Kiesel · 56-60, M
Uh
I’m not in their life
I’m not in their life
BrandNewMan · M
Good question. Something I came to realize during counseling related to marriage counseling .. they've ~ all been at some degree women w avoidant attachment styles. I'm a higher engagement person and end up carrying more of the work of the relationships. That leads to getting less satisfaction back out of them.
Trying to keep that in mind as I move toward being single again and even in my friendships. Hoping to find stronger, more balanced connections .. which may require me to dial it back some. NGL .. its not easy.
Trying to keep that in mind as I move toward being single again and even in my friendships. Hoping to find stronger, more balanced connections .. which may require me to dial it back some. NGL .. its not easy.
HumanEarth · F
Lying and Cheating!!!!! They all cheated on me and I have always stayed loyal. I had given up on relationships, then I met the one I am with now. Nearly 3 decades together and still happy
exexec · 70-79, C
I don't have any. My wife says all of hers were good guys who remained as friends.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Both mine have been 7 yrs younger. I've never been in a relationship with someone the same age or deviating by just one or two years either side.
GohantheThird · M
We weren't who we thought we were, or rather I wasn't who I thought I was. I look at past relationships and think "How stupid was I" and learn from it. Sometimes we're still friends and laugh about it. Othertimes, she's just gone. Guess that's life...
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
They are not with me :P
WoWgirll · 36-40, F
@JimboSaturn mine all had Great taste in women 💛🤣
RedGrizzly · 26-30, F
My poor judgement. Lol
GohantheThird · M
@RedGrizzly we've all been there man. Rose tinted glasses and all that 🤷♂
2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
They were women!!
Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69
They used me
2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
@Shybutwilling2bfriends could say that about my ex wife too
Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69
@2ndtimeguy im sure. It works both ways
2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
@Shybutwilling2bfriends think when you get married you expect better when they use you it hurts worse
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
They were all older than me
Matt85 · 36-40, M
They all had some kind of talent.
come2gether · 46-50, M
I have just 1 ex
2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
@come2gether i dont really count the girls I dated we never got to that serious stage of wanting to get married have one ex wife and unfortunately a second one soon (long story)!
come2gether · 46-50, M
@2ndtimeguy yeah, I was single until the now ex I married. Just fooled around before that.
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
most were younger than me
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
Not all but most of them were nurses.
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Missed opportunity
Keeper · M
They all said they would “do me” 🤷🏼♂
itsnotimportant · 46-50, F
Emotionally unavailable.
BrandNewMan · M
@itsnotimportant Relatable
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
Poor taste in men?
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SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
@WoWgirll I wasn't suggesting you do. I was making a guess at what my ex's have in common. Sorry.
Iwillwait · M
WoWgirll · 36-40, F
@SpectralMourning no worries
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
They all had brown hair. Other than that they were as different as they could be.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
nonexistent.
Lilymoon · F
Oddly they were born under the Taurus sign 🐂 😄
Chiefjustice · 46-50, M
Nothing, interesting right!l?
Lugwho · 61-69, M
They're all non-existent
4meAndyou · F
All were abusive. Two were abusive cheaters.
being · 36-40, F
a penis 😇 and a thinking mind 🤔
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
Scorpio rising