They take kindness for weakness and are surprised when I get angry.

im kinder thani am mad

That I am very smart actually use common sense work hard and get lucky but not super smart

That I like ALL Feet

that my looks is not really average

That it ain't easy bein' this goodlookin'!

That the bulge in my pants isn’t really my cock

That I'm not choosing pain. That I'm not an idiot. I have PTSD and fibromyalgia. I didn't have the normal life.

That I am free. That all my time is theirs to dispose of.

That I am not gay or bi, and that the reason I live and dress as I do now is because of my childhood and that I spent 27 years doing and seeing the worst man can do to man in the U.S. Army, that compounding this I lost my son when he was 21 to suicide when he was in the Army like I was.

That PTSD and fighting to survive it has me where I am today and nothing else.

I forgive but never forget.

Just about everything

IRL people tend to think I'm always serious.

People think I'm naive but I'm not.

People don’t misunderstand who I am nearly as much as they misunderstand why I am that way.

Everything tbh. Even some of the most simple things people make silly assumptions about.

Everything I do feels misunderstood, like I owe the world an explanation just for being me.

Perhaps the MAIN thing that is misunderstood is by my own design. I tend to project a safe and naive demeanor, (nice nice nice, sweet sweet sweet), and that misleads people into thinking I am a pushover.

In fact, I am very intelligent, and stubborn, and easily angered. My father was a Bird Colonel in the US Army, and a fighter, and I am a LOT like him.

It's more like...
A huge bunch of little things that add up,

Not just one thing...
It's weird.
Can't really be summarised.

That I'm actually horny from time to time. People always take it as a joke when I let that shine through. 🙄

One thing by everyone? I have no idea, it's probably as diverse as I am.
Maybe underestimate what I know, because I don't reveal much.

I don't know. If there is anything no one mentioned it.

They mistake my shyness for snobbery

I may be quiet and soft-spoken, but that only means I am thoughtful before speaking; not that I can be ignored or overlooked.

I wouldn't know but i misunderstood myself for a long time.. i can’t speak for others