Men now or men in 1920? 🙈

@LadyJ I agree, LadyJ. Not egotistical, bossy, unfaithful, or controlling.

@nightjourney He looks exactly like my brother in law. lol

@nightjourney
Does sound funny, I'm sure he did not sweat over it. Oh well if that's what he wants...

Also regarding 'some of us guys think women actually do.' For the longest time men have been told to cry, show emotion and be like women. This is where that comes from. I'm traditional and don't do that, but lots of today's men do.

@nightjourney

Ok I'll answer that question. You want to know the facts? My mother died not too long ago and no I didn't cry. I don't do that. Almost no males I grew up with cry either. Yeah it's ok though, but most of us from my generation aren't into that. We express emotions in other ways like I build things and am productive. Then turn around and feel good about what I've created that will last like a work of art, yeah that moves me. Another example? Listen closely to tenor Lucianno Pavarotti's operatic crescendo at the very end of "Nessun Dorma" as he [i]belts out some serious soul[/i] and watch the faces...

[youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1BighyjTSXQ]
...yeah, that shit moves me alright

@MiserableAtBest How is it so different today? Actually, with Vietnam, Iraq, and Afghanistan plus smaller skirmishes, there has been as much or more of that in the 50+ years since 1970 than between 1920 and 1970.

@MiserableAtBest go to a restaurant and never come back 🤔 everything back then would kill you

@cherokeepatti Guess which one is Ned.

Clue:
He has a mustache.

@SW-User
[quote][i]The second from the left looks like he's having a giant boner[/i][/quote]

It's his birthday.

@cherokeepatti 🤢

[image deleted]@kodiac

@stratosranger Wait what? Maybe if i turn it upside down lol

@kodiac sigma male are better than alpha

@SW-User That’s the point of a generalization duh , he’s talking about the majority of men back then, not the minority. There’s always a minority in every society. And there’s always this annoying person to say “ not all are like that “ , of course not, but what are the statistics? The ratio? People who don’t get his comment have some reading and comprehension disabilities.

@bucktard as if pointing the other side of the coin isn't valid, I mean if you don't have anything else to do than giving judgemental opinions about a comment from ages ago that's sad.

@bijouxbroussard yeah I was stating that not everyone had the need to use violence when if it was acceptable, I know what you mean

@nightjourney hey, if you rely on looks for your choice of partner, go for it... I'm sure it will heed your future well. 😊

@empanadas Yes Cuban women in Fort Lauderdale & Miami in the 80s 😍

@JohnOinger you have good taste

@Slade Nice 70s Chicks Were Hot

@BlueVeins you mean when you’re my housepet

@nightjourney that's my plan

@hotarabgirl however you wanna phrase it

@pattycakechamp Cool, and to a lot of men, women look better in dresses, high heels and stockings. Fair is fair.

@nightjourney Me too. At my age, I do not want to marry again but I do wish there was such a thing as finding a gentleman friend my age whom I could just hang out with without them wanting to use me for "extra benefits". But that is like wishing for the Moon. I know better than to think that would ever happen. Those type gentleman just do not exist today. Sad.

@MalteseFalconPunch People who think things were better “back in the day” and weren’t around then, crack me up. Men are not stuck in stereotypical roles because [b]women[/b] aren’t anymore. And I don’t want to go back. My grandmother actually had a college degree and a career—very unusual for that time—until her family made her give it up and marry the husband they chose for her. 🙄

@Jenny1234 Many don't know how to dress, or take pride in their appearance.

@nightjourney

They even more than 💯 now

@nightjourney dont worry the have a woman already

@nightjourney My house is a DD relationship my rules

@Valerian you're wrong.

@Iwillwait Well, I'm not surprised! 🤷🏻‍♂️

@SStarfish I agree.

@PrincessAwesome Imma start a catboy ranch over in these parts.

@CountScrofula Yasss!

@PrincessAwesome

@nightjourney No. People who were depressed were often [b]institutionalized[/b], some even lobotomized. Considered an embarrassment and put away. People did a lot of hiding back then. It seems like more people are depressed because you can [b]see[/b] them. They’re being counseled, treated with medication and mostly allowed to live autonomous lives, not locked away.

@nightjourney

No.

@Rose0415 That guy brought down the wall. 😎

@SW-User My dad had a mullet back then according to some photos 😂.

@Rose0415 That was the start of it.

@nightjourney 👍💪

@SethGreene531 Yeah..love the way they dressed...wish that was still the norm because thats niiiiice.

@black4white 100 % agree. It was classy. We've all but lost that nowadays.

@nightjourney true it does

@SW-User [quote]real man does not smoke or drink[/quote]

@iamelijah I dunno about that.

Marriage had more value back then. Men wanted a good wife and were willing to do what it took for the wives and families.

That's not to say there wasn't misogyny, but there were different dynamics back then.

I think old school feminism was very necessary to bring balance into the equation, but I think in modern times there is a lot of confusion and animosity, and dysfunction between the sexes.

It's 2021, and a lot of men and women are unhappy and unfulfilled when it comes to dating and sexual dynamics.

@nightjourney When it the next season coming !!!!

@nightjourney I went out and check season 6 starts next week in the UK. No Date yet for when it will be in the U.S.

@somedude15 The more things change, the more they stay the same.

old school values and class 👍🏼@nightjourney

@SStarfish There was always a trade-off.

@nightjourney compare what women did those days, only expected to stay at home, kinda serving their husbands, people stayed together not because of love exactly.

@nightjourney most didn't have the opportunity of getting superior education either

@JohnOinger [image deleted]Would you do a Flapper from the 1920's?

@chrisCA hell yes

@JohnOinger Nice. One would have to be careful though. I read that STDs were rampant back then.

@JonathanC That's exactly what it means.

@nightjourney
[quote]well when they don't have to work their asses off because there is no man that works hard enough to make ends meet anymore, then these woman can come back 😬
And that is pretty elegant[/quote]

Well all I can say is when I moved back from California with nothing except a uhaul with all I owned, dragging my small car on a trailer (that broke apart halfway home 1,000+ miles away), and about a thousand bucks to my name, it took a few years of working my glutes off to get back on my feet again. After 3-4 years I bought a condo, a nice car that I paid off, a tenant that pays regular rent on time, and a hopeful future. Saving money instead of spending it is key. Now I can look forward to moving to Panama when I retire.

Btw, that lady has something that distinguishes her from others - class and quality. But there is also something hidden that you cannot readily see - she has obvious self-respect and dignity. Honorable characteristics. These women can come back, anyway.

@nightjourney
The cycle of prosperity and regression in society goes like this.

[media=https://youtu.be/fYDG_bwnzTI]
History repeats this pattern regularly. The point is, right now there are few warriors. They're not being raised anymore and soon there will be none. We have what you see around you each day, which I figure is the reason for your post in the first place. Hope this helps you.

@nightjourney yeah i'm mostly talking about people who get boobjobs because they have weird breast like from a wound or cancer taking them away!

squats are better!

@nightjourney well i mean i don't mind it as an aesthetic thing! but i mean if it can be achieved by normal means i think its fine but if its like the cardashians or someone like nickiminaj they are just slutty barbie dolls really!

@nightjourney I often feel that we (collectively all of us in the developed world) seem to have short memories about what happened last century and the sacrifices that our ancestors made for us to enjoy what we enjoy today.

@nightjourneyoh I know all to well some still do but it was like common and encouraged back then

@LadyJ What about men from the 70s the bell bottoms Lesuire Suits Polyester 🕺

@JohnOinger na not for me 😏😁

@LadyJ Or beating them off - if you are male or non-binary!😱

@nightjourney you be you. I never implied you were needy . You’re good in my book girl.

@Tminus6453 lol

@nightjourney That was some fast typing. :P

@nightjourney Yes I’m a lucky guy. A squishy face but 3 women in my life to keep me honest.

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