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How easy is it for you to be accepting of atheists? In particular, the rude and aggressive ones.

Lately I'm getting pretty irritated by a special kind of atheist, the ones that just stop by Christian posts and leave a 😂 or who make posts belittling or attacking Christians. It seems to be happening more often recently and I've had them pop up on posts that have nothing to do with Christianity.

I think everyone should be able to voice what they believe in a respectful way and its really bothering me that some people can't be kind or just pass on by if it's not in alignment with their world view.

How do you manage this kind of thing? Do you just ignore or do you block? Lately I'm blocking in order to protect my own mental health.
Adstar · 56-60, M
Well some Atheists are fanatics. waging a jihad against Believers.. It does get depressing when you share your pearls and the pigs come and trample them.. But Jesus said we would be hated because we believe Him.. But He also said to rejoice if we are facing slander and persecution..

(Matthew 5:10-12) "[c=BF0000]Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness’ sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven[/c]. {11} [c=BF0000][u]Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake[/u][/c]. {12} [c=BF0000]Rejoice, and [u]be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven[/u]: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you[/c]."
@Adstar you just pull made up facts that suit you and anyone who disagrees with you, you call them a communist

if any fact contradicts your belief in sky gods then you just pretend the point was never brought up and ignore it

you have probably been doing this your whole life

I wonder what other facts of life you miss completely due to being a member of a literal cult

its sad that one day you will die never having seen the world as it truly is and still believing in this nonsense in the bible
Adstar · 56-60, M
@orioninthenight [quote]so you think the earth is a few thousand years old according to the bible then? because science says otherwise because of a thing called carbon dating[/quote]

Quote the scriptures where it states that the world is a few thousand years old then... Nope you cannot do it because you are ignorant of scriptures.. just as you are ignorant of a lot of things..

You have been told something and because of your anti Christian bias you have chosen to embrace it not because it is true but because it pampers your delusions.. Very un scientific of you..
Adstar · 56-60, M
@orioninthenight [quote]you just pull made up facts that suit you and anyone who disagrees with you, you call them a communist[/quote]

I never called you a communist.. So you saying i am calling you a communist is a lie.. But as an atheist you believe in lies so i should not be surprised.. Of course i could ask you to quote where i call all these people communists in this website.. But i know you cannot do that because you are a liar..
Abstraction · 61-69, M
I find this poll doesn't represent me.
Atheists is a very big category. Christians is a very big category. Right wing, left wing, all very big categories. I don't have any problem respecting an atheist or a buddhist or someone who practices wikka. They are people first. Jesus had a reputation for loving people who the religious people despised.
As a Christian I take each person on their merit with respect for them as a human being. On this site there is a group of Christians and atheists who seem obsessed with arguing on that topic and many of them show little respect both ways.
I don't really subscribe to that.
Abstraction · 61-69, M
@Diotrephes I'm not going to have a long conversation with you about this. I don't disagree with the bible, I disagree with you:
- "It seems that Jesus hated religious people."
- "Christian believers are supposed to be judgmental toward other believers conduct."
Seriously? I've already explained the clarification, I know my 12 yo grandson would comprehend the distinctions. Please take your agenda elswhere.
Abstraction · 61-69, M
@Patientlywaiting That wasn't directed at you!
Really · 80-89, M
@Abstraction [quote]There are evangelical atheists who take on the attributes of what they don't like about some Christians ....[/quote]What an excellent reply. Thank you.
TheWildEcho · 56-60, M
I think a lot of them lead such empty lives that trolling and attacking Christians is one of the few ,'pleasures' they have, I feel genuinely sorry for them. I tend to block the abusive ones and try sharing the gospel with the others, if they're upsetting you then block!!
Thandeka · 31-35, F
I've been here for years. At first I would argue with such comments for weeks sometimes even months and be angry at someone I can't even see 😂. I guess the Holy Spirit helped me understand that they don't understand what we are talking about. They think we're delusional because they've only experienced the natural. It doesn't bother me when they leave mean comments because I know that it doesn't change anything. Bottom line is I've seen what they think is none existent. I can only pray the scales fall of their eyes and their spiritual eyes open.

Don't bother blocking just keep scrolling when you see a mean comment. Keep spreading the gospel.
Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F
@Thandeka this is so true and insightful thank you xx
SW-User
I had a guy who trolls me, hopefully I’ve blocked him.

Yes, people can be aggressively anti Christian.
revenant · F
You have to see that those atheists have been raised to view themselves as vastly superior to Christians. They would not dare say a word to Muslims and Jews though !

They were raised to view all christians as murderous, uneducated and peasant like and it is in their duty to mock and treat with disrespect.

Atheists see themselves as the educated ones and logic and reason is supreme.

They also see christians as white old males so...witchhunt is on here !

When a Hindu posts anything about Hindu beliefs here....crickets crickets !
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@LordShadowfire Well, in a way it's irrelevant what the Founders wanted because it is our world now and it will be other people's world tomorrow. What is relevant is that people allow the control freaks to oppress them and take away their freedoms (happens all around the world). It is also important to note that no one is brave (or smart enough) to standup to the control freaks and tell them that they don't know their ass from a hole in the ground. They don't even know what the f'ing Ten Commandments are. They get their religion from silly-ass Hollywood movies and loud-mouth lying conmen preachers.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@revenant ALL atheists? Really!? Have you managed to identify all atheists from all non-Christians?

Raised to despise religious people? All of them? I daresay some were, just as some were raised in cultish churches to regard their sect and themselves superior to outsiders; but what of those who have minds of their own and decide their religious views solely by their own thinking?
WhatLifeIsFor · 41-45, M
@LordShadowfire for your kind information
https://www.nytimes.com/2016/06/02/world/asia/muslim-killed-by-indian-mob-had-beef-in-his-home-new-report-says.html
MartinII · 70-79, M
Even though I am myself an atheist, I share your irritation. I have the greatest respect for the Christian religion (though not, of course, all its sects or all its history) and I see no reason for people to attack it. Occasionally I have remonstrated with acquaintances here who have done so.
therighttothink50 · 56-60, M
Most of them only attack Christians, too gutless to attack any other religion
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Thandeka · 31-35, F
@NortiusMaximus funny I've never seen anybody attack other religions. I think we're too nice 😀.
Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F
@Thandeka me neither but then I haven't seen many posts about other religions here.
revenant · F
@therighttothink50 Oh I would so love to see one of them attack the jewish religion ! Me think it would be a lot of fun to watch 🤣
sree251 · 41-45, M
If you think everyone should be able to voice their beliefs, then you shouldn't either block people who say things you disagree with or voice them in the way you dislike. In this regard, Jesus' conduct is the best example to follow when dealing with people who do harm to you.
sree251 · 41-45, M
@BohemianBoo No, I don't believe that's a wise attitude. Such a tack will end up to endless conflict and suffering. Right now, your attitude is causing war in Ukraine pitting the entire west against Russian and China even though there are no real abusers. It's the fear of abuse that's causing wars. It's cowardice, in my opinion. China is an enemy serious enough for wrecking the global economy? Billions will suffer long before nuclear war.
@sree251 OMG. What exactly is the alternative to standing up to Russia? Letting Putin take over Ukraine and abuse the Ukrainians like he abuses his own Russians? And then what? Putin has said he wants to rebuild the Russian Empire and he's already invaded three countries that used to be part of Russia. If he takes over Ukraine, he's not going to stop. He's going to go after Poland, Estonia, Latvia, and so on. This is what happens when you don't stand up to bullies and abusers.
sree251 · 41-45, M
@BohemianBoo You are letting your fears run away with you. It will be suicidal if Russia tries doing what you believe they are doing. Before it all began, Russia was supplying oil to Germany and driving the economy of western Europe. Russia didn't stop the oil flow. So what if Russia moved into Ukraine?
Russia is a small US$1 trillion economy. There is no way it can take on the west. The US alone has a $23 trillion economy. The EU's economy is another $16 trillion. This is probably the reason why we think we can and want to crush Russia and refuse to diffuse the conflict. I think it is a bad calculation. As we say in America, the gun is called the equalizer because even a small man can protect himself from a big bully. Russia is the small man in this conflict with the giant west. And Russia has the equalizing gun: nuclear weapons. We couldn't even win wars despite having the firepower to pummel the life out of small nations like Vietnam, Korea, and Afghanistan. Only a bully would take on a small guy. This is the trait of a coward. Russia is fighting for its life against us. Guess who is going to get hurt first.
SDavis · 56-60, F
I block them out - one of their purposes is to provoke. And I stopped going on their sites.
chubbysteve99 · 51-55, MVIP
One should be respectful of others regardless of faith. there are plenty of people out there off all persuasions, that whish to force their beliefs on all others that do't think like themselves.

If they keep going on ranting, that is what the block button is for.

This is sadly because they think they have the one whole truth, and are closed minded and disrespectful to others.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
It's not just a Christian thing. Very few people seem to know how to deal with differences of opinion or debate issues in an adult way.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@SW-User Strange response. There is no, or should be no, connection between whichever party one votes for, and whichever are one's religious beliefs.

Also, I have not said if I support the Conservative, Labour, Liberal-Democrat, Green or one of the Nationalist parties.

Nor have I said if I am Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Hindhu, Sikh, Wiccan, agnostic or atheist.
@ArishMell [quote]There is no, or should be no, connection between whichever party one votes for, and whichever are one's religious beliefs.[/quote]
I'd say there's one exception to that. If the candidate in question wants to mandate certain practices pertaining to his, her, or their religion and force them on everyone.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@LordShadowfire True, but that tends not to happen in British politics, because law-making here has to treat everyone as fairly as it can.

I don't say it necessarily always gets it right - no human system is ever infallible - but they do make the effort.
Torsten · 36-40, M
I am not Christian but i am religious. When you talk about your religious views online, you run the risk of having all sorts of people comment and say things you dont like. It is what it is.
Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F
@Torsten some Christian people are a little over excited which I understand because it feels like you suddenly know the cure for cancer but it's not helpful to those who are not there yet.
Torsten · 36-40, M
@Patientlywaiting which no offence is what i think gives Christianity such a bad impression on others
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graphite · 61-69, M
Atheists seem to feel the need to shout it from that the housetops that they "don't" believe in God. Doesn't make a lot of sense.
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sree251 · 41-45, M
@Strictmichael75 You personally? You are a little part of a big pond of croaking frogs at full moon.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
I understand your point and I do not condone their behaviour, but it does work the other way round, too.

However, whatever their behaviour, by no means all non-Christians are atheists.

Why do so many SW users fall into that trap?
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@Patientlywaiting There are constitutional links between Church and State in Britain but the politics generally are indeed ecumenical and secular.

They have to be because Britain hosts so many different religions and their sects, and none. One effect is the strong laws against religious discrimination.
Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F
@ArishMell do you have many people of differing religions in America?
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@Patientlywaiting I expect they do but I am neither American nor resident there.

We certainly do here: though a nominally Christian country, British society is of followers of all religions and none.
SDavis · 56-60, F
The more vulgar they are I block -

Some just seem to like to pest - I ignore

Some troll - which lets me know I am a Target after a certain amount of trolling I block

And this happens on every site even those that are designated to be Christian. And on atheist sites, the vulgarity this displayed, and I do mean vulgarity is overwhelming.
Really · 80-89, M
@SDavis My question is my question. There is nothing else that it 'should have been'.

I don't 'do' faecebook or twitter. Sadly, Google is somewhat unavoidable but it was great when it was just Dejanews (and, I think, still non-commercial?)

So why DO you look at atheist sites and their 'overwhelming vulgarity'?
Really · 80-89, M
@SDavis So why do you look at them?
SDavis · 56-60, F
@Really - so busy trying to be sarcastic you completely missed what I was saying I was on atheist sites 20 years ago - person!!!

Why

Because that was no other place to go to discuss Christianity 20 years ago. Oh you do know what decades mean don't you?

That's why


And I haven't done Facebook - Twitter and years so the comment it is meaningless. There are many Christian talk sites these days - which atheists are welcome to come to place their disagreements in a adult like fashion.

Not once did I say it wasn't your question - sarcasm is lacking.
SnowedIn · 46-50, M
We can neither ignore them nor block them. Christians are asked to boldly love everyone; all are His sheep.
dale74 · M
@NortiusMaximusatheists dont attack Muslims Hindu Buddhists like they attack Christians.
SW-User
@dale74 That’s because we’re loud
Well Jesus said we would never get a good word in from society.

It seems to me more American atheists do this- perhaps because of Christian Nationalists trying to defy the constitution, they then project their annoyance with them onto ther Christians.
@Patientlywaiting Trump is clearly acting to appease his fan base, love the clip where the reporter asks him what his favourite bible verse is 😂
Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F
@BritishFailedAesthetic yeah if he had he'd realise building a wall to keep the Mexicans out isn't very Christian same with the majority of his policies.
@Patientlywaiting Well, Christians are divided by that matter but how you treat a migrant is very important. "Filthy illegals", no matter how you go about it, is not Christ like conduct.
badminton · 61-69, MVIP
When it comes to religion All I care about is that believers respect the U.S. Bill of Right's first amendment guarantee of freedom of religion:

"Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise excise thereof."

People can believe any religion they want AS LONG as they respect the rights of others to do the same. And they respect the secular nature of our public institutions.
dale74 · M
Amazing how they are offended by someone they dont believe exists
eyeno · M
[b]hope this calms your Spirit..,[/b]

https://similarworlds.com/spirituality/god-creator/i-will-plant-the-seeds-of-the-word/4646788-Your-Job-I-shut-down-a-JW-After-a-couple-years-or-more-of
You should be concerned about your mental health!

Angels and ghosts are not real! Prayer doesn't accomplish anything. Gods aren't real. There have been thousands of religions in this world. Many Christian superstitions in fact derive from other religions like Mithraism.
@orioninthenight way to prove her wrong 😒
MountainMonk89 · 51-55, M
I've never put as much effort into trying to "convert" anyone to my faith as all the atheists I've known have put into trying to convert me.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@MountainMonk89 Have you known many?

The only proselytisers for any religious belief I have ever met were door-to-door evangelists for the UK branches of American churches / cults - and I've not been bothered by many of those, either. (Tell 'em you are not interested and they usually leave you alone after that.)

I do have a few religious friends but I have never met anyone trying to turn me into an "atheist" or any other "ist".
MountainMonk89 · 51-55, M
@ArishMell In academia, it's been rather ubiquitous.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@MountainMonk89 Oh? I didn't know that.

Are we in different countries? That might make a difference. I live in Britain, and I know some universities here have had problems with small but vociferous bunches of self-appointed censors trying to silence anyone with whom they disagree on social matters.

Social though - not religious.

I've not heard of any particular religious proselytising or control-attempts in academia here though. It might go on, but only on a small scale not noticed outside of the universities. There have been some instances of attempts to control schools on religious grounds, mainly in the past by the Roman Catholic Church and more recently some Muslim groups and the American organisations I call the 'Commercial Creationists'; but all UK schools have to teach a nationally-set curriculum and at least meet minimum educational and care standards.

Religion does not have a strong overall grip on the country, but the country hosts all religions and sects, and none.
sree251 · 41-45, M
I like to engage atheists, feminists, LGBTQIAs, liberals, progressives, entitled minorities, and other victims who want to be heard. I accept them all in an all out battle of the mind. My world would be empty without them.
SW-User
neutral agnostic-atheist here; don't care about posts, comments, replies, or reactions for or against Christianity or any other religion. it's one of the minor perks.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
I know atheists and they never attack religions, they just don’t believe and have nothing against christians
I just think those who attack are extremests
Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F
@Strictmichael75 yes most of my friends are atheist or agnostic, non of them are rude and hurtful.
akindheart · 61-69, F
that bothers me too because my faith is so deep in the Lord. I consider what they do a form of blasphemy.
Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F
@akindheart its easy to forget God loves them too and it matters how we respond. It should be loving and in a way that glorifies God but it's very hard at times!
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Patientlywaiting it is hard when they are bashing the Lord. i usually just walk away
SubstantialKick · 31-35, M
I try to ignore the rude and aggressive ones just like all the other jerks I come across. If we can treat each other like normal human beings, then there's no issue.
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
Tbh I'm not affiliated with a religion but those types are irritating. I've blocked a few just because they were so tedious and toxic.
Strict4u · 56-60, M
I just ignore them but asking them why it affects them that I believe in Jesus
SW-User
It is so sad you lead a BDSM lifestyle. You have so much to offer.
@SW-User Says the guy whose replies keep showing up in my feed, and who lies about the purpose of Similar Worlds.
SW-User
@LordShadowfire Yes, I have the same trouble with you. SW must be a very small site.
@SW-User Point being, I don't stalk anybody, despite the accusations. The website shows when someone replies to me.
1954zebedee · 70-79, M
How easy is it to accept Christians, particularly the loud ones who try to convert everyone by pushing their own beliefs?
Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F
@1954zebedee well that's what Christians are asked to do, try and bring people to God by sharing their beliefs but I would back off and try not to annoy people if it was clear it wasn't wanted.
sree251 · 41-45, M
@Patientlywaiting Share but don't load their plates with your food.
SW-User
@Patientlywaiting But surely your BDSM lifestyle is not remotely Christian though.
pdockal · 56-60, M
I enjoy engaging especially when they get upset and are proved wrong (not just this topic)
Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F
@pdockal you like upsetting people? Why?
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Patientlywaiting

It's fun when you blow there opinion out of the water because it doesn't have merits and they freak out because they are immature and can't take criticism

If it has merits I'll leave it alone or maybe give a compliment
Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F
@pdockal are you Christian?
Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
I tried to warn you about that one so you could save yourself the headache
SW-User
I get blocked by Christians, but then I would wouldn’t I!

Nothing new there.
I have an extremely short fuse with atheists. I can name only a few atheist SWeeps I haven't blocked. For many reasons, my blocking them is the wisest move
Thandeka · 31-35, F
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP I've never blocked anyone the years I've been here 😊.
Really · 80-89, M
Angels on a pinhead. Pshaw!
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sree251 · 41-45, M
@BibleData What kind of response would come from you?
BibleData · M
@sree251 What kind would you expect?
sree251 · 41-45, M
@BibleData Eye for an eye?
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BibleData · M
@Pikachu [quote]No need to willingly allow toxicity in your life.[/quote]

Life is toxic, and often people, especially creationist and evolutionist, aren't very keen for the exchange of ideas, but only want to proselytize. They only want one way streets.
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SW-User
@Strictmichael75 Again, this lady is a Christian. I am aware you live in this shady world. And could you please restrain in your language, remember I am English. A different culture.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
@SW-User I don’t care, this attitude is annoying, it’s always the same crap and I don’t live in a shady world, and as for a different culture check your facts!
SW-User
@Strictmichael75 I think the point I’m making is that no one can serve two masters. To quote St Matthews gospel. So who is her master, her Dom or The Lord.

The Lord cares for His sheep, in the same way as a Dom’s first concern is for his subs health and safety.

Again a Sub commits to serve her masters needs. A Christian commits himself/ herself to serve The Lord.

You see perhaps the dichotomy. Who is her master, certainly not you or me, the Lord perhaps, or her husband who reads and restricts her posts.

 
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