Here is a question for you dudes and dudettes!

Let us say you are talking to someone. A love interest! The two of you have been talking for a few months and even act like a couple. Then one fine day, he or she says that they have been invited to spend the night with a friend of the opposite sex, which they then proceed to do. How would that make you feel?

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Adogslife · 61-69, M

If you’re looking for a silver lining, she told you. That means she respects you enough to be honest. The downside, and it’s big, she doesn’t respect you enough to wait.

If “cheating” is the urge, you should’ve moved the timeline up (earlier). There’s also a more worrisome aspect to me. It means she’s also been chatting with someone else AND is comfortable enough to sleep with them. That didn’t happen overnight.

That means there’s a high probability you think you’re closer than she does. That’s never good.