Why did I decide to put effort into my relationship with my partner?I can’t exactly remember if it was days or weeks ago, but I found myself in a situation where I started questioning my relationship. Even so, up until today, I’m still trying my best to understand it and work on keeping our relationship. Now, I’m... See More »
What's the right balance in supporting your partner to become better (and not make her overwhelming)?I just told my partner not to do something, and then she said I was being too demanding with my expectations. After reflecting on it, I feel like maybe I've been too eager to 'change' her for the better. I realize that my attitude of wanting to... See More »
The more I invest in my partner, the more worried and anxious I become about her condition, is that normal?Do you know how I can regulate this feeling so that it doesn't become a bad thing in our relationship?
How do you guys manage your anger toward others?I’ve realized one of my flaws is that I’m quick to anger. I don’t lash out by yelling or getting physical, but my words can get really sharp and hurtful even when I speak in a calm tone. Do you have any advice for me on how to work on this?
What should I do when I fall in love?I just got to know a girl, and we've only been chatting through texts and voice calls for the past week. We've met in person once for a date. I really like her, and I want things to go well, I don't want to mess this up. What should I do?
Turns out I’ve been overthinking itA while ago, I posted a question: ‘How do you decide to commit to someone?’ In that question, I shared my doubts about committing to someone. From the answers I received, many were really interesting and gave me new insights. Most people said I was... See More »
How do you decide to commit to someone?Lately, I just installed a dating app to find someone to date and if everything goes well, maybe(?) I’d like to marry her someday. But as soon as I get a match and start chatting with them, these thoughts keep coming back. I’m a 25-year-old guy, and... See More »
Do I look unsophisticated?A few days ago, I went to a small and simple café with my friend. I ordered a Japanese iced coffee, while my friend got a latte. For food, we both ordered dory katsu with sambal matah (a traditional Indonesian chili relish made with chili, shallots,... See More »
