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I don't believe in depression

I strongly believe that the happiness of others are also your happiness.. this will not let anyone alone be empty.. I agree that depression is a state of too much self centeredness, one constantly feels that others are inadequate of easing one's discomfort. When one is freed from the walls of their selfishness, no one will experience such state of mind.
Throger · 26-30, M
This is quite frankly the dumbest thing I’ve read all day... I’ve lost people and I struggle with it myself. People with depression have often been the kindest people I’ve met out there. It’s not a choice and it isn’t self-centeredness.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Throger lol people who are not happy are dumb..they don't do anything to get out from unhappiness
Throger · 26-30, M
@Sepia and how do you know that? You don’t. You don’t know the lives of anyone so stop assuming you do. It’s pathetic
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Throger hahahahaaa
LyricalOne · F
@Sysstem32 Sometimes it’s just especially apropos.
Sysstem32 · M
@LyricalOne I think it's great. No matter how many times I see it, it always makes me laugh. The perfect combination of patronising and condescension.
LyricalOne · F
@Sysstem32 Lol.... the ole one-two punch.
TexChik · F
You are completely clueless... how dare you call people with depression selfish ... tell me how selfishness altered their brain chemistry? It’s an organic disease , not a subjective one you can look down your nose at !
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Indy74 I hope you will be cured though 😀
Indy74 · 46-50, F
@Sepia well, thank you for that. Take care!
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Indy74 You should take much care 🌻
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
anyone who doesn't believe in depression has never experienced a debilitating injury and/or intense pain...
Sepia · 36-40, F
@wildbill83 I did..and see how many people are..with the same pain
Sepia · 36-40, F
@wildbill83 What a conclusion..
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Come back when you loose a child and tell me how if feels
Sepia · 36-40, F
@nedkelly You already lost the child...no one can raise a dead
nedkelly · 61-69, M
@Sepia you are correct - Jesus rose from the dead
Sepia · 36-40, F
@nedkelly it is Jesus..but by now is there one who are raised from dead?
Sysstem32 · M
Then you're just ignorant. And don't count.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Sysstem32 blahh
Peaceful · F
Is this a ploy to get lots of coins? 👀
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Peaceful I'm a Southeast Asian
Peaceful · F
@Sepia I understand. It may be a cultural thing as well. I can see you mean no harm.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Peaceful I didn't mean any but just an insight..a hard insight..now I don't mean coins lol
hunkalove · 61-69, M
Depression is caused by chemicals in the brain.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@hunkalove by letting your thinking tolerate what happens in the body
hunkalove · 61-69, M
@Sepia Most people have no choice. One thought leads to the next. That's how life happens....
Fernie · F
For some people depression is a habit. For many others it is a chemical imbalance and they are not able to control it. You really should get some facts and not say such ignorant and judgmental things about something you clearly know nothing about
Sepia · 36-40, F
@FernieHow did you know I am ignorant. I am not ignorant. I have read so much about it.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
Good luck with that. Try being layed off in a bad economy. Try being told that your spouse of ten years doesn't love you anymore and wants to move in with a coworker. Try being pregnant only to have the child die in the second trimester. Try coming home from overseas and when you get your dog realize that it has leukemia. Try sitting with your beautiful, wonderful, girlfriend as she's dying of ovarian cancer. Try playing a game of Scrabble with your mother as she is failing from altzheimers.... Yes some things are just sad, but some things are downright depressing.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Tastyfrzz The common thoughts of "cannot let go" and "not accepting" and "trying to have what you can't" will lead you to extreme sadness
Tubbs · F
https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/depression/what-is-depression
What Is Depression? - American Psychiatric Association


Mental illness, bud.
Well if it does not exsist I wonder why people who have depression and anxiety are prescribed medication for it by medical doctors who actually know what they are talking about?
Sepia · 36-40, F
@ExperienceDLT okay...but observe how these people react........if you say something enlighting they won't care.....but if I say something like this they would hate non stop. They are socially sick that they don't want to cure themselves.
@Sepia you have no idea how wrong you are I have depression,anxiety,and bipolar disorder I have been perfectly cordial with you I have not attacked you or tried to bash you for your oppinion of me or people like me I have not gotten hateful with you even though you have basicly said all I am is a selfish and self centered person that needs to get over myself all I am saying is you do not understand me or my condition so please don't judge me and imply I'm just selfish and self centered
Sepia · 36-40, F
@ExperienceDLT If all the pain and disappointment in me..and I allow it to lead me to depression..of course I wouldn't let that happen..
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
It's sad that you have no compassion for those who battle one of the most terrifying disorders. Depression is very real. It takes a toll on those who suffer with it as well as those who love and care for them. I know this very firsthand.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@GJOFJ3 I have compassion towards them..by enlighting them from that dark point of thinking
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@Sepia you have no understanding on this and it seems obvious you have no interest in being informed.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@GJOFJ3 okayyyyyy so think I wasn't hurt like them I also experience that
CC, you've touched on something that will be rejected by many. This is what the shrinks aim for in treating "clinical depression" but they try to be very gradual when it comes to the approach. "Clinical depression " is a 'real ' condition with physiological manifestations in the brain itself. The brain in simplest terms is a mass of 'receivers', processors, and transmitters . You have neurons, axons, dendrites, and synapses where electrical impulses cause the release of chemicals known as neurotransmitters. Sometimes there is a problem where certain neurotransmitters are depleted and you have depression, or there is a surplus and you have psychosis or schizophrenia....Very delicate and intricate stuff. I personally believe a proper diet and certain elixirs and tonics and healthy exercise can control clinical depression better than seratonin reuptake inhibitors and such.......
Sepia · 36-40, F
@puck61 As you see "trendy" just to thrive attention and burden to others. My step daughter wanting to have an expensive cam..when we didn't give the cam as she has still have another one still in functioning and in good condition..and she started to cut herself as if we don't feed her, as if she isn't well provided. It brought shame to our family..she have shown cuts to her friends and classmates in school thinking it was cool. See, she is asking for sick kind of attention for being selfish.....sulking..starving herself because she can't have the camera..our fridge are full..she goes freaking as if we don't work hard for her to go to school and supply all her needs
...back in my post, that is how I see depression is rooted from attitude of self centeredness
@Sepia I remember that being a thing in high school when the whole emo thing started again. Also people self analysing themselves incorrectly and wanting attention at that age.

Oh wow, well that explains why you think that way then. That's really messed up to do that..Yeah that's not real depression at all but that will certainly create it in the future if she's doing that kind of thing at that age..sorry to hear
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Gh0s1 not just that..I have been through a lot and still that is my perception.
SW-User
Lololololol this is cute.
It can be either genetically pre-disposed and due to lack of serotonin or inproper re-uptake of serotonin or it can be external.

If you'd been through heart break, suicide attempts, several loved ones dying, immense psychological stress, watching friends waste away to heroin, being acutely aware of the nature of human cruelty from a young age, domestic abuse, extreme physical violence, having close friends that were raped/abused, you wouldn't say something as naive as that.

It in fact comes mostly from caring about others happiness and seeing it ripped away from them, whilst nothing changes. It's not all about yourself.

A very sheltered perspective indeed.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
I hope you get depression so that you can understand the pain and helplessness it can make you feel. Your belief is unfounded.
Throger · 26-30, M
@HootyTheNightOwl I honestly gave up. I’d have more luck talking to a brick wall
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@Throger you're right. Total lack of empathy and understanding.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Throger Talk to a wall..haha crazy!
BrattyMel · 31-35, F
You’re a fucking moron.
@Sepia I was trying to defend you, but you don't seem to understand that clinical depression is an actual physiological thing. There is an actual observable malfunction inside the skull.
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Sepia · 36-40, F
@puck61 I see that..I do understand...that is legit but points are somewhere before it is about to start. Thank you for the insight
Chiffon, when such a delicate and complex procedure takes place there is always the potential for malfunction. A person's 'bad attitude' does not cause the sudden or gradual malfunction of of synaptic neurological configuration, no more than a bad attitude can directly break your arm!
SW-User
oh, i thought you were cool
Sepia · 36-40, F
@SW-User I think you need to read and understand. I believe this story of mine is your pill.
Throger · 26-30, M
@Sepia This statement screams ignorance
Redstar · 36-40, M
My mum got depressed after being diagnosed with cancer. How fucking selfish of her, right?
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Fernie Negative attention? The happiness of others is the hapiness of one is negative?? Oh yes stop symphatising the sad or they still be sad..they don't want to be cured nor to be save..resist from opinions of others lol
ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T
@Sepia have you read this thread XD. Your by far one of the worst people I've met on here so far and I've only seen one of your posts. You are an absolutely horrible person. Like saying any of this is ignorance at its finest. Especially what you said to @Redstar
Throger · 26-30, M
@ShatteredHeart she just doesn’t get it. Never will. She literally makes zero sense. The ‘pill’ she’s trying to give us is poison. Having a mentality such as hers will never help and it’s because of things like that, that depression and mental illnesses as a whole will continue to be overlooked and to some, a joke. Which is pathetic. Some people revel in other’s pain
fluteacorn · 22-25, F
What the hell? Depression is scientifically proven to exist. It affects many people and that is why I am on medicine for DEPRESSION.
fluteacorn · 22-25, F
@canusernamebemyusername That made me laugh so hard... At almost 11 pm.
@fluteacorn Yes! I got a smile out of someone:D
Sepia · 36-40, F
@fluteacorn @canusernamebemyusername I have read so much..yes we can not be angry when talking it
It's quite sad that you view depression with such a closed mind.
It is also incredibly naive to think that your happiness comes from others.

Depression is an illness. It effects the mind rather than the body but it is an illness all the same. As someone who has suffered from acute depression for several years I am really disappointed by your statement. This is the sort of negative stigma that I have to deal with which is what makes it so hard to seek help for depression. Would you ever call a diabetic or cancer sufferer selfish?
Sepia · 36-40, F
@InOtterWords It is not that I don't care..My belief is precautionary just like addiction..leading to clinical depression where you have to take meds to put one's mood to normal..it gotten into sickness because one tolerated their self into it. Stupidity??? I don't think so..If you cannot practice a healthy lifestyle and if this sickness hit you..continue to take medicine and keep seeing doctor..some even resist to get cured. Stay sick and unproductive. People now rather symphatise the sick than making preventive measures.
@Sepia when people have attitudes like this it makes it impossible to ask for help. You are part if the problem not the solution.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@InOtterWords part of the problem..or before it starts...it must be prevented just like eating contaminated food you'll get the disease, you take meds to cure..mine is just a warning not to eat the food. Prevention has more concern than to those who give sympathy feel sorry because it is too late to save
On the contrary it's about a lack of self belief not self centredness at all, which can be explained biologically or due to past experiences. I'm disappointed you'd say something like this
Sepia · 36-40, F
@BeefySenpie lol...this is my perception which helped me without disturbing others. Biologically explained...and mentally tolerated by others that is why they get sick
Just like everyone in the world, depressed people all think differently, and are affected by depression differently. Some just want to be left alone in that slump, and others (lots of others) go to counseling, reach out, try to change their ways, take meds and still cannot get away from their depression. I don't think your opinion is ignorant, but lumping everyone together is, because everyone is different, and I hope someone that is depressed and does their best doesn't read what you've said and puts them in a lower state.
Fernie · F
@StayGold I think she is mean and uninformed. Everything she says screams that. You go through life with that mindset though...you'll have less aggravation
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Fernie mean??? and uninformed..before it became clincal depression there were things the sufferers are unaware and not mindful of their mental health until they became sick. Just like alcoholism..or any addiction..@StayGold Cultural as you call it..but rather the habits or lifestyle have huge impact..poorer countries have less depression rate, they rather be productive and leave all unecessary emotions..poorer communities are also found happier compared to first world countries.. My belief was precautional...I can't have belief as others here as I don't want depression to happen and rely on meds but to have a good faith and understand life's meaning than dwell on sad episodes of life.
@Sepia huh? I don't understand why I was tagged
I hope that you never have to live with it!!!
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Fernie lol support doesn't matter to me here I don't care..it is like trying to say I support depression
@Sepia I'm sorry, I can't associate myself with such stupidity anymore - after all, I don't want the rest of SW thinking that I support it in any way.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@HootyTheNightOwl Hey it is not the rest of SW..never let them change your views even if that includes me..go on carry the faith that you have
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Sepia · 36-40, F
@MalteseFalconPunch I am not ignorant. I have read and heard about it but the precautions before it became clinical depression.
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Sepia · 36-40, F
@MalteseFalconPunch Yes. Good and healthy lifestyle. Good social habits as I prefer. Practice mental strenght. I remember an old man, he was 95. Before he reached the age, he did anything he can as he doesn't want to be sickly. He stayed active, read, sing, exercise, do light chores, socialise. He avoided tv showing heavy dramas, he accepted the problem of his sons...As he told me, it is his happiness to still see his grand kids and can communicated them in a normal way and most of all he doesn't want to be a burden to his kids.
Carver · 31-35, F
I like you so I'm going to be amicable about this. I can [i]kinda[/i] see where you're coming from since there are people out there who are only feeling sorry for themselves; that or they can easily fix their depression by finding it within themselves but this isn't the case for everyone. For many, depression is something they cannot help, whether its brought upon by experiencing loss and hardships or is something that is caused by a mental/mood disorder. Calling anyone who experiences depression self-centered and selfish is really unfair because it's a statement that simply isn't true for everybody. I can see that your view is firmly rooted in this idea so I doubt anything I say will change your mind but there's my two cents anyway. I just hope you are able to change your mind on this subject someday. Whether you do or not, I hope you at least understand how incendiary your opinion on this is and why you got some of the responses you have here.
xSharp · 31-35, M
i believe happiness is a choice, not a destination
Sepia · 36-40, F
@puck61 Yes..yumm! It is in season now. You tried it?
@puck61 that's my favourite fruit
@Sepia @YukikoAmagi I've always considered myself open minded about food. I just can't get passed the smell. I've had these things in Mexico called Zapotes, and the meat of the fruit was so ugly I had a hard time eating it! I would rather it joojoobies! LOL!
Blondgrl2004 · 26-30, F
its so sad you dont
Sepia · 36-40, F
Blondgrl2004 · 26-30, F
@Fernie her or me,
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Fernie I don't live in the words of others lol thankful I am not
SW-User
I didn’t expect you out of all people to say something like this
@SW-User if it's me would you expect it? 😏
Sepia · 36-40, F
@SW-User That is expectations. I don't live in the expectations of others
SW-User
@YukikoAmagi you’d probably say something wacky 😂

@Sepia True
Lostpoet · M
I think somebody got into methdozers stash.🤔
SW-User
i don't believe in this post, thanks for depressing me. now where is the Cake
SW-User
@SW-User You know it ;)
SW-User
@SW-User know it and trying to prevent it
SW-User
@SW-User maybe I just need to be freed from the walls of my selfishness
kyky16 · 22-25, F
So please tell me what I’m going through right now. 🙄
Sepia · 36-40, F
@kyky16 woke up..everything is fine..they have no control of you 🌻
SW-User
Then you clearly know nothing about depression.
SpaceCreature · 26-30, F
*gets the popcorn*
Rekcuf · 31-35, M
Depression is for people who live in the past well worrying about the future to much it's a curse on the human psyche
SW-User
@nedkelly My parents lost two children. I wouldn't call what they went through, depression. More like mourning and grief
Sepia · 36-40, F
@wildbill83 I had live in a place where terrorist attacks annually..I do..stop assuming I don't. I'd been through pain physically and emotionally but I don't want my life to revolve around it
Rekcuf · 31-35, M
@Sepia to move past your past and to move on is a concept many have trouble accomplishing. The bad thing being human is we have memories unlike animals who live to eat sleep and mate who forget all the unnecessary of the world us humans always remember and dwell on what could or couldn't. Always remembering we dont got a lot of time on this shit hole of a rock
SW-User
You can strongly believe you are the tooth fairy and that still doesn't make it reality.

Fortunately, no one seems to take this crap seriously.
SW-User
@YukikoAmagi No, I don't wish to provide education here. That wasn't my intention here. But if you like, you can find a ton of resources out there citing real research. We really shouldn't rely on what we hear or read second hand.
@SW-User so i think this will be a status quo. Okay then i leave
SW-User
@YukikoAmagi We don't have to accept status quo for ourselves.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@Sepia That is crazy, right? In this metaphor you're the wall. Therefore trying to talk to you is crazy.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Dolimyte Whatever..
Be careful, people will be wanting miracles, and healing, and then they will try to get you into politics, and the next thing you know............BAM! They nail ya to a friggin cross!
@Sepia I understand your perspective on this. Sometimes a situation or subject or even a person is like a multifaceted gem. You have to look closely at each individual facet from different angles to truly see it.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@puck61 different angles, yes. I only have to choose what is right.
@Sepia Ahhh! You sound like 'me' now! I'm 'right' too! 🎯
SW-User
I appreciate your words.

But I do believe that if it is to come to you for one reason or the other, you cant help it.
What I learned is that people have to draw their own conclusions. I learned that in a class I took on cognitive therapy. Not everyone is in the same place at the same time and everyone has different strengths and is affected differently by loss. @SW-User
I think you’re missing a key piece. I hope you don’t mind my chiming in.@Sepia
SW-User
@Spoiledbrat "Not everyone is in the same place at the same time and everyone has different strengths and is affected differently by loss."

You nailed it dear.
Love you.😘
Fernie · F
Wow! You are are getting tons of attention aren't you? ALL negative...but, you are a small and pathetic little creature and you'll take it! Better than none at all
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Fernie aren't you a little negative and stupid by doing this..you belittle users here? Omggg 😵😜😂😂
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@Fernie yes, many of us have taken a turn feeding this particular troll.
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
I feel like believing others happiness as ur own creates more emptiness, at least for me
Sepia · 36-40, F
@wakanda4eva I believe you can... continue to be envy and end up depressed or be happy and content..choose?
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
@Sepia I wish it were that simple xD but humans are more complicated than that, maybe for some if they will it then they can achieve it, but personally I feel like I'd get more empty trying to be something I'm not.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@wakanda4eva empty..do you really want to be empty..Is the word empty you would like to describe because you can't get something others have. Why not say contentment?
Sepia · 36-40, F
Most of people here are as hard headed just as when the verification was released. You are all too hard but when it comes to good posts you don't seem to answer. There is a lot of hate which make you guys more ignorant than me haha
I just wish depression didn't exist
Sepia · 36-40, F
@buttercup97 it is up to you. Be sick or not.. choose
@Sepia You don't want to choose it, you don't choose it. One doesn't know it until you suffered from it.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@buttercup97 okay..but I choose not I choose to cope be well because life is important
Noooo.. the last time i saw someone else happiness is not make me happy but envy 😥 there must be something wrong with me
Sepia · 36-40, F
@YukikoAmagi therefore you shouldn't be envy
@Sepia i know but i just can't help it. But seriously i like your thinking, nowadays more and more people live an unhappy life, now everything is all about depression, anxiety, loneliness, over-thinking. We need morr enlightening post like this
Sepia · 36-40, F
@YukikoAmagi That's my friend! More sunny days to you 🤗🌻
Listen with an open mind. Just give it a chance. Just a little time and sincere listening.

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Sepia · 36-40, F
@puck61 You are a grown man now..yesterday is just a piece of who you are but I think with all Kahlil Gibran you read..you are a happy person today 🌻
@Sepia Peter Pan was an esoteric story. It was really nice talking to you. I have a big day tomorrow and its already two in the morning! I hope we get the chance to talk again soon!
Sepia · 36-40, F
@puck61 Sure. You may keep in touch. Good night and have a great day 🌻
Quicksilver87 · 26-30, M
I beg to differ.
okaybut · 56-60, M
You are correct from a non-clinical approach. But some people, regardless of their mindset have sick brains.
👀 oooo controversial

 
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