Good question. Something I came to realize during counseling related to marriage counseling .. they've ~ all been at some degree women w avoidant attachment styles. I'm a higher engagement person and end up carrying more of the work of the relationships. That leads to getting less satisfaction back out of them.

Trying to keep that in mind as I move toward being single again and even in my friendships. Hoping to find stronger, more balanced connections .. which may require me to dial it back some. NGL .. its not easy.

Lying and Cheating!!!!! They all cheated on me and I have always stayed loyal. I had given up on relationships, then I met the one I am with now. Nearly 3 decades together and still happy

I don't have any. My wife says all of hers were good guys who remained as friends.

We weren't who we thought we were, or rather I wasn't who I thought I was. I look at past relationships and think "How stupid was I" and learn from it. Sometimes we're still friends and laugh about it. Othertimes, she's just gone. Guess that's life...

My poor judgement. Lol

They are not with me :P

They used me

They were all older than me

They were women!!

I have just 1 ex

They all had some kind of talent.

most were younger than me

Not all but most of them were nurses.

Missed opportunity

Uh
I’m not in their life

They all lived in Texas.

They all said they would “do me” 🤷🏼‍♂

Emotionally unavailable.

They all had brown hair. Other than that they were as different as they could be.

nonexistent.

Poor taste in men?

Nothing, interesting right!l?

Oddly they were born under the Taurus sign 🐂 😄

They're all non-existent

All were abusive. Two were abusive cheaters.

a penis 😇 and a thinking mind 🤔

Scorpio rising