How do I join conversations in a group chat with many people?I feel pretty comfortable talking one-on-one or in small groups of 4-5 people. The fewer people I talk to, the more I feel like I can control the situation. But when the group gets bigger, I struggle to find a way to jump into the conversation and... See More »
How do I deal with worries or fears about bad things that could happen in a relationship?I love my girlfriend so much, I want her to be my wife, and I want to be her husband. We're on our way to getting married. I really hope everything goes well.
Be quick in the race for forgiveness from your LordI messed up again. I don’t even know how many times it’s been. He’s told me over and over, "Don’t!" but I still did it. So I ran. I distanced myself from Him, out of fear, out of shame. How could I possibly face the Most Pure when I’m covered in... See More »
How have you changed throughout your life?These past few months, I've been noticing how dynamic people can be. Some have lived a certain way for years, but now they're doing things differently. Some were known for one side of themselves, but now they're showing a completely different one.... See More »
How much should I regret my mistakes?Sometimes I feel guilty about not feeling too guilty about my mistakes. I make mistakes often, but sometimes I tend to make light of them like they're not a big deal. Feeling haunted by my mistakes all the time, is that the right way to feel? Or is... See More »
Why did I decide to put effort into my relationship with my partner?I can’t exactly remember if it was days or weeks ago, but I found myself in a situation where I started questioning my relationship. Even so, up until today, I’m still trying my best to understand it and work on keeping our relationship. Now, I’m... See More »
What's the right balance in supporting your partner to become better (and not make her overwhelming)?I just told my partner not to do something, and then she said I was being too demanding with my expectations. After reflecting on it, I feel like maybe I've been too eager to 'change' her for the better. I realize that my attitude of wanting to... See More »
The more I invest in my partner, the more worried and anxious I become about her condition, is that normal?Do you know how I can regulate this feeling so that it doesn't become a bad thing in our relationship?
How do you guys manage your anger toward others?I’ve realized one of my flaws is that I’m quick to anger. I don’t lash out by yelling or getting physical, but my words can get really sharp and hurtful even when I speak in a calm tone. Do you have any advice for me on how to work on this?
What should I do when I fall in love?I just got to know a girl, and we've only been chatting through texts and voice calls for the past week. We've met in person once for a date. I really like her, and I want things to go well, I don't want to mess this up. What should I do?
Turns out I’ve been overthinking itA while ago, I posted a question: ‘How do you decide to commit to someone?’ In that question, I shared my doubts about committing to someone. From the answers I received, many were really interesting and gave me new insights. Most people said I was... See More »
How do you decide to commit to someone?Lately, I just installed a dating app to find someone to date and if everything goes well, maybe(?) I’d like to marry her someday. But as soon as I get a match and start chatting with them, these thoughts keep coming back. I’m a 25-year-old guy, and... See More »
Do I look unsophisticated?A few days ago, I went to a small and simple café with my friend. I ordered a Japanese iced coffee, while my friend got a latte. For food, we both ordered dory katsu with sambal matah (a traditional Indonesian chili relish made with chili, shallots,... See More »
