Premature ejaculation

Even though I'm single and feel I don't really understand the linkages between dating, romance, sex, etc. like a neuro-typical person does I do know that it isn't about the destination but is about the journey. When my second ex became more and more narcissistic and rejecting of me I lost all interest in sex but early on in the relationship the sex was amazing and it didn't matter how it happened and what order things happened. It was (for a time) mutual happiness.

Remember as we get older (I'm 57) our abilities change. We can't recover within 30 minutes like teen boys apparently can (usually 24 hrs for me). We can't sustain full on intimacy for hours because of the physical requirements and most older men and women have dad or mum bods.

If I found a new partner after being single 8 yrs I would have a lot of trouble controlling my orgasms if I ever got to that point of mutual intimacy simply because I'm *old* now. 8-)

No I wouldn't be disappointed or frustrated because I can get several more. And I still have a job to do .And I don't need to tell him that I need more, he already knows, I would just tell him what I wanted.

Its pretty normal i guess. Its the second round that is usually the deepest and meaningful. I generally dont like talking like this but i like to make my partner c u m first. So if you are premature its ok. With sexual contact its all about compatibility anyway. It can be lust. Love or both in the same session/s.

Sounds like you need an experienced edger to help you with that. They actually make machines to do this too. I hear they can be very frustrating.

A good time to get a physical at the doctor’s
There could be so many things causing that.
There are recent meds nowadays that a doctor can prescribe.

I got the other problem, the stars have to be aligned just right for me to nut. So, we bang when she's randy, which is all the time and she gets off easy. And when the stars align I ring out and we have a wham bam!!! Or she helps me jerk off.

Yes, you can work on it with your partner.

as long as foreplay is involved i lowkey prefer he finishes too soon than take too long to finish

There are many ways to satisfy a woman, after your first orgasm are you able to go a second time ? Does the second time last longer ?

Just do the 77 and she’ll be happy.

Where are you from?

Isn’t there like a numbing spray you can spray on your guy to last longer ?

I don't understand, how do you make sure your wife has an orgasm first if it only takes you 1 to 3 minutes?

I would probably want more. How soon before you can cum again?

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