Here is a question for you dudes and dudettes!

My best friend is male. And we live a few hours away, so when we meet up we try to spend a couple days together. The last time we hung out together, he stayed at my place and slept on my couch.

I really think you should talk to her. If it was a love interest, I'd want to know if he felt uncomfortable about it - I would completely understand and be accommodating. And my best friend, well... he being my best friend would be respectful of it too and probably stay in a hotel instead.

I think your feelings are valid, and hope she'll be respectful of them.

I wouldn't have to think twice I wouldn't like it.
I don't think online romances usually work out, but some do.
One of the things that people can claim,online,is ambiguity , they didn't think of it as a relationship ,but the other party did.
Not saying that's the case in your relationship.

If you’re looking for a silver lining, she told you. That means she respects you enough to be honest. The downside, and it’s big, she doesn’t respect you enough to wait.

If “cheating” is the urge, you should’ve moved the timeline up (earlier). There’s also a more worrisome aspect to me. It means she’s also been chatting with someone else AND is comfortable enough to sleep with them. That didn’t happen overnight.

That means there’s a high probability you think you’re closer than she does. That’s never good.

Id do my best not to fall in love online tbh. If youve made a mutual decision to be a couple then its a bit of a heart thumper. Although if youve never met id just use DHV to demonstrate that higher value to yourself. Plus sometimes opposites are just friends and nothing more.

I suppose it depends on whether both people are actually on the same page or not, with regard to the relationship being more than platonic friendship. Sometimes lack of clear communication can lead to vast misunderstandings.

If there’s the trust ,then its not a big deal .Afterall you’re also getting the opportunity to know her better without being legally involved.Its better to see all sides of your love interest and then take a chance

To everyone who commented: Thank you for taking the time. I have much to think about for sure.

It depends. Do you feel that you know this person's character? You can interact with someone and get to know them and through their actions and the things that they say and do, and how they handle situations ,you can tell exactly what type of person they are. So having said that. Do you trust them?

What did she say? If you like it, shouldda put a ring on it! It's a test for sure but what's the right answer...?

I would have to go away on a business trip wait I am now retired, I am confident that Mrs. Kelly would not be impressed

I would conclude that our relationship is over.

it would be upsetting but if youre not officially a couple then its kind of their choice.

Time to move on!

Hurt.

A little jealous

Are we together or just talking?

Talking irl or online?

She's cheating on you bro... most girls always have two or three 'side pieces'💀

You're either being friendzoned, or worse