Here is a question for you dudes and dudettes!

Let us say you are talking to someone. A love interest! The two of you have been talking for a few months and even act like a couple. Then one fine day, he or she says that they have been invited to spend the night with a friend of the opposite sex, which they then proceed to do. How would that make you feel?

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Penny · 46-50, F

it would be upsetting but if youre not officially a couple then its kind of their choice.

EmpaEmpa · 46-50, MNew

@Penny I fully agree. There must be free will, even if we are dating. But then it boils down to respect. Ya know?

Penny · 46-50, F

@EmpaEmpa its only been a few months? have you even met yet?
try not to feel too bad. just hope they have a lousy time lol

EmpaEmpa · 46-50, MNew

@Penny We are meeting on January 1st. I am flying down to her. Hahaha that is funny!

Penny · 46-50, F

@EmpaEmpa well, she must be considering someone else then if shes doing an overnight unless theyre platonic friends. which is possible too. i kno wits upsetting but online can be weird. did you ask her if they are just friends or is she going on a date? depending on how she answers maybe you wont want to visit in January