Found out he’s messaging other women

@SW-User yes ma’am

@SW-User

No dear, not all men are the same any more than all women are the same.

@Pikachu irdc what other people think, i can assure you that

@curiosi good advice!

@SW-User Sad but true. 🥺

@iamnikki Find the location of a women's shelter first if necessary.

@SweetMae Women's shelter? Have you ever been to one? They're horrible.

@TheArbitrator Fair enough ... they are in some places. Just find a safe place first.

He just asked why more people aren’t asking for clarification. Some people are really jealous. He (the so) may not have meant any harm at all. @smiler2012

@Spoiledbrat so basically we are jumping on the band wagon to give this woman help and advice she has asked for without knowing both sides of the story

@Spoiledbrat Some people enjoy ruining other people's relationships, especially when they've been hurt and have the mindset that they will never find happiness. A lot of relationships/marriages that could have been salvaged, have been wrecked because of someone giving bad advice. I'm not advocating that anyone remain in an unhappy relationship but as the says goes - the grass isn't always greener - and often times, it isn't.

I have seen bitter single mothers convince other women to leave their husbands - tearing the whole family apart - no consideration for the kids who are involved. I'm not saying anyone should remain in an unhappy marriage solely for the kids, but when children are involved, I do believe they should be considered. I have also seen couples who were at brink point make a decision to work things out and now they're happy.

Sometimes people are just unhappy no matter who they're with and they blame their significant other. They enter into the next relationship - it works for a while; then again, they're unhappy. They find reasons to accuse and leave. This cycle doesn't end until person realizes they're the reason for their own unhappiness.

I have no one else, I’m heavily pregnant with his child and can’t think of a way to fully get away from him @ozgirl512

@BadLion Read her post rather than making her repeat herself:

@bijouxbroussard I read this post but her 2 other posts are heartbreaking, and she is pregnant and lonely.

Her partner is obsessed with Social Media life: followers and likes. Which cause real life problems.

I think she is really trapped.

@BadLion Yeah, it sure looks like it. And she is pregnant. I’m not a fan of Laura Schlessinger, but her book “Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives” is worth checking out. (She wrote one for men, too.)😞

@TheArbitrator you seem to be overlooking his reaction....

@ozgirl512 I'm not overlooking his reaction but we don't have all the facts. What did he say to the other woman? Did he say something inappropriate? And why was she snooping through his phone to begin with? I'm not going to condemn someone or take sides without all the facts.

I suggested she move out because of how unhappy she seems. Even if he hasn’t cheated or crossed a line, she seems unhappy. How long is she going to stay this way. She’s putting herself in limbo. @TheArbitrator