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Found out he’s messaging other women

I’ve made a couple of posts about how I’m struggling with my relationship, however it somehow got even worse tonight after I caught him messaging other women and he absolutely flipped out on me and called my disgusting for getting upset and crying over it, he made me feel like dirt for wanting a monogamous relationship with him like he promised me when we first got together.
I’m trapped and have no idea how to get out.
I can’t live like this, he makes me feel so horrible about myself, yet I still love him and want him, it’s tearing me apart.

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TheArbitrator · 36-40, M

99% of these women on here who are telling you to leave have probably discovered their own boyfriends messaging other women at some point, or probably oblivious to the facts. You caught him messaging another woman; okay, I understand your concern, but why is everyone here so ready to condemn this guy? 🤣 What did he say to the other woman?

NoGamesTolerated · F

@TheArbitrator Or could it be that 99% of these women have good sense?

ozgirl512 · 31-35, F

@TheArbitrator you seem to be overlooking his reaction....

TheArbitrator · 36-40, M

@ozgirl512 I'm not overlooking his reaction but we don't have all the facts. What did he say to the other woman? Did he say something inappropriate? And why was she snooping through his phone to begin with? I'm not going to condemn someone or take sides without all the facts.

Spoiledbrat · F

I suggested she move out because of how unhappy she seems. Even if he hasn’t cheated or crossed a line, she seems unhappy. How long is she going to stay this way. She’s putting herself in limbo. @TheArbitrator