and improve." This shift can help reduce the intensity of negative emotions.
3. Practice Mindfulness and Self-Care
Engage in mindfulness practices like meditation or yoga to enhance your emotional awareness and regulation. These activities promote a calm state of mind and allow you to observe your feelings without judgment. Additionally, prioritize self-care activities that nurture your emotional well-being.
4. Express Your Emotions
Find healthy ways to express your feelings. This could involve talking to a trusted friend, writing in a journal, or engaging in creative outlets like art or music. Sharing your emotions can provide relief and help you gain new insights into your feelings.
5. Engage in Physical Activity
Exercise is a powerful tool for managing negative emotions. Physical activity releases endorphins, which can improve mood and reduce stress levels. Even simple activities like walking or stretching can be beneficial.
6. Build Positive Relationships
Surround yourself with supportive people who encourage positive emotional expression. Avoid toxic relationships that drain your energy or exacerbate negative feelings. Building a network of understanding friends can provide comfort during difficult times.
7. Set Boundaries
Learn to set boundaries with people or situations that trigger negative emotions. This may involve distancing yourself from toxic individuals or situations that you cannot control, allowing you to focus on your emotional health.
To address these negative emotions at their root rather than suppressing them, you can consider the following strategies:
1. Identify and Acknowledge Your Emotions
Recognizing what you are feeling is the first step. Take time to sit with your emotions, understand their origins, and identify triggers. This awareness can help you process feelings more effectively and prevent them from overwhelming you.
2. Reframe Your Thoughts
Challenge unhelpful thought patterns by reframing them into more constructive perspectives. For example, instead of thinking, "I always fail," try, "I can learn from this experience and improve." This shift can help reduce the intensity of negative emotions.
3. Practice Mindfulness and Self-Care
Engage in mindfulness practices like meditation or yoga to enhance your emotional awareness and regulation. These activities promote a calm state of mind and allow you to observe your feelings without judgment. Additionally, prioritize self-care activities that nurture your emotional well-being.
4. Express Your Emotions
Find healthy ways to express your feelings. This could involve talking to a trusted friend, writing in a journal, or engaging in creative outlets like art or music. Sharing your emotions can provide relief and help you gain new insights into your feelings.
5. Engage in Physical Activity
Exercise is a powerful tool for managing negative emotions. Physical activity releases endorphins, which can improve mood and reduce stress levels. Even simple activities like walking or stretching can be beneficial.
6. Build Positive Relationships
Surround yourself with supportive people who encourage positive emotional expression. Avoid toxic relationships that drain your energy or exacerbate negative feelings. Building a network of understanding friends can provide comfort during difficult times.
7. Set Boundaries
Learn to set boundaries with people or situations that trigger negative emotions. This may involve distancing yourself from toxic individuals or situations that you cannot control, allowing you to focus on your emotional health.
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Eventually you explode emotionally if you don't let it out
lovingdead · 31-35, M
the same thing that happens when you keeping filling a balloon with air
Kiesel · 56-60, M
I think it creates more reclusiveness and isolation
Bowenw · 61-69, M
They build up inside and cause stress.
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Someday they burst , or, worse you lose them all
pdockal · 56-60, M
You'll eventually explode or worse
InHeaven · F
Big baraboom . Explodes later
I couldn't suppress them if i tried.
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
I get depressed.
Cancer
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Lubnaa the character in the series is famously known for suppression of his emotions.
Simply through logical means. Several episodes shows what happens when he had no logic to back him up. Same with his father.
Simply through logical means. Several episodes shows what happens when he had no logic to back him up. Same with his father.
Secretsmile · 51-55, F
Chest pain
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
It comes out when you grow old