Here is a question for you dudes and dudettes!

Let us say you are talking to someone. A love interest! The two of you have been talking for a few months and even act like a couple. Then one fine day, he or she says that they have been invited to spend the night with a friend of the opposite sex, which they then proceed to do. How would that make you feel?

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Perry1968 · M

Id do my best not to fall in love online tbh. If youve made a mutual decision to be a couple then its a bit of a heart thumper. Although if youve never met id just use DHV to demonstrate that higher value to yourself. Plus sometimes opposites are just friends and nothing more.

EmpaEmpa · 46-50, MNew

@Perry1968 You are correct that opposites can be just friends. But then I know she would not like it if I stayed the night with a female friend. Yes it is an online relationship, we have plans to meet in January however. I dunno, I would never do this to her if she objected to it. Even if she didn’t, I just see it as disrespectful. I hope it isn’t me just displaying childish jealousy

Perry1968 · M

@EmpaEmpa If you have feelings its natural to feel a little jealous. Feelings are feelings i guess. I wasnt being mean when i said about online relationships. Ive felt heartfelt feelings online. But please do yourself a favour and just try to tread with caution. I wish you well.

EmpaEmpa · 46-50, MNew

@Perry1968 Hey thank you. I know you weren’t being mean. I will indeed tread carefully