If you were in a serious relationship and you learned that your partner cheated on you one drunken night, could you forgive him/her?
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nobodyishome · 31-35, F
If my partner cheated on me, I will NEVER stop loving him or believing in him and motivating him to be his best. NEVER. I am not good with goodbyes.
I would totally wish all the bad things in the world for the one he cheated with, everything bad.
But I will NEVER stop loving and caring about my partner. I am not made like that.
I would totally wish all the bad things in the world for the one he cheated with, everything bad.
But I will NEVER stop loving and caring about my partner. I am not made like that.
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Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@nobodyishome it’s easy to be taken advantage of like that.
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
@Moneyonmymind yea, it is. And these advantages obviously surface when I leave them. So, then they want me back. But not this time.
NOS4R2 · 41-45
Its never the same again. Even if you forgive. That doubt is always there, hiding in the shadows of your memory. I tried, but eventually left. The trust had been broken and it tainted everything else after that.
I imagine extensive time might help heal something like that, eventually.
I imagine extensive time might help heal something like that, eventually.
Baremine · 70-79, C
@NOS4R2 it took thirty years for me to trust my wife fully. But the true breakdown and tears of repentance helped. You can tell if they are sincere. We have had 27 years since the trust was rebuilt for a total of 57+ years of marriage. It was well worth it. Just remember how Jesus Christ forgives us when we sincerely ask.
I remember how much I loved my sobbing wife as I held her in my arms and realized she was truly remorseful.
I remember how much I loved my sobbing wife as I held her in my arms and realized she was truly remorseful.
Northwest · M
I would understand she's not ready for a relationship, and ask her to get in touch when she is. If I'm still available, and willing to bet the status of my relationship on her sobriety.
SeekingConnection · 61-69, M
If I loved them and didn't want to lose them, I almost certainly would forgive them. At the same time, I don't feel that two-timing your partner is something you would do if you had a conscience and really cared about them.
Gingerbreadspice · F
Ashly · 26-30, F
For me that’s unforgivable.
If they were capable of cheating once most likely they could do it again.
I would be willing to participate in a threesome if that’s something they had in mind but that’s a whole other topic
I’m rambling now… What was the question again? 😅
If they were capable of cheating once most likely they could do it again.
I would be willing to participate in a threesome if that’s something they had in mind but that’s a whole other topic
I’m rambling now… What was the question again? 😅
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Moneyonmymind what about it? lol
Captain · 61-69, MNew
I would probably forgive her but she wouldn't forgive me, which is ironic because I still think Im the one who really wants out of our relationship so I can still try and capture something special before I die.
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nobodyishome · 31-35, F
@SmileOnYourBrother Ohh let them catch you at your most vulnerable moment. Trust me. You will.
swirlie · F
@YourMomsSecretCrush
You're repeating yourself now and you're not answering my question.
Where is the line in the sand drawn? At what point in your relationship after you'd first met her is what I'm asking.
You're repeating yourself now and you're not answering my question.
Where is the line in the sand drawn? At what point in your relationship after you'd first met her is what I'm asking.
@swirlie it probably varies from relationship to relationship. but, in this particular one, it was after about a year when we moved in together.
SmileOnYourBrother · 61-69
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Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
IloveLucy · 22-25, F
Nope
SissySecrets · 46-50
AbbeyRhode · F
Yes, but I couldn't be with him any more.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
I could see a world where I'd say either yes or no, I'm not going to preemptively answer yes though, that'd give them a reason to cheat on me.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
Yes.
I think so,yeah
simjks4 · 22-25, M
Yeah nah
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
No, you can't cheat and say you were drunk.
You don't sleep with your Mom or Sis no matter how drunk you get. So yea that's that.
You don't sleep with your Mom or Sis no matter how drunk you get. So yea that's that.
Elessar · 26-30, M
@nobodyishome Nah
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
@Elessar
I'm sorry, I thought you were replying on my thread. I'm sorry for being rude like this. :)
Your ultramicrobaterial mind has got nothing on my kinda men. Loyal and honest.
I'm sorry, I thought you were replying on my thread. I'm sorry for being rude like this. :)
BigImo · 26-30, F
I wouldn't need to forgive them cos they did nothing wrong
Raaii · 22-25, F
No can never
Tarnished · 26-30, M
I did the first time, not the second time.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
@SkeetSkeet 😂😂😂
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
@SkeetSkeet I cheated on my ex-husband, and my partner that I cheated with got cancer. And dealgerbil is dead now 😂😂 need i learn more 🙊
deadgerbil · 26-30, M
@SkeetSkeet it's 2025 now, can we move past that
No? Next question
Futuremirror · M
@PinkMoon 👌👍
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
Give me the details lol
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
So many variables at play here
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
What about when your partner was literally seduced into cheating?
swirlie · F
@nobodyishome
Well, what do you think the answer is to your own question is what I'm asking?
Well, what do you think the answer is to your own question is what I'm asking?
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
@swirlie What are you asking, again?
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
GerOttman · 61-69, M
What do I look like, Hillary Clinton??
Felina · F
Never happened, never will.
Anyone who sits oh the fence with this deserves what they get
Gotta fight for what you love and protect it at all costs
Period.
Next question lol 💋
Anyone who sits oh the fence with this deserves what they get
Gotta fight for what you love and protect it at all costs
Period.
Next question lol 💋
mindstruggle · F
Solid NO.
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Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
Nope. It’s over as soon as I find out. 🤷🏾♂💯
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FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
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Alyosha · 31-35, M
No.
Sutten · 36-40, F
No